The earlier you understand the truth in life, the better

1. People who use too much force tend not to go far

I always have a misunderstanding in the past, that is, when I am determined to do something, I have not done enough When preparing for the survey, I set out many goals and plans:

What to do today

What to start in a week

What goals to achieve in a month

Then repeat all the above steps the next day. The routine of life is a bit scary. I can’t wait to hold the stopwatch to complete the task

But without exception, these so-called plans and goals are all stranded.

strictly implements his own plan every day, non-stop,

is very willpower-consuming;

is something that should not perceive of strong will often. It is the spiritual energy that will be used up in a short time.

The person who really persists to the end does not rely on passion, but just right likes and devotion.

2. The antonym of giving up is not insisting,It’s actually: Don’t give up

. The purpose of not giving up is . You don’t need to persist every day or every week.

pause, as long as you don’t give up what you are doing. NS.

Take it easy, no one has a knife on your neck and asks you to stick to it every day.

If you feel that you are always hypnotizing yourself with persistence, when your willpower is consumed, then there is a high probability that you are not suitable to do this now.

It’s okay, just let it go. I can't overcome this obstacle for the time being, so I will let it go first.

Just let this piece lie there beforehand, wait until the energy state comes, and then do it.

A true master, knows how to distribute his energy and physical strength.

What you choose is tactical abandonment and strategic persistence.

3. Don’t set a goal that is too distant and too specific, so many people like it _5span2

Then disassemble the big goal into small goals, and then divide the small goals into steps, and do what you do first. The goal of

is not based on imagination.

Setting goals without any practice is a joke.

Because you don't even know what to do, it is difficult for you to imagine what your future work status will be like.

When I was in college, I participated in a competition called the Career Planning Competition.

I was studying accounting at the time, so of course, the career goal of my entry is to be a CFO (financial director).

I didn't even know what the CFO was doing, I only knew that it was a very powerful position in this industry.

As a result, I lost my major as soon as I graduated, and until now I have been doing work that is completely irrelevant to the major I studied at university.

Besides, there are some opportunities that you can't see at the beginning, but you have to do it before you can get in touch with them slowly.

Those veterans who have worked in the workplace for several years, ask him if he has any plans for the future?

Their answer is precisely: Let's take a step and count the steps first, take a look and talk about it.

An iron law is that anything directional,It's impossible to figure it out by thinking, and it's even impossible to work it out in one night and one day.

4. There is no critical point in life, and there will be a lot of people who will be happy if you pass it over. I have earned a million, so I can no longer have to work;