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Life is like a chase, constantly chasing what you want to get. In the process of chasing, you will gain something, but you will also lose some things and ignore some things.
Running on the journey of life, you get old in the blink of an eye.
Some of the chasing things have been obtained, but some have not been achieved after all. In the ups and downs of life, I finally understand that what I ignore is myself, my own feelings, and my own inner voice.
On the gradual old road, don't ignore yourself because of chasing.
On the road of life, the most important thing to do is to cherish life and time, and live every day now.
If you want to be more decent in life, don't rely on others, don't always desire others to love yourself, but learn to love yourself.
Learn to perfect yourself, and you will have a happier life.
02. Please don’t live in someone else’s world, it’s not worth it
Su Qin said: “Too much consideration of other people’s feelings is a disagreement with yourself. When you are thinking about "what others think" when doing everything, you are actually giving up on yourself. People who always live in the eyes of others have never existed."
Living in the world of others, Live the way others like it and pay for others "before and after the horse", instead of getting cherished by others.
On the road of life, please don’t live in the world of others,not worth it. Cares too much about others, but it is easy to be used by others.
Giving for others, just to get the appreciation and intimacy of others, to maintain a relationship in a pleasing way will often make oneself very tired.
On the road of life, don't blindly give to others, learn to love yourself, and love yourself.
Live in your own world, don't let anyone can easily consume your time and energy. Don't have too many worries and thoughts, and don't think about how others perceive you.
On the road of getting old, you need to know what you want in your heart.
You don’t always have to change your plan for the sake of others. Learn to say no and work hard to live your own life. Cut off contact with people who consume you and optimize your social environment.
Supporting each other, being able to contribute to each other, and being able to get along well, is the real good interpersonal relationship.
Love yourself, three or five friends, often get together when you have time, and you can live leisurely and contentedly when you have no time. Only when you have a good time will you live a chic and calm life.
03. If you don't love yourself, no one loves you
How you love yourself, others will love you how.
Life is alive, a lifetime is very short, get along with others, do not always have to accommodate others, do not always have to wrong yourself for others.
No matter who you get along with and what kind of wind and rain you experience, you should learn to love yourself and feel sorry for yourself.
Because, in this world, if you don’t even love yourself, then no one will love you.
how much you love yourself,Determines how much others love you.
In the days to come, stay away from low-quality social interactions, get along with others, and stop being humble to please. No matter when, I no longer wrong myself easily and ignore my inner feelings.
When getting along with people, you must let the people around you understand your true preferences and your bottom line, making it easier for others to respect you.
In the days to come, learn to live an open-minded life, learn to let go, learn to be indifferent, and learn to live in the bright sunshine.
In life, keep investing in yourself and learn to forget worries and sorrows.
Learn to please yourself and love yourself. When you have time, cook some food for yourself, go to fun places, listen to your inner voice to live, and make yourself a better version of yourself.
Learn to love yourself, live what you like, do what you like, love every stage of life, and you can feel more beautiful.
04. On the road of life, live for yourself
It is said that the road of life is long, but when you walk, you will feel that there is not enough time. There are still many goals that have not been achieved, and there are still many things that have not been done.
So, don't care about other people's thoughts, and don't be too concerned about hypocrisy. If you are not a like-minded friend, even if you make mistakes, you will not be able to exchange genuine affection.
On the road in life, you have to live for yourself. Life is to give yourself a comfortable experience. Don't suffer yourself, but live the kind of life you have ever wanted the most.
Everyone has their own way of life. Don't always think about how much you can give to your relatives, friends, and children around you. Most of the people in life are those who accompany you for a while. They have deep connections and shallow connections.
Life is short in this life, please pity yourself.
In this life, I should give myself a little sweet taste. When people are old, they will be more comfortable. To love yourself is a very high state,Only by taking good care of myself can we achieve more goals.
don't have to think too much, let alone feel what kind of mission you have to accomplish. Instead, you should protect your body, have a good work and rest, have a full spirit, be hopeful, and motivated, open your eyes in the morning, and be able to embrace every day with enthusiasm.
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On the road of life, please cherish yourself and cherish yourself.
Loving yourself is a kind of wisdom. Everything is too late.
People live a lifetime, don't need to be too harsh on yourself, learn to let yourself go and love yourself.
On the road to getting older, pity yourself, starting from caring for your body.
Don’t overeating, exercise moderately, don’t have to eat frugally, but treat your stomach well and satisfy your heart.
To enrich yourself, whether it is body or spirit, you should get the best maintenance. Whether it is time, money or energy, more must be spent on yourself.
Don’t think too much, and don’t have to bear the burden of others. Put away that "savior" mentality, you are not a supporting role in anyone's story, but a warrior who dominates your own life.
Learn to love yourself and live according to your heart, and you can live happily.
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.Author: Xia Mo MO, cutting-edge emotional tutor, psychologist, over 1 billion popular emotional writers across the network, happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and answering questions for more than ten years.
