1997 was a special year. At that time, there was no Internet, no WeChat, and no hot searches. The big things at that time were the real big things, and we had been looking forward to them for a long time.
In 1997, 25 years have passed. Time is like a loach, slippery and slippery. If you don't pay attention, it will disappear without leaving a tail. However, what made me recall 1997 was not the grand occasion that year, but a post on Tianya in 2007. I can no longer find the original post of
, but I guess many people have seen it.
The poster claimed that he traveled back in time from 1997 and was about to travel back in time. Let everyone send a message to themselves in 1997, and he can convey it to you.
Of course, this can't be true. But that post is like a skyscraper, and everyone wants to say something to themselves ten years ago. It seems that that sentence can change his destiny and lead him to the pinnacle of life.
Some people want to tell their past selves the password to wealth, and turn on the unlimited gold coin mode in real life. From now on, they will no longer be shackles by money. They can say goodbye to 996 and freely choose whether to lie down or delve into hobbies.
For example:
Please tell yourself in 1997 that the number of a certain lottery ticket is 1234567;
Please tell yourself in 1997 to buy a house quickly and borrow money to buy it, the more the better;
Please tell yourself in 1997 not to hesitate, hurry up Go buy Tencent original shares;
please tell yourself in 1997, all in Bitcoin;
please tell yourself in 1997, find a man named Ma, give him money, invest in his shares, and become good friends with him;
Please tell yourself in 1997 that if you have money to stock up on Maotai but have no place to save it, you can also buy stocks;
...
Money is, to put it bluntly, an egg laid by time. As long as you can predict the future, Buffett is a younger brother. .
There are also people who have always regretted because of emotional matters, missing someone they shouldn't have missed, and this feeling can only be remembered, and they could only sing "Later" at that time; or they met someone they regretted so much that they couldn't get rid of them again and again. There is no way to live it. When love turns to hate, the thought of "I wish I had never met him" will inevitably arise.
If life is just like the first meeting,
If life can be like never meeting each other.
In the world, you have to choose one:
So:
Please tell yourself in 1997 to treat XX well, otherwise you will regret it;
Please tell yourself in 1997 to ignore a person named XX, he will only give you You bring pain;
Please tell yourself in 1997, choose XX, not XXX, XXX will hit people;
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There are still people who want to make up for their past regrets and give themselves a chance to read the files and start over.
For example:
Please tell yourself in 1997, please treat your grandpa well, he only has three years left;
Please tell yourself in 1997, don’t bet on football, you will lose everything;
Please tell yourself in 1997, don’t be afraid. Don't sell one of your kidneys to buy fruit machine (no);
please tell yourself in 1997 to study hard, otherwise you will regret it!
...
People always lament that there is no regret medicine in life. If there is really a regret medicine for sale, this thing may be sold out.
In 2007, like everyone else, I was thinking about what I should say to myself ten years ago so that I could move towards a brighter future.
But in 2022, 25 years have passed. If I can live to be 100 years old, this will already account for a quarter. More importantly, after becoming a mother, my mentality is different.
I suddenly thought of a key question: If a stranger said to me, I will give you a message for you in 10 years' time, and she asked me to say to you: blablabla...
I would not believe it at all, even if I did, You won’t do it, okay?
What was I doing in 1997?
should be in junior high school, a little older than my child is now.
Do you still remember what your teenage self was thinking? I don’t remember much anyway. I can’t even remember the names of my classmates and teachers back then. It seems impossible to convince her that I am her in the future with just one sentence. Don't say a word, not even ten words.
I only know one thing. Back then, I was a little girl who had a rigorous logical thinking and didn’t trust others easily. Even if you can tell me your ID number, it won't work. (The ID number may also be wrong, it was 15 digits back then)
Although I read a lot of two-dimensional comics in my teenage years, reality is reality and comics are comics. I can be obsessed with One Piece, but if a man with a straw hat really comes to me and says his name is Luffy . I would think this person is obsessed with cosplay, give him a big eye roll without hesitation, and stay away from him.
Of course, there was no "One Piece" in 1997, at least not in China. You see, I don’t even remember the comics I read back then. Who am I to convince her, "Believe me, that's right."
Any suggestions that can help me achieve financial freedom and become the richest man in Hongkou District , such as buying a house, buying stocks, buying lottery tickets, and buying Bitcoin Well, it will all be considered a scam by me. Don’t even think about it. I won’t pay a dime, and naturally I won’t make a dime.
Then again, even if I believe it, so what, I was just a little kid in 1997. Think about it, if my daughter came to me now and said: Mom, I from the future say that house prices in the five major new cities are going to skyrocket in the next two years. Let’s find a way to sell the house and buy one!
What would I say? I would definitely say angrily: Don’t play with bad people.
So in 1997, what would happen to me even if I mastered the password to wealth? The financial lifeline was firmly in my mother’s hands, and I couldn’t do anything. I would forget about it the next day.
As for other kinds of love, the same is true. For a girl in her prime, love only exists in her imagination, and even her future lover’s face looks fragrant the next night. If you ask me to avoid someone, I will only be curious. Is he as bad as you say? If you ask me to cherish someone, I will just sneer at him. Why doesn't he cherish me first?
The same goes for other life advice.
Just study hard, you don’t need any reminders from your future self. After working hard, losing weight, and studying hard, do we still set too few flags for ourselves every year? So I didn't pass the Tsinghua exam because I didn't like it?
wake up!
I may have forgotten who I was 25 years ago, but when I saw my baby’s appearance, I knew that nothing I could say would work.
If you tell your baby that beautiful shoes rub her feet, she won’t believe it unless she wears them herself and becomes bleeding and limping.
My biological mother is treated like this. I don’t know if it’s true or not. Would my “self from the future” be better off?
That’s enough!
Think about it again, and sometimes you have to be more tolerant to your children: if you are not frivolous and ignorant of your youth, you will not even listen to your own words, so it is not normal to not listen to your own mother.
If I had to give a message to myself in 1997, I hope she could live a more self-conscious and bold life. Just be happy.
people, just like Wang Xiaobo said: That year, in the golden age of my life, I had a lot of extravagant hopes. I want to love, I want to eat, and I want to become a half-dark cloud in the sky in an instant.
Later I realized that life is a slow process of being hammered. As people get older day by day, their extravagant hopes disappear day by day, and finally they become like a bull that has been hammered. But I didn't foresee this at the time. I feel like I will always be strong and nothing can beat me.
Dear, if I could give you a message in 1997, what would you do to make yourself do it obediently?
