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Life is like a play, it all depends on acting.
Society is a big stage, live broadcast every day, you have to learn to play various roles. Grasping one's own position and finding one's own direction, there will be hope in life.
If you observe carefully, you will find that those who mix well, no matter where they are, can quickly enter the role, and those who mix poorly cannot enter the role arranged by others, and cannot play well. Important role.
Really powerful people are good at "acting" and often have the following characteristics. In this society, the fittest survive, and the uncomfortable are eliminated.
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Defensive: Pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger.
It is inevitable that people will encounter strong enemies when they mix up in society. If you go head-to-head with others, you will definitely get hurt. This is the principle of "strike a rock with a pebble".
However, a powerful person who knows how to disguise himself and dress himself up will become a very weak person and use this method to paralyze his opponent. Once there is a chance, immediately control the opponent.
For example, in the workplace, a person with a very ordinary status pretends to be a very weak person, lurking next to a person with a high status, and often speaks inferiority and self-deprecating things. Everyone thinks that he is a hopeless person with no ambitions. After a long time, he mastered a lot of other people's information, and also grasped the handle of others. At important moments such as personnel changes, he can use this information to kill people.
Who is not a sage? If someone around you deliberately collects some negative information about you, they will definitely be able to collect it. Therefore, if you are messing around in society, don't underestimate the small people. Maybe they will be big people in the future, the people who crush you.
Of course, you can also learn to "keep the weak", through long-term lurking, and then beat someone stronger than yourself.
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Leverage: Fox fakes tiger's power.
A weak fox stood beside the tiger. The beasts were scared to death. The tiger thought it was a fox with great power, but he didn't know that he was used by the fox.
"Fox fake Huwei" is a word that is not liked by people, but it contains a truth-to use strength. When your own strength is not strong enough, if you want others to surrender to yourself, you must use the power of the strong.
Many people, in real life, have two faces. When encountering the strong, he proactively surrenders and speaks a lot of nice things; when encountering the weak, he “dismisses” and regards himself as the strong.
When you are working and starting a business, if you get help from the strong, you are definitely more likely to succeed. Because some other people will hinder the face of the strong, forced by the majesty of the strong, and cooperate with your work to make your achievements more prominent and let you get what you want.
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Calm: Make a fortune with a muffled voice.
According to common sense, when a person finds a way to get rich, he will be proud, and on some occasions, show off.
In fact, many ways to make a fortune do not need many people to know. In this society, there is competition everywhere, and you should not lead your competitors to your side.
A friend of mine opened a barber shop in a small street. Originally, his shop was not favored by others. But around the small street, there are several back doors to the community, and his craftsmanship is good, the barber shop quickly became popular.
At a party, a friend showed off his income. Unexpectedly, after a month, three barber shops were added on the side street, and everyone's business was not easy to do.
As a human being, on the way of struggling, you must stabilize your mood and don’t swagger through the market; when you have achieved results, you don’t need to show off.Just be happy in secret. To make money and keep money, you must keep a low profile. This is the ancient motto of not revealing money.
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Smart: Pretend to be confused.
Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing. Don't think that you are shrewd and can see through everything.
In this world, everyone is unique. You can't really empathize with others. The suggestions you give to others can only be clicked and you can't force others to implement them.
If you are a person who likes to talk loudly, you will probably say the wrong thing, and there is no room for maneuver when speaking, and there is no time for observing others.
The authorities are fans, the bystanders are clear. The powerful people are all behind the scenes, all in the corner. For example, the sweeping monk in " Tianlong Babu" has been sweeping the ground in the Tibetan Scripture Pavilion for a lifetime, but he has practiced peerless martial arts. At a critical moment, he has subdued others and achieved success. Own.
In many cases, it is not your turn to take action, so you should not take yourself too seriously. Your role is a "participant", you can't just push yourself into the middle of the stage. It's hard to be confused as a human being.
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Persistence: Stay through it calmly.
People who have really suffered a lot are very quiet and always have a smile on their faces.
On the contrary, those who can't stand the suffering, like to complain, but also like to live with a sad face.
The bitterness of life does not need to surface on the face, but to step on the foot.
The catastrophe is coming, make it through and you will win. But, how to boil it? No one tells you, you have to find a way on your own. Maybe people around you will give you some suggestions, but their suggestions may not completely match your ideas.
Be a calm person,It's easier to play yourself as a "unpredictable" person and mix in society. If others can see your details at a glance, they will look down on you.
For example, a very poor person is never called poor, and when interacting with others, he is still very generous. Then, some people who are stronger than him will see his "spine" and are willing to cooperate with him.
All "suffering" is a negative energy, and it does not bring benefits to oneself, but is criticized by others.
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Concluding remarks.
In this life, a person needs to play a lot of roles. Your acting skills determine how far you can go.
In the family, when you were young, you were a child; when you were middle-aged, you were a parent and a child of your parents; when you were old, you were an elder. In the workplace, in the circle of friends, you have more roles.
Really powerful people, can bear, can act, what to play, what to look like, what to become.
Author: Commoner.
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