The warmth in the cold winter
by Jiang Xia
In the vast sea of people, people with similar souls will always meet. Regardless of blood relationship, there will always be some people who will warm your years and leave your life with beauty, so that you can always feel the warmth of being cared for and the warmth of the world, whether in a lonely night or a cold winter day. . This kind of feeling may be friendship, family affection, or love, no matter what kind of feeling, it is a blessing in life if you encounter it. It keeps you cold in the winter, makes your heart soft, and makes you believe that there is true love in the world.
has entered Lidong, and the weather is getting colder day by day. Especially every morning, facing the dim light of the morning sun, walking on the way to work, the cold wind is biting, and I don't want to go out or reach out in the cold. And I wore the down jacket mailed by my eldest sister from afar, as if wrapped in warm cotton buds, warm from inside to outside. Especially when I think of my sister's affection for me, I only feel warmth like spring, and I can't help but give birth to a lot of sweetness in my heart.
I am the eldest of my family. Deep down in my heart, I have always hoped that I have a sister who can talk to my sister and enjoy the feeling of being loved by my sister. "People have good wishes, and God will bless them." In 2001, I was transferred to Fujiagou Elementary School to teach, and I met Li Jing, an older sister who is not a relative but is better than a relative. She is a predecessor of the school, with high morals, enthusiasm, decent work, practical work, integrity, and she is loved by all teachers, and even the principal respects her.
She is eleven years older than me. We are both relatives (she is my elder sister's eldest sister) and colleagues. It is inevitable that we are more affectionate than others. The key is that we have a special chat, the three views are the same, and the interests are similar, so we often play together. Every day when we go to school, we have to meet and talk about it. If we don’t see it one day and feel empty, we have to call to ask if there is anything wrong. When we are together, there are always endless topics, from a short story to a TV series and a book, from historical stories to modern novels, views on life and parenting concepts, etc. We always have the same opinions and views so similar. , So we continue to deepen our understanding in the interaction with each other,Forged a sisterhood where not sisters are better than sisters.
The eldest sister is the eldest at home, and there are three younger sisters and a younger brother. She will personally take care of everything in the family, being diligent and frugal to herself, tolerant to others, filial to her parents, and setting a good example for her younger siblings. Whether it is her parents-in-law or her own biological parents, she treats the elderly equally and does her best to obey the elderly. With her practical actions, she has won the respect of both brothers and sisters, and will seek her advice on all matters in the family. Under her subtle influence, the brothers and sisters live in harmony at home and enjoy themselves in harmony.
At school, she was my mentor, and she gave me a lot of help in work and helped me quickly grow into a backbone of the business; outside of work, she is my friend, we play together, play together, and talk about life together , I learned from her the skills to behave in the world, and quickly matured to become a likable person who is decent, honest, and enthusiastic. I got rid of my squeamishness and arrogance, learned the way of getting along with my in-laws, and made my family happier and harmonious. We have worked together for 16 years. We are friends who talk about everything, and are good sisters who are inseparable. We have never blushed. We are better than relatives if we are not relatives.
Later, my sister retired and went to Shanghai to take her grandson. Our meeting became no longer so easy. Thanks to WeChat, we can often make videos to relieve lovesickness. Every time my sister comes home, she always brings me some thoughtful gifts, such as silk scarves, clothes, etc. As long as she sees something that suits me, her sister will always think of me, always buy it, and take it home to me. Especially the summer cheongsam. After I put it on, my colleagues in the unit said, "It's so beautiful!" They said that we can never buy such beautiful clothes here. My heart is full of sweetness and pride, and I think: "I have a sister, really Good!" I finally enjoyed the feeling of being loved by my sister, full of happiness.
This time, my sister said that I saw this down jacket from the Internet and it must be very suitable for me, so I bought it from the Internet and mailed it back to me. My sister said that I would not charge anything for the money I called in the past, which moved me. Tears filled his eyes. I put on this white and soft down jacket and showed it off in front of my colleagues. The joy and touch in my heart made me feel full of warmth in the cold winter. How fortunate to have met my sister, how fortunate to know each other.
I have two treasures, and my sister has a grandson.We often talk about the changes in our children, talk about our children's education, and share good parenting methods together on the phone. We even think which book is particularly good, we will share it with each other. Although separated by thousands of miles, our hearts are tightly connected, we care about each other, and we share each other's happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy. Every festival, I will receive blessings and greetings from my sister, which makes my heart warm, and I think back to every beautiful moment with my sister: the happiness when we sing to the heart of K TV; we take a group photo in the pink and willow green mountains As a souvenir; we talk forever and stay awake all night; we are spinning around the dance hall... Those unforgettable pictures flashed in front of my eyes one by one, and my sister’s warm smile made me miss all the time.
In this cold winter, my heart is warm because of my sister's concern. What has gone by is the years, what has changed is the appearance, what has not changed is the sisterhood between me and my sister. May my sister's days in Shanghai be the best, be healthy, and have a happy family! May the best happiness in the world be with you forever. May the sisterhood between us last forever, warm each other, and be sincere forever.
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