High EQ is not only talking, but also being kind and sincere. Misfortune is a state of mind. No one can save you if you don't love and improve yourself for a lifetime. Give up self-growth and you will lose the initiative in life. Two people are together for happiness, and peaceful separation is to reduce pain. Happiness needs to know how to share in order to be more happy.
We must try our best to exclude people and things that "it hurts as soon as you think of it" from your life. Only in this way can we live more and more happily. Of course, this effort is not easy, but it is definitely worth it. In the long run, the most important thing is your own source of information. It is necessary to figure out which information has changed oneself, changed one's cognition, concept, action, and pattern, and whether it nourishes or consumes one's life.
When faced with choices, consciously turn multiple-choice questions into fill-in-the-blank questions. Jump out of your cognitive anchor and see what other high-quality options are available for you to choose. Otherwise, it is very likely that the two choices are extremely entangled, and in the end, no matter how you choose, you still lose.
Don’t believe in the phrase full-scale development. As an ordinary person, being able to strive to be the best in a small field is enough for oneself to live well. All-round development and wanting everything will lead to total mediocrity. To learn like others, to compare with yourself. Don't get it wrong.
I am afraid that it is meaningless to show my cowardice. Most people you meet in life are just passersby. It must be clear that knowledge is your own if you put your knowledge in your head, and money is yours if you put your money in your pocket. The most important thing is to improve. There is nothing wrong with Lu Ji, because people are defined by high light moments, and no one will remember how clumsy you were once.
Develop the habit of replay.Why did you get the best thing you got in the replay; why did the worst thing you have encountered in the replay happened? In this way, you can do more things that make you better, and stop doing things that make you worse. If you don’t do replays, you will always fall in the same place.
It is difficult for people to obtain wealth by selling their unit of time (working). To obtain wealth, they must accumulate assets. The sooner you live an investment-oriented rather than consumption-oriented life, the better. For example, eating a meal, writing a dish recommendation, after traveling, writing a travel note, these are all creating their own digital assets. This will bring yourself unexpected opportunities.
Remember this principle of action. We must continue to do things that do the right things with great gains and do the wrong things with limited risks. For example, if you contact a good teacher you can find, you will have nothing to lose if you ignore you, but you have gained a few sayings, which have a huge impact on yourself.
But we must also understand and recognize that this is a world made up of probabilities. Even though we try to do the right thing, we still may not get the desired result. If you understand probability and act with probability, you won’t be anxious. If you don’t get a good result in the end, accept it calmly.
Wealth is not an end, a better life is. And a better life is composed of multiple dimensions, such as health, gatherings with relatives and friends, and time for yourself. Since the purpose of obtaining wealth is a better life, an important behavioral logic is that one cannot sacrifice life while obtaining wealth. In this way, life will only get better, not worse. The most regrettable thing is that I have reached my goal desperately, only to realize that this is not what I want.
I am fat,Be grateful for life and share happiness! Answer every question carefully and make every friend with your heart. Thank you for reading. Please forward and like if you agree. Thank you for paying attention to the headline number: Fat love!
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