Text/Xia Mo
01, Preface
Zhuang Zhou wrote in "Zhibeiyou": "Life is like a fleeting moment, all of a sudden."
People live a lifetime, always feeling that life is long, but it is just a blink of an eye. It seems that before I have time to fully appreciate the process of life, I am already slowly getting older.
No one can change the fact that they are getting older, and it is difficult to retrieve the time and youth that have passed away.
Although when people get old, they cannot change the rhythm of time, but they can decide how to spend their old age. Life is short, especially in your later years when time becomes even more precious.
People should maintain a good attitude as they grow older.
Don't worry about trivial matters and worry about them, instead of thinking about food and drink. Because everything in this world is just an experience.
On the way to getting older, learn to empty your heart and not worry about everything, and happiness will come uninvited.
02. Keep a calm mind and don’t worry about everything.
On the way to getting older, keep a calm mind and rest on yourself.
There are many things in life that have not happened yet, but they often bring fear and anxiety to people. In fact, it's all because of magnifying the fantasy.
When you get old, you should calm down and don't be too anxious and nervous about things that have never happened.
As a human being, you need to know how to prepare for a rainy day, but excessive worry will turn into unfounded worries. You must learn to think for the best in everything, and don't keep it in your mind just because of something, amplifying its negative impact.
Ruruo fell into despair and suffered an extremely heavy blow. Still, you can think about everything you have in your hands and your unfulfilled dreams.
Some pain must be experienced in order to grow, and only after you get through it will you know that everything is nothing.
When people get old, don’t panic, worry, or be melancholy when something happens, but learn to empty your heart and accept it quietly and calmly.
There is no need to bother yourself, everything you lose has a certain amount.
In this world, everything we get is related to cause and effect. Do what you are doing well, maintain a kind heart, and have a clear conscience in everything you do, and your life will become more and more peaceful.
03. Be alone and learn to look down on
Howard said: "If you are alone in the world, completely alone, you can use this loneliness as your comfort and your strength."
On the way to getting older, there is no need to pursue There is so much prosperity and excitement on the road of life, and some roads must be walked alone.
Maybe the people you love most are just passing by in your world, or maybe the people around you have never really entered your heart. Please learn to look down on people who come and go in your life.
Emotional matters should not be forced.
If you don't have soul resonance when you get along with others, and you can't feel more tacit understanding, leave yourself a clean circle, leave yourself a piece of pure land, and live your own life.
When you get old, please learn to be alone and look down on the evil of human nature. On the road of life, there is no need to waste energy on low-quality social interactions.
Loneliness is not a very lonely state.
If you can make good use of your alone time and concentrate on doing what you like to do, you will find that you can quickly improve yourself and complete the things at hand.
When a person gets old, it is enough to have three or five friends. Learn to be alone, learn to reconcile with yourself, and manage your own life well.
04, Xiangyang, live an active life
People live a lifetime, whether you are happy or unhappy, life is limited.
On the way to getting older, please learn to live towards the sun, love life, and love the life path you choose.
On the way to getting older, as long as you don’t lose confidence in yourself and are still passionate about life, nothing is impossible.
No matter how old you are, let yourself have a strong body and still be able to travel around the world. If you have perseverance and hard work, you can still become a leader in the industry.
No one can change the fact that we are getting older. However, you can maintain a good heartbeat, take good care of your body, and keep yourself looking young.
Time can change a lot of things. If you manage your relationship well, the people who love you will still be by your side.
If you can live a happy life without thinking about the sad past, let alone worrying about the future. There will still be beautiful scenery after you grow old, and you can still turn your life into a magnificent scene.
When you are alone, calm down, forget your worries and sorrows, and live an active life, leaving only the past that made you happy. Recall it slowly, and the corners of your mouth will turn up unconsciously.
05. Summary
Everything presented in life may not be a perfect picture for everyone. Just like the world is full of rain and sunshine, after laughing heartily, there may be an unforgettable desolation deep in the heart.
On the way to getting older, if you learn to accept the imperfections of the world, accept the simplicity of life, and accept your own imperfections, you will often live a happier life.
On the way to getting older, clear your heart and don’t worry about everything. When you know how to relax and accept the world, happiness will come.
Lin Qingxuan said: "Life is just like this, pursuing to become a better, more spiritual and spiritual self."
When people get old, they should clear away the negative emotions in their hearts and retain their original aspirations. Don’t think about how much more you can do or how long your life will last. But to motivate yourself, as long as you are alive, you must be worthy of this day.
On the way to getting older, if you can take life seriously, life will also give you the best feedback.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional mentor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with over 1 billion people on the Internet, and a manager of happy women. He has focused on emotions, gender, and answering questions about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
