1. As long as people are in trouble once, the people and ghosts around them will appear. This is not nonsense, but a fact.
2. You don’t need too many friends to be a human being. Sometimes friends do the same thing as enemies.
3. If you have too many smiling faces, you will always have bad habits. You are too talkative. I always think you are a fool with no temper.
4. What hurts you is not the other person’s ruthlessness, but your persistence in fantasizing.
5. There will always be people who will try their best to slander you, and then try their best to be you.
6. Personality is actually a character flaw. In people with strength, it is called personality; in people without strength, it is a flaw.
7. You think that others will not hurt you. It is your thought that gives them the opportunity to hurt you. You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must not have the intention of guarding against others. You will never know whether the person smiling at you is holding flowers or a bayonet behind his back.
8. Before you have no strength, your face and self-esteem are worthless. When necessary, if you put down your face, you may only have to pretend to be a grandson for a while, but if you don't let go, you may have to pretend to be a grandchild for the rest of your life.
9. Argue with a bully or argue with a fool. No matter what the outcome is, you will lose. Because they will definitely try their best to turn you into someone like them, and you will feel complacent because you won the argument.
10. People who always want to be good guys have never treated themselves properly as individuals.
11. It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and to bully the weak and fear the strong. Your boss is furious with you just because you are of no great value to him; the opposite sex is rude to you just because he wants you; and your enemy is provocative just because you have no strength.
Remember, true respect is to respect and fear you.
12. Others don’t help you because you don’t have common interests. Tie your difficulties with the difficulties of others, and people will naturally come to help you; tie your interests with the interests of others, and people will naturally help you realize your own interests.
13. It is not love that maintains a marriage for a long time, but the exchange chips between both parties. Marriage is about cooperation, and you should always consider how to meet the core needs of the other person. Men look at women mainly for their beauty value and fertility value; women look at men mainly for their economic strength and ability to make money.
14. In this world, except the cash in your pocket and the balance in your card will not betray you, anyone may betray you at any time. Stay neutral, stay rational, stay calm, and keep your distance. As long as you can bring indispensable value to others, no one will choose to leave you because of your coldness.
15. People who like to complain often cannot listen to other people's opinions. Because in their view, everyone in the world is wrong, and only he is right. So for this kind of person, just keep silent and watch him sink quietly.
