Do you think you are not good at expressing yourself? Please don't worry about it. This is normal. You are not slower than others.
How can there be anyone in the world who is born to argue without hindrance? If there is, then he is not a genius, but a pushy and thoughtless person.
All people were unable to speak freely in front of everyone at first, but later, some people became eloquents and famous orators, and some remained in place and made no progress.
Most successful people can calmly analyze their shortcomings and know what to strengthen.
Then, say what you have prepared sincerely. Only in this way can the listener be moved and smile knowingly.
It takes at least 30 years for ordinary people to reach the realm of success. But some opportunists want to take advantage of shortcuts. For example, someone is going to give a speech at a friend's wedding the day after tomorrow, so he tries his best to make himself a blockbuster on the day of the ceremony. I dare to say that such people will make a fool of themselves in the auditorium.
has some superficial thoughts, which often become a stumbling block for my own expression. For example, "I have to behave well today", "Don't go up and show your ugliness", or when time is pressed, think "No matter how hard I try, it is the same...
These terrible thoughts will only increase your own tension, but the real secret is to tell yourself before going on stage: "I will say this stupid way!" After you make up your mind, you will be surprised. It can be said easily.
Or tell yourself: "Follow him, I have to show my ugliness!" As long as you can think about it, you won't be too scared. " doesn't have to deliberately conceal your shortcomings", this is the secret to making yourself move.
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