Author: Insights Starry
Don't panic, don't waste time.
Mr. Lao She once said:
"Life is a rhythm, there must be light and shadow, left and right, sunny and rainy, and the taste is contained in the twists and turns that change but not violent."
Young always thinks He worked hard, thinking that life should be adjusted to the acceleration gear.
It took me half my life to realize that it is not the best rhythm of life to act too hastily or to stand still.
has a kind of wisdom, that is, don't panic when you're busy, and don't give up when you're idle.
In one's own rhythm, treat life calmly, life can go more calmly.
01
Don't panic when busy
Everyone has had a period of chaos:
All things come together, each is related to oneself, none of them can escape.
I've been busy all day, and I haven't had time to take a sip of water, but it seems that I haven't finished anything.
Faced with the mess in front of him, he immediately felt overwhelmed, and he could not help but blurt out his complaints.
Life is like a boxing match.
It is the consciousness that every adult should be aware of.
"Queen of goods" Wei Ya once shared an experience.After the live broadcast of
, it was already early morning, and more than ten colleagues of the team began to work with her:
reported the sales of the day, confirmed the product information of the next day's live broadcast, itinerary docking, product trial arrangements... Beside
, the assistant kept reminding , I'm about to leave for a magazine shoot.
was already half an hour behind schedule, and at this critical juncture, a colleague rushed over and said that another short promotional video had to be recorded.
Wei Ya was on the verge of collapse at the time, and said aloud to the team: "I have only slept for two hours for three consecutive days..."
As soon as she said the words, she immediately realized that the atmosphere was not right, so she quickly changed her words: "My time Limited, you quickly tell me the key points of the recording."
Weiya said a metaphor:
"We seem to be wearing the pair of red dancing shoes in the story, unable to stop dancing in the rush of music."
In order to Don't let yourself fall into a busy and chaotic endless cycle, Wei Ya has the habit of reviewing since the beginning of her business.
No matter how late she came home from work, she would take a little time to review the work of the day, communicate some problems to be solved and new ideas.
is exactly this kind of review, so that Wei Ya can find the rhythm no matter how busy she is, and let the tense nerves relax temporarily.
people have always been pushed forward in their lives.
Zeng Guofan said: "Everything needs to be handled calmly and moderately. If you are in a hurry, you may be wrong."
If you control your emotions and keep a clear head, you will be able to open up roads in the mountains and bridges in the water, and have the last laugh.
02
Don't waste
There is a question on Zhihu: What do you do when you are really free?
A netizen shared his story. In the days after
resigned, I was very comfortable at first. I stayed up late to watch the game, slept until I woke up naturally, woke up to play games, and ordered takeout when I was hungry.
Over time, life has changed a lot.
People become more and more lazy, work and rest more and more late, and gradually become black and white.
Sometimes when I wake up, it is five or six in the afternoon.
Someone else came home after a long day of work, but I was sleepy and dry, and the day had just begun. During the time
was at home, netizens discovered a heart-wrenching truth:
taking a long rest will not make the state better, but make people go downhill.
Many times, it is not you who is killing time, but time is killing you.
Zeng Guofan had a leisurely time when he served in the Hanlin Academy.
He often lamented that he had nothing to do, and once only cared about having fun. After
rambling for a while, he found that he would be ruined if he continued like this.
Therefore, Zeng Guofan took advantage of the pain and did three things in his spare time.
Zeng Guofan exchanged philosophy with Tang Jian and Woren, improving his knowledge a lot.
Not only that, he also met a group of insightful people, which became a great help in his life in the future.
The second one, Zeng Guofan set a reading plan for himself.
He must complete "12 daily lessons" every day, and remind himself to work hard.
The last thing is to be concerned about your family and write a letter from home.
Einstein has a saying:
"The difference between people is in their spare time. Spare time produces talents, as well as lazy people, alcoholics, card fans, and gamblers."
People are alive, and leisure is a blessing.
When the pace of life slows down, some people relax and others indulge.
In the end, the more idle you are, the more wasteful you become, and the more idle you are, the more tired you are, and the strength you have accumulated in the past has been exhausted.
As the old saying goes: "Don't let it go in your spare time, you can use it when you are busy." People who are really powerful in
regard their leisure time as a value-added period.
In these beautiful days, slow down and quietly top-notch, and prepare for the start of tomorrow.
03
Live a good life at your own pace
Some time ago there was a popular saying:
There are two most hidden ways to abolish a person, one is to keep him idle all the time, and the other is to keep him too busy to grow up.
Once people are too busy and have nothing to do, they are prone to cranky thoughts.
If people are too busy, life will be like a mess, and it is difficult to move forward freely.
As the educator Huang Yanpei said: "Don't panic when things are complicated, and don't waste time when things are busy."
chatted with a female friend some time ago.
is approaching the end of the project. As the person in charge, she needs to personally control each link. The
event list is full, and troubles pop up from time to time. What I admire most about
is that she never complained even though she was so busy. What
shares most on social platforms is my own experience.
She has always adhered to a principle of doing things, prioritized things, and dealt with them in an orderly manner according to her own rhythm.
One time late at night, when I saw her dynamic, I ridiculed her as a "desperate Sanniang".
She said: "Although I am busy now, I am in control of myself. Every step forward is a reward." After the
project ended, she took a good rest for a month.
She has already made plans for her vacation:
Travel to places she has never been to, read books outside of work, and meet people she misses for a long time.
She arranges every day she has free time in an orderly manner.
Don't take a step forward, don't waste a minute, and use your own rhythm to live your life well.
Control the rhythm of life, we control our own life.
"Cai Root Tan" has a saying: If people are too busy, don't think about stealing; if they are too busy, their true nature will be lost.
You don't have to push too hard, give yourself a chance to breathe; you can take a break when you are resting, but you can't get lost.
Earn money when you are busy, and improve yourself when you are not.
One at a time, the harvest is the joy of growth.
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Each of us is like a boat sailing on the sea, too fast or too slow is difficult to control.
is too fast, the inertia is too large, and it is difficult to avoid obstacles.
is slow and goes with the flow and can't get to where you want to go.
can only be manipulated at the right speed.
People live forever, keep their minds when they are busy, and cultivate their minds when they are free.
Like Like it , I hope you can find the rhythm of life that suits you, keep moving when you are moving, and precipitate yourself when you are still.
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