01.
A hot search two days ago, I wonder if you have seen it.
In the latest variety show "New Diary", Gai, the wife of singer Zhou Yan, has just given birth.
Everyone is surrounded by the children, very happy.
Zhou Yan's wife Wang Siran, who had just given birth, was lying on the bed alone.
may be the pain of giving birth, maybe the emptiness just finished giving birth, or maybe the loneliness that is left unattended.
Wang Siran's expression is not very good, listening to the family next door seeing the child smile happily.
And this time, gai made a move.
He turned and walked towards his wife's house, and said, I want to accompany Ranran.
is my son, the only son.
Then he walked to his wife and said, I'm here to accompany you.
also said to his wife, you are really good and women are really great. This move of
moved many people watching the show.
Everyone is feeling gai's affection and care.
did not ignore the weak wife who had just given birth, but took the initiative to accompany her.
I have read a lot of posts, and I have also heard some submissions.
In the obstetrics and gynecology department, especially in the ward just after giving birth, most people are around the child. The little life that
has just arrived, he contains the expectation and hope of the whole family.
naturally also got the attention of the whole family.
is the woman who brought this little life to the world, but at this moment, she is ignored by her family.
Of course we all know that, mothers themselves know that it is natural to surround the newborn.
, but the sense of loss in my heart is inevitable. When
was pregnant, I was a baby at home, and everyone cared about and thought about themselves.
After giving birth, all the care and love left as if the child left his body.
At that moment, it is definitely impossible to say that there is no loss.
I once saw a netizen share his experience of just giving birth to a child online.
she said, "When I came out of the delivery room, I seemed to see my future life. At
, the children were pushed out first. Before I came out, I heard their laughter. I was also very happy at
. What I didn’t expect at that time was that at the moment I was pushed out, my husband and family in-laws seemed to have not seen me, they still laughed around the child, vying to hug the child.
only my mother, Ask me how I am at the first time, is it okay. At that moment,
, I feel my heart is cold.
I broke through the ghost gate and gave birth to a child, but I didn’t even care about it. I didn’t know how to do it myself. What's the point." Many people say that a walk in the obstetrics and gynecology department can see through a lot of human nature.
Many people have given birth to children before they can see what kind of person they marry.
Some people always think it's a hypocritical woman, but in fact, women don't want much at all, but just a word of concern.
One concern and one small detail can satisfy many women's hearts. How many feelings
has, it all starts with details and ends with details.
02.
In the TV series "The Age of Naked Marriage", Liu Yiyang once said: I spent nine years discovering that details defeat love. The plot in the
TV series may be a bit dramatic, but in real life, how many marriages are due to disappointment in small details, which eventually overwhelmed this emotion.
Shorter and shorter messages, perfunctory answers, and gradually disappearing concerns...
When you are sick, he only says to take some medicine;
When you are aunt, he only says drink plenty of hot water ; Z2z
When you are unhappy, he not only doesn't comfort you, but also complains that you have made him feel bad. Every time
goes home from get off work, what he sees are littered shoes, littered socks, dirty clothes piled on the floor, and husband lying on the sofa playing with mobile phones. How many people can stick to a life like
? Z2z
Venus once said:
waits for my daughter to grow up, I will tell her!
If a man loves you and squeezes the bus, complainYou don't eat on time.
has always reminded you to avoid drinking and hurting your body.
On rainy days, I ask you to be safe when you go home from get off work.
sends funny text messages to coax you when he is sick...please ignore him!
and then talk to the one who can drive you, accompany you when sick, take you for dinner, and pick you up from get off work.
tells you "Don't do any bad work! Come home with me!"... Everyone at
hopes to feel love in the smallest details.
There is a couple in the entertainment circle that I particularly envy, that is Tang Yixin and Zhang Ruoyun.
Some time ago, Tang Yixin gave birth to a daughter. When he was out of the hospital, Zhang Ruoyun gave out red envelopes to media fans waiting at the door.
can feel the happiness of the two people from their smiles at the time.
Of course, in their relationship, what I envy most is the little details of Zhang Ruoyun.
Zhang Ruoyun posted a memo on Weibo: a memo about her before the official announcement of the romance.
He kept Tang Yixin's favorite things in his heart.
Tang Yixin likes to eat cherries, Zhang Ruoyun planted a cherry tree at home.
Tang Yixin likes romance, and Zhang Ruoyun expresses his thoughts in poetry.
met at a traffic light because of a small traffic accident. Later, Zhang Ruoyun was filming at home when he was participating in the show. There was a model of a traffic light in his home to commemorate the encounter with Tang Yixin.
such small details, it is really easy to impress a person.
Details may beat love, but details can also make love.
03.
Many trivial things are often the most moving moments.
For women, one of your concerns, an anniversary gift, a small surprise, even a cup of hot water when you are sick, and a quilt when you sleep.
These are not just details, but the performance of your love for her.
Women are delicate in their hearts, and naturally they pay more attention to details of their behavior.
Some people always think that I am a big boss, how can I be so fine.
But in fact, these have nothing to do with human personality. It's not that rough people can't do careful things. As long as you have the heart, you can think of everything.
has a person in his heart and wants to pay for him. As a rapper,
GAI is a rough guy in the eyes of many people. It's usually cool to like hip-hop, but in front of his wife, he is like a different person, cute and sticky.
These are not his deliberate actions, but the unconscious performance of facing people he likes.
This may be the power of love.
Some people say that if a man really loves you, he will look like a child in front of you, and he will be a giant in front of outsiders.
When two people fall in love and get married, they just want to find someone who knows the cold and the hot, and they can support each other and live a good life.
Marriage is never a collision of dry wood and fire, but a long stream of warmth.
two people walking all the way, facing countless trivialities, strengthening the details in order to ensure the firmness of this road.
I hope we can all find the person who can work hand in hand to support, from bit by bit to white head.
