When water reaches the end of the river, it is a scenery, when people reach the end of the river, it is rebirth! After experiencing a major economic crisis, I completely changed. It's not that kind of negativity, it's open-minded, it's another kind of love for life.

When the water reaches the end of the river, it is a scenery; when a person reaches the end of the river, it is rebirth! Going through a major financial crisis changed me completely. It's not that kind of negativity, it's open-minded, it's another kind of love for life.

It’s been a long time since I calmed down and wrote something. I doubt whether I can still write decent words. It's okay, I have always been simple in writing, but my emotions are sincere. Ordinary life, ordinary records, some things are necessary to be recorded. After all, memory is really getting worse, but words are still reliable. Years or decades later, you can still look back at it, and at that time, you can easily smile: That time has finally passed!

People always grow slowly through experience after experience. This kind of growth has nothing to do with age, otherwise I wouldn’t have matured when I was approaching fifty, and I wouldn’t have been stuck in a simple imagination of the world. Although I can't say that I am "enlightened", I can still live a more enlightened life. Why bother yourself? There are some things that you no longer need to pursue, and there are some things that you don’t need to care about. Tell yourself that it is good to live healthy every day, and I have to be grateful to God!

himself likes to be quiet. After going through some things, he became even quieter and finally lived the life he wanted. Except for the office, I spend most of my time alone. Before, I would have dinner with friends every now and then, and then walk around the playground together and chat. Now I have become an increasingly aloof person in the eyes of others. I will appear in everyone's field of vision in necessary places. The rest of the time, I will not be seen in crowded places. Even if I am running for exercise, I like to be alone. No more gossip, no more parties, no more gossip, I live a simple life without caring about other people's judgments.

Such simple days make up for the time I owed before. Probably one day after the holiday this year due to the epidemic, I can’t remember the exact time, I went back to my mother’s house to see them. The excitement during the tea-picking period makes parents no longer lonely. Suddenly the house was empty, making my mother feel lonely. So from that moment on, I promised my mother that I would try my best to go back to accompany them in the future. So we stayed together for almost two months, and my mother became dependent on her. I look forward to the relaxation and freedom of the holidays, but my mother doesn’t want to wait for two months. So, I felt extremely conflicted. So no matter how tired or hot I am, I insist on going back every day to cook and accompany her. The companionship of these two months exceeds all previous companionships. I think when I look back on this period many years later, I will have no regrets!

had a period of one or two months where I felt particularly anxious and worried about the predicament I was in. Learn to make videos, learn to make Douyin, copy books and clock in, and spend all your spare time on these things that you think can help you solve problems. But I gave up in the end, which could not change the predicament, but made myself more anxious. This is not the life state I want. However, the "chicken soup" during that period did heal me. Always remember the first Douyin copywriting: In life, except life and death, everything else is just scratches. I often comfort myself that everything is the best arrangement, everything will pass, and all the people and things I encounter are destined to be experienced. Everything has its ups and downs. Maybe I am reborn after a desperate situation and have become a new me.

Of course, this is not unrelated to the various healing articles I have read before. In particular, the book "The Rest of My Life Is Not Completed" by Yu Juan that I bought last week also touched me a lot. Only when a person actually suffers from a disease will he realize the importance of health. The fame and fortune that I was chasing at the beginning seemed so insignificant. Nowadays, I often think that my current health may be the price of my growth, and some other factors have also made me feel at ease. If this is the case, all the price paid is worth it. At least, the changes in my family now make me happy and contented.

My son is becoming more mature and sensible. I can completely accept everything about my husband. This kind of poetic life even feels good. Harmony has never been seen before. Since you don't have too much energy to think about too many things, just let nature take its course.In fact, the tiredness is all caused by yourself, so why bother? You are not that important originally, and others are equally good. Once you put on colored glasses, the gap in your heart will be huge. Hope, disappointment, depression. You can't change, just adapt, there's nothing wrong with it.

I accidentally talked about my family with a female colleague last week. In fact, I never talk about myself or other people’s families with others. It is not only a matter of privacy for both parties, but also basically family matters that are difficult for honest officials to deal with, or the topics of conversation are all It's hurt. It's different now. If others talk about it, at least they won't avoid it. As long as the inner knot is opened, it doesn't matter.

After her second marriage, her health is not in good shape. She suffers from neurological deafness and her physical activity is no better than that of normal people. Therefore, she moved from teaching to a logistics position. She has no children and becomes a stepmother. She is kind-hearted and treats her children well, treating them as her own. Her husband doesn't care about how she disciplines her children, and it is this that allows her to continue in her second marriage. Her husband doesn't know how to cook. Every Friday when she gets car sick and returns home to the city, the first thing she does is clean up the house and cook. During the illness, I also lacked the care of my husband, but my son was doing well. After hearing these words,

felt that he was still very happy. At least this time. Every time I come home, there is a ready-made meal waiting for me. The father and son have clear divisions of labor in cooking and washing dishes. I just sit there and enjoy it. When I’m done, whether it’s reading a book, resting, going out for a run, or walking in the rain, my husband will accompany me all the time, which makes me content. Of course, this is all the result of mutual enlightenment after experiencing some things. If we say that all good changes are achieved at the cost of growth, then they are worth it.

A blessing in disguise, an economic disaster brought me a new life. Come on, everything will pass!