I am 57 years old, and my second marriage was to 68-year-old Lao Cui. He loved to torture me every night. After 17 days, I enjoyed it very much and I have never missed Shu ever since.
My surname is Lian, just call me Aunt Lian. I am 57 years old this year. I am retired and my pension is not much, only more than 3,000 yuan a month.
Fortunately, I have a promising son. After graduating from college, my son started his own business. The company is currently doing well, and my daughter-in-law is also very capable. She manages the accounts of my son's company and gives me 6,000 yuan of pocket money every month.
My ex-wife was not as lucky as me. Six years ago, less than a year after his retirement, and before he could enjoy the blessings of children and grandchildren, he died of illness and went to sell salted duck eggs in the sky.
I also retired two years ago. When I retired, my grandson had grown up and did not need my help. My son and daughter-in-law were busy at work and had their own small families to take care of, so they could not visit me often.
used to work, but the old man was gone. I started to feel sad for three months, but then I got used to it. I went to and from get off work every day, ate, took a walk, and then slept. My days were very fulfilling.
However, since I retired, I have been free all of a sudden, and I feel very uncomfortable. I have nothing to do all day long, and I don’t have any hobbies. I can’t chat with the retired old ladies in the community, and I feel very empty and lonely.
Especially at night, when I live alone in a huge house and see the lights of thousands of houses outside from the balcony, I feel empty and have no one to talk to.
Once, when I was doing general cleaning in the kitchen, I accidentally slipped and fell and broke my tailbone. I had to live in half of the hospital and it took me 3 months to recover.
My son and daughter-in-law didn't trust me and wanted to take me to live with them, but I didn't want to. They also suggested hiring a nanny for me, and I didn't want to waste that money.
They also suggested that I find another partner, whether it be getting married or starting a relationship, so that at least we can take care of each other, accompany each other, and have someone to talk to.
I struggled with my thoughts for a long time. I felt that remarrying at such an old age would make people laugh.
’s son and daughter-in-law said that no one would laugh at them, saying that many retired single old people would remarry or remarry, or they would just live in a partnership without getting a certificate. They also said that if I didn't agree to their words, they wouldn't be able to work with peace of mind.
I had no choice but to promise them that if there was a suitable partner, I would find another partner.
So, my son and daughter-in-law began to mobilize their personal connections to introduce me to blind dates.
After several rounds of blind dates, I discovered that there are quite a lot of older people going on blind dates, just as my son and daughter-in-law said. Slowly, I began to relax and go on blind dates, and no longer felt embarrassed.
Later, I fell in love with Lao Cui, and he also fell in love with me. We felt like old friends at first sight. We had many topics to talk about, we had similar interests and similar outlooks.
After a meal, we decided to start dating.
Lao Cui is 11 years older than me. He is also a widower and a retired employee. Because he has a high position and a long service life, his pension is nearly 2,000 yuan more than mine. He also has only one son and has his own little family, so he doesn't need to worry about it.
After dating for 3 months, Lao Cui and I got married and I moved to his house after the marriage. We had a happy and sweet life the week before, just like when we were young and newlyweds.
But after seven days, Lao Cui kept running out and took me with him. He wanted to take me to the entertainment room of the community to play the Great Wall, that is, to play mahjong.
He said that it was his favorite. It not only helps to kill time, but also flexes the finger joints, exercises intelligence and reflexes, and makes the mind flexible to prevent Alzheimer's disease.
However, I hate coding the Great Wall the most in my life. As soon as I hear the "crash" sound, I feel noisy and it makes my head hurt. Before marriage, I had never heard him say that he had this hobby. I was a little angry and refused to go with him.
He had no choice but to go there by himself and played until noon before coming back for lunch. He also brought back a pair of mahjong and insisted on teaching me how to play. I couldn't resist him, so I had to learn from him.
However, I have no interest in this at all, and it is really too noisy. For me, it is simply a kind of torture. What kind of entertainment is it? After learning
for a long time, I couldn’t tell the difference between a bobbin and a rope except for the southeast, southeast, northwest and middle.
However, Lao Cui said that coding the Great Wall was a good pastime, and he forced me to learn from him every night. Listening to the "crash" sound every night, I was tortured to the point of going crazy, but Lao Cui still refused to let me go, and called me stupid.
For the sake of my newlyweds, I didn’t bother with him, so I had to study hard. I wanted Lao Cui to slap me in the face for daring to call me stupid.
17 days later, I finally learned that Lao Cui often lost to me. At this time, he began to take me to the community recreation room to play, and I no longer refused.
When I arrived in the entertainment room, I found that there were several tables there, all electric, and there were several retired old people sitting at each table. After
Lao Cui introduced me to them, he arranged for me to sit down at a table and watched me code two plates before he went to sit down at the table next to mine and opened the table as well.
That's it. I went with Lao Cui every day, and I won every day. It felt really good and a sense of accomplishment. When I came back, Lao Cui helped us cook and do housework.
Gradually, I became obsessed with coding the Great Wall. It was so addictive that I became addicted. I felt that it was really a kind of enjoyment. If I didn’t code for a day, I would feel uncomfortable all over.
When the time comes every day, it is no longer Lao Cui who urges me, but me who urges him. But we only play with for half a day. We can’t overdo it, otherwise it will be bad.
Friends, how do you spend your time after retirement? Do you like the Great Wall of China?
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