In fact, what makes people anxious is not that they are busy or tired, but that there is nothing that they are particularly interested in or anyone that they particularly want to see. I know that I should work hard, but I can't find the direction. I live aimlessly day after day in a haze like this.
In fact, your pressure comes from your inability to discipline yourself. You are just pretending to work hard. The current situation cannot keep up with your inner desires, so you are anxious or even panicked. The best state of a person is when he knows what he wants and goes all out. If you cannot bear the pain of self-discipline, you will suffer the sin of mediocrity.
There is no direction and the road cannot be seen clearly. In fact, I knew a few years ago that I wanted to work hard to improve myself, but I didn’t have a clear goal and couldn’t find a way forward. Every time I calm down and analyze myself, I always find that I need to improve in all aspects and want to do a lot of things. Then I fell into endless entanglements, and finally let it go, reading novels, watching videos, and killing time.
Life is not easy, timely encouragement. I saw a short video today. The protagonist mistakenly transferred 100 yuan of phone bills to someone else's card, and begged for more than five minutes to get the money back. What he talked about was the changes in men before and after marriage: before marriage, they can smoke high-end cigarettes and attend friends' gatherings. After marriage, the quality of cigarettes decreases year by year, and there are fewer parties. Don't think that they are all luxury cars and villas. This is the real situation of most men. Some are old and some are young. They dare not get sick or be hospitalized.
Although self-discipline is hard, mediocrity suffers. It is by no means an easy task to overcome your laziness and improve your abilities. It has been several months since I was preparing for the exam, and it has become increasingly difficult. Sometimes I feel like vomiting while reading. But I know that I must never give up. Self-discipline is hard because what I want to change is a "comfortable" life. However, mediocrity is even more terrifying. If we don’t have any skills, we will slowly become marginalized and eventually become eliminated.
If you cannot endure the pain of self-discipline, you will suffer the sin of mediocrity. When the current situation cannot keep up with your desires, you will inevitably fall into anxiety and panic.
