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In 1960, I was born in a small town in the northeast. My parents were both poor and lower-middle peasants who only started to learn to learn literacy after the liberation in the 1950s.
may be born with the spirit of Northeastern people to refuse to give in. In this environment, I know that I am not smart, but I understand one thing in my heart:
In this world, if you want to live beautifully, you cannot neglect the hardships that life gives us; if you want to realize your dream, you must make double the effort than others; if you want to become excellent, you must strictly demand yourself. In short, if you want to live well, you have to rely on yourself. Only by fighting to the death can you have core competitiveness that others cannot match.
01: I will never slacken my slackness. The accumulation day after day has allowed me to accumulate my strength at critical moments
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There is a saying on the Internet: "Water drops through the stone are not the power of water, but the power of persistence." This sentence means that to achieve something, no matter how much you do every day, as long as you continue to do it and repeat a simple thing, you will see amazing results in the long run.
When I was just in elementary school, I learned to do a "work and rest schedule" under the guidance of my teacher. That was my first time doing it. The teacher said that after we have done a schedule, we can write down everything we have to do in the day and then do it one by one according to the things on the schedule.
At that time, I didn’t know so much. I was very obedient and wrote my own schedule every day, and did things strictly according to my schedule. Even during the Spring Festival, I would arrange activities according to my schedule. Learn when it’s time to learn, and exercise when it’s time to exercise, never stop. Until now, I have maintained this habit, but the form has changed slightly.
It is precisely because of my accumulation day after day, year after year that I maintain efficient study and life. When resumed the college entrance examination in 1978, because I did not stop studying in the past, I successfully entered the fast class of our school, and later successfully skipped the grade and entered the Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications .
Because I have been working hard on every little thing for more than ten years, I have achieved the accumulation and success after opening the college entrance examination policy. In my later days, I also tasted the sweetness brought by continuous accumulation and self-sufficiency.
For example, the weak and sick body brought from the womb, has been practicing martial arts, swimming, cycling, and doing yoga for 50 years. I can still have a 30-year-old body when I was 62 years old. All of this is because I never slacken at any time and I am fighting to the death every moment.
02: Don’t give up if you fight to the death, work hard + endurance to let me successfully take the postgraduate entrance examination
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Luo Zhenyu said that this era must have the spirit of fighting to the death. In fact, no matter what era you are in, if you want to realize what you think, you must fight to the death.
82, I had just graduated from the Computer and Communications Department of Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications and was assigned to the Second Engineering Company of the Ministry of Posts and Telecommunications. But I discovered a very serious problem. I couldn't use my computer expertise in the company. When I knew that other students in the same major had made progress in computers after graduation, but I couldn't move forward, I was extremely anxious. So, in the second year of work, I made up my mind to take the postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, the postgraduate entrance examination needed a letter of introduction. I found the leader and asked, "Are you college students "Feige brand" bicycles? You want to leave without making any contributions to the company? Don't agree, give me a safe job!" In this way, I missed the opportunity to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but I always had the idea of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, and I was unwilling to give up just like that.
Because we are an engineering company, most of our employees travel on business trips to other places for 10 months in a year. My friends from the company saw that I had always wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but if I had the chance, I gave me some advice. She told me: "If you want to have children after getting married and it is not convenient to travel on a business trip, the company may release you."
I didn’t think much about it at the time, and I was determined to take the postgraduate entrance examination and improve my professional abilities.In this way, I took the "curve-to-nation saving the country" route and decided to marry my boyfriend who had been in love for five years immediately. Although all this was not within my plan, I made a quick decision for the dream of taking the postgraduate entrance examination in my heart. After marriage, I soon got pregnant. I didn’t have to go on a business trip as I wished. During my pregnancy, I still insisted on reviewing advanced mathematics.
After the baby was born, I could no longer take care of my work and take care of my children, and I also had the burden of taking the postgraduate entrance examination. So, I took another year off to review while taking care of my children. At this time, I had been graduating for more than 4 years and I forgot about what I learned in college. Unfortunately, the baby is calcium-deficient and has to wake up several times every night. Every time I have to take a long time to soothe him before falling asleep, but after a while, he and she started crying again. At that time, I was exhausted every day.
When the child is 6 months old, he always gets sick due to low immunity, and the number of trips to the hospital continues to increase. I also thought to myself that taking care of the children is tiring enough, why should I make things difficult for myself? Wait until the child is older before taking the exam. And I feel drowsy every day and my learning efficiency is not high. But I know that this time I compromise, the next time will be nowhere to be achieved. I gritted my teeth and continued to take the time to review. God lives up to the hard work. I finally successfully got ashore five years after graduating from university and passed the postgraduate degree in Computer Science of Jilin University.
So, never believe in "next time". Many times, what you said will wait for next time and wait for next time, it is very likely that you will never do it and will never start. No matter when, you must fight to the death and never give up. When you put in tens of your efforts and infinite endurance, you can achieve your goals.
03: I will never accept my fate. I will strive to do the best in everything. Let me strive to achieve the core competitiveness.
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" Farewell My Concubine " has a classic line: If you want to be a character, you have to make your own contribution. I think it is very good. Only when people don’t accept their fate and fight with each other can they have infinite possibilities.
After graduating from graduate school, I entered the workplace again. At that time, I was already 30 years old. I joined a foreign company in Shanghai to work as a software engineer. When I first started working, I was assigned some very small jobs. I know that this is not a difficult task for me, but it is also a test of my psychology. I thought to myself, no matter how simple the matter is, I will do my best to do it to the best.
So no matter what work the leader assigned me, I will do my best and fulfill my duties conscientiously. At the same time, I will also think about constantly improving and innovating, and strive to do my best in every small step. In some places where the boundaries of work in the enterprise are not very clear, I always take a little more than other colleagues.
That's it, I have very outstanding achievements in every job I do, my attitude towards dealing with everything, and my leaders see it all. It is precisely because of this that I was promoted step by step, from a software engineer to a R&D manager, then to a R&D center director, then to a quality director, and finally promoted to a general manager of the business department. Later, the company also elected me as a member of the CPPCC in Pudong New District . At this point, in the computer software engineering industry, because of my disobedience, I have achieved competitiveness that others cannot match.
In this way, where is there a natural good fate? The so-called "good fate" is sometimes an excuse when you envy what a person has but cannot get it. Therefore, when encountering things, no matter how big or small, as long as you don’t accept your fate and try your best to do the best you can, you can become your protagonist.
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Friends, life will become more exciting because of fighting hard. Sometimes people can be more ruthless to themselves.Luo Zhenyu fought to himself, so he became the darling of the Internet; Jack Ma fought to himself, so he had the current Alibaba ; Jobs fought to himself, so we saw the current world; Zeng Guofan fought to himself, and became a famous general from an ordinary person.
Maybe you are on the road to pursuing your dreams and are encountering a moment of confusion. Please don’t relax, don’t give up, don’t accept your fate. When you insist on “holding yourself to the death”, you will definitely be able to uncover the mystery of becoming a better self.
