often troubles us: Why do I always fail to meet my requirements? Why am I worthless compared to others? Why do I always fail to get the approval of the other party? These self-condemnation makes us unable to accept ourselves, we become disliked, closed, low self-esteem, and melancholy.
The inability to accept our own imperfections stems from our anxiety when we often compare our ideal self with our actual self. However, it must be understood that the ideal self is an ultimate goal that can only be reached after years and a lifetime of unremitting efforts. As long as we make a little progress and be happy every day, we will be a little closer to our goal. If you suffer from not being able to accept your own flaws, you can only get farther and farther away from your goal.
The biggest inferiority of people is that they cannot accept their own imperfections, and always make incorrect comparisons with others, resulting in inferiority complex. Always compare yourself with people who are higher than yourself, and compare your shortcomings with other advantages. The result of the comparison is that everything is not as good as others, and everyone is worse than yourself. Thus produced a distorted psychology, plunged himself into the abyss of pain.
Although God has given life to this world, he has not given it perfection. Everything in this world cannot be perfect, and "mutilation" always appears inevitably. It may be an insufficiency, a scar, a regret, but because of it, perfection has become the direction of people's yearning and efforts. Therefore, even if it is not perfect, you have to accept it. You know, everyone is like this, and you are just one of them. And those who you seem to be perfect, you just don’t know them well enough.
Although perfection cannot be achieved, it makes people approach each other step by step in the yearning for perfection. People cannot achieve perfection. An imperfect life has eternal pursuit, unlimited vitality, and endless hope. You have to know that there is a person who will never abandon you at any time, regardless of poverty, distress, or disease, this person is you.
It seems,Imperfection is sometimes better than perfection to experience the beauty of life. Perfection is actually only in ideals. Imperfection is the norm in life. Thinking of this, why should we worry about our imperfections?
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