Sometimes we show our heart and soul to others, but what we get in return is that others turn a blind eye. The social model of sitting on the bench for a long time makes people feel weak and heartbroken after a long time. Our enthusiasm cannot be exchanged for a heart-to-heart co

Sometimes we treat others with all our heart and soul, but what we get in return is that others turn a blind eye.

The social model of sitting on the bench for a long time makes people feel powerless and heartbroken after a long time.

Our enthusiasm cannot be exchanged for heart-to-heart comparison, and sometimes there is no equal exchange at all.

This kind of obvious dislike can still make people feel it, so just stay away and you will not be in a passive stage all the time. What

is afraid of is the kind of fake good person who is obviously very friendly to you, but actually looks down on himself.

So how do you judge those who look down on you? In fact, it is quite easy to distinguish.

1 People who don’t respect you

I wonder if you have ever encountered such people at work. Obviously the boss assigned you to do something, but there are always people who will rush to do it quietly and ignore you directly.

My cousin, who works in sales, has a weak temper and is easy to control. She once complained to me that it was her turn to receive guests, and the female colleague who came to meet me quickly greeted her with a smile.

An old colleague thought that this woman was breaking the rules. When we discussed the matter in private, she ignored her and made other remarks.

actually takes credit in a blink of an eye, saying that he is worried that you can't do well, so he has to do it for you.

Don’t think that the other person really means well, but they are just using the guise of good intentions to steal your opportunity to show off.

Because he doesn’t value you from the bottom of his heart and thinks that you are doing worse than him. If you ask him to take action, he will definitely mess up the matter.

The other person doesn’t value you at all and thinks you are inferior to him from the bottom of his heart.

Even if you entered the company earlier than him, in his heart you are not as good as him and he just ignores you.

When you meet such people in the workplace, you should take the initiative to do your own work.

As for this type of person, since the other person always denies himself and uses actions to attack you, there is no need for you to get close to him.

Just pretend to be confused when you should. It is not worth wasting time and energy with this kind of people.

2 People who are indifferent to you

There is a type of people who look down on others and their habit is to be indifferent.

Respond to everything with indifference, or do not consider other people's face, especially among relatives.

During the Spring Festival, my siblings and I paid our uncle a New Year's greeting together. There was a lot of traffic on the road, and it was almost time to eat, but we were stuck in traffic just as we set off.

The younger brother was impatient and lost his temper. The elder sister comforted him not to be anxious and drive slowly.

The younger brother slapped his face in front of his brother-in-law, and the older sister laughed awkwardly and then shut her mouth.

People who look down on you in their hearts will be very cold and stingy to the point where they won't even give you an extra glance or word, even when they eat together.

and your children will also be looked down upon. As long as you make a small mistake, both adults and children will blame you, and there is no tolerance for you.

The reason is that in the eyes of the other party, you are a good-for-nothing person to him, that is, you have no ability.

He won't be able to benefit from you for the time being, and he is afraid that you will ask him for help, so he doesn't want to have anything to do with you.

Since he doesn't care, it's okay to stop the loss as soon as possible, otherwise you will cry one day.

3 People who like to tease you

I used to know a frail middle-aged woman. Once she had chemotherapy and her hair was gone. She often wore a hat when going out.

I saw her feeling depressed once, and I found out after chatting with her.

In her village, there were several tongue-tied women who made fun of her in front of her face.

bases his own happiness on the pain of others. On the surface, it seems to be a casual joke.

It is embarrassing to laugh at other people's shortcomings in public places.

makes random jokes about other people's shortcomings and privacy, just to look down on that person.

If he refutes it, he will say that he has this kind of personality.

On the contrary, it's all your fault. It's because you can't take a joke and you are petty, so I give you various labels.

will give you all kinds of embarrassment overtly and covertly, and will even dig holes for you to jump out of, making it impossible for you to step down in front of everyone.

There is no need to please the people you meet throughout your life, just say more if you can talk to them.

If you can’t talk, keep silent. Be stronger inside. There is no need to be disturbed by people who look down on you.

The best way to deal with those who look down on you is: don't accept the situation and don't cater to them.

As long as you live your whole life, try not to get together and follow blindly.

If you do your own thing well, you won’t have time to care about other people’s opinions .