For me, giving up recording life is a very scary thing.
Giving up recording life means that you have no enthusiasm and expectations for your current life. You are tired of your life, you have lost your curiosity and your ideals. You basically don’t think about what time to get off work today and what to eat. There is no other problem, your life has no fun and meaning anymore.
also represents the sunrise in the morning, the sunset in the evening, the changing white clouds, the bright moonlight, the gentle breeze and drizzle, the green trees on the roadside, the lawns by the river, the jumping children, the elderly who are used to watching the autumn moon and spring breeze, The loving couple, the girl walking her dog, the chirping bird, the roadside barbecue stall, the iced watermelon, and the steaming steamed buns all have nothing to do with you.
The world never lacks beauty and happiness, but it lacks the eyes and mood to discover.
Therefore, no matter how bad life is now, don’t give up the desire to record life. Even if you don’t send it to others, you must learn to taste the small blessings in life and discover the small joys in life. Happiness is a kind of ability. If we love our daily life, we can become a happy person. Life passes too fast, and we are too forgetful. Only the life we remember belongs to us, and the life we forget is wasted.
Develop the habit of writing a diary. Find a few small things worth being happy about every day and record them. You will become happier and more confident. Or take a few photos every day for a year, and when you look back together at the end of the year, you will feel extremely happy.
People are just passers-by in the world. Only the experience at that time and the memories afterwards belong to themselves. Every time you encounter a heart-warming moment, write it down, take a photo, and record it. It can enrich our lives and give us the courage to resist setbacks and move on.
We are not here to waste our lives, not to live our lives, and not to live for others to see. We are here to experience life.
We should only focus on ourselves and focus only on our own growth.
I have a friend like this. He only cares about himself and hardly cares about anyone else's evaluation. He seems to be particularly eager for quick success and instant benefit and quantifies everything. For example, he thinks he is worth a thousand yuan an hour. If you ask him to go fishing, or eat and sing karaoke, or help move, he will evaluate the value and ask, is it worth going? If it's not worth it, don't go.
For example, if someone asks him to go for a drink, he will evaluate who he is going with, what he will talk about, and how valuable it is. If it is a pure waste of time, he should not go from the perspective of being responsible for himself.
If you are responsible for your own life, then you should regard your own affairs as more important than anything else.
What is life? Your time is your life. Many people regard their time too cheaply. This means disrespecting their own life and disrespecting themselves. A person who does not respect himself cannot be respected by others.
Others respect you not because you give them face, but because you are valuable.
Who is valuable? People whose time is valuable are valuable, people who have real talent, vision, and can bring wealth or ideas to others are valuable.
Cherish your time, use it to study, use it to improve yourself, use it to think, use it to practice deliberately, use it to review deeply, use it to keep fit, use it to improve your cognition, use it to keep trying, and use it to solve difficulties. Do things that you love, these are the things that are truly valuable.
You are embarrassed to reject others, why are you embarrassed to reject yourself?
Always remember that you are your best friend, the person you owe the most is yourself, and the person you should respect the most is yourself.
Learn to respect yourself, starting from respecting your own time.
