British writer Hardy : "Human spirituality should be said to be noble and persevering, not despicable or decadent." I am not greasy in my middle age. When I hear this sentence, I always feel a bit ironic. . Why is it said that middle-aged people are greasy? Why are middle-aged people greasy? What are the signs of being greasy in middle-aged people? It has to be said that this series of problems has put a sad label on middle-aged people. The "middle-aged greasy man" once caused quite a controversy in society, and many educated and knowledgeable public figures were included in it. The reasons for this vary, but it has to be said that the relationship between middle-aged men and oily people is quite complicated and difficult to explain clearly.
Everyone has desires, and all kinds of desires are around us, right in front of our eyes. Officialdom, shopping malls, the workplace, and the love scene, all kinds of temptations, all kinds of fights, and all kinds of competitions make men feel exhausted physically and mentally. A man never sheds tears easily. No matter how much suffering or tiredness he has, he can only bear it silently and cry alone in his heart. Don't tell others, don't talk to others, hold a teacup in hand and pretend to be indifferent, turn a blind eye to pretend to be cool. In fact, these behaviors of men are a kind of helplessness, a kind of escape, and a kind of anesthesia.
Hegel said: "Time is like a passing river, everything is placed in it and swept away." The years are long, and the time has passed. The former glory and youthful vitality have gradually faded away with the pace of time. The hair has turned white, the eyes have become blurred, and the brain has become sluggish. These unconscious changes have brought sadness, helplessness, inferiority, and loneliness to the lives of middle-aged people. In the face of physiological changes, middle-aged people also have different behaviors. Some people accept it passively, do nothing, and become dull and mediocre in the greasy atmosphere. Some people have a sunny mentality, are optimistic, live a wonderful life, and have a refreshing spirit. For example, Zhong Nanshan, such as Yuan Longping.
It is a state and an ability for people to not be greasy in middle age and to keep their body and mind refreshed. Read, write, travel. Let go of past grievances, let go of past honors and disgrace, let your mind become peaceful and tranquil, and make your life simple and pure. Middle-aged people should have the mentality of middle-aged people, and middle-aged people should have the character of middle-aged people. Neither sad nor happy, neither impatient nor impatient, with a peaceful and indifferent mood, and a rich and colorful life, is the most beautiful life.
