1. Whether you are single, in love or out of love, I hope you can understand that the goal of life is not love, but happiness.
2. No matter how much money you have, you can't stop death, no matter how beautiful you look, you can't please the King of Hell , no matter how great your reputation is, it has to go through life and death. Therefore, don’t be too greedy in life, and don’t live too tiredly.
3. Humbly trying to please others will only get others to ignore you. In this world, only your own strength can get others to pay attention to you. Only equal treatment can get you true respect.
4. What others say and do to you can never determine what kind of person you are; only what you say and do to others can determine what kind of person you are.
5. The so-called growth is to look down on the things that were originally valued, and value the things that were originally underestimated.
6. Good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls are rare. Whether you have similar tastes or similar smells, you must be lucky to meet someone who can accompany you to go crazy at any time.
7. Do not presume malice on others, do not use personal gain to cause trouble for others, do not belittle yourself, and do not slander others. This is the most basic requirement for yourself.
8. No matter what you experience is good or bad, no matter whether the people you meet are good or bad, they can always teach you something and then help you become a better person.
9. From today on, be a difficult person to get along with, throw shame on the people you hate, speak words of love to the people you like openly and honestly, be willing to live a few years shorter, just want to be happy.
10. You have to save your cuteness, favor your kindness, and become brave. When the world is getting worse and worse, I only hope that you can get better and better.
11. There are many things that you cannot control by yourself. No matter how lonely you are, you still have to keep going. You are not allowed to stop or look back. —— Hayao Miyazaki " Spirited Away "
12. The reason why you are not living happily is that you can neither stand the current situation nor have the ability to change it. To put it bluntly, all human pain is essentially anger at one's own incompetence.
13. No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is a must-have. Don’t overly admire the beauty of love, and don’t overexaggerate the sadness of lovelorn.
14. If someone hurts you, you can forgive him, but don't trust him easily again. Forgiveness means letting yourself go, but blind trust will only give him the opportunity to hurt you again.
15. In such a world full of flaws, if you can meet a true friend, cherish it. Sometimes, we can’t even be sincere to ourselves, so there’s no need to blame others. Human nature is complicated and strange.
16. Don’t be afraid of doing many things wrong. Even if you are wrong, don’t be upset. Life is all about right and wrong. Looking back, it doesn’t matter what is right or wrong.
17. Who doesn’t grow up while getting hurt, who doesn’t shed tears while being strong at the same time. In the final analysis, life means that you have to bear the unspeakable pain by yourself, and you have to block the falling wind and rain by yourself.
18. Say sorry to yourself, because I always feel sad for no reason. Say sorry to yourself for making things difficult for others. Say sorry to yourself because pretending makes you tired. Say sorry to yourself for hurting yourself because of your stubbornness.
19. I hope that we can all work hard to be the person who provides help in times of need and makes the other party regard it as a treasure, rather than the person who is easy to talk to and "comes when he is invited, and goes away when he is ignored".
20. There is no one who has missed anything. Those who will leave are passers-by. There is no unfair fate, it is laziness that makes you incompetent.
21. Cherish the people who treat you well. Don’t wait until your heart is broken and piece it together with apologies. If you lose it, you won’t be able to find it back anywhere. I left and couldn’t be contacted via the Internet. Don't wait until everyone is gone before you know how good the other person is. There is an embarrassing word called "it's too late."
