Author: Five Layers
A few days ago, on the way home from get off work, my colleague Linlin suddenly felt like eating fish. Therefore, I packed a cooked crucian carp at the restaurant at the entrance of the community and prepared to enjoy it.
never thought that her mother-in-law would find something in her hand as soon as she entered the house. Her mother-in-law asked her: What did you buy? The food at home is ready, but you are greedy.
Linlin replied with a smile: It's fish. I haven't eaten it for more than a month, so I'm really worried. Mom, do you want to try it?
As a result, when my mother-in-law heard that it was fish, she immediately became furious. She said: Don’t you know that I don’t eat fish? Why did you buy it? The smell is so disgusting.
After hearing this, Linlin felt aggrieved. Of course she knew that her mother-in-law did not eat any river fresh food or seafood. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be afraid to buy fresh ones at home. Moreover, she has been very accommodating to her mother-in-law. If she wants to eat, she will satisfy her craving outside at noon when she is at work. Now that the epidemic is so serious, what impact will it have if you buy a cooked one and go home to satisfy your craving?
Linlin had no choice but to explain that she was thinking that her child needed a variety of nutrients, and he couldn't just eat vegetables and meat every day. This was very unhealthy.
Her mother-in-law thought that Linlin was making excuses and clearly wanted to go against her. After all, when she was raising her son, she didn’t feed her son fish. Isn’t my son doing well now?
So, she used this matter of buying fish to start scolding her daughter-in-law. I think she is not only greedy, but also ignorant of frugality. There are dozens of fish that are ready for this one. My daughter-in-law really doesn’t know how hard it is to make money nowadays!
Seeing her mother-in-law talking more and more enthusiastically, Linlin thought she was crazy. Not to mention the family's household expenses, she has always been responsible for it, and she is also responsible for repaying the mortgage. My husband, who works out of town all year round, never asks if the family’s money is enough, but only gives him a symbolic sum of 30,000 yuan when he returns home at the end of the year.
Linlin didn’t even know whether the 30,000 yuan was to support her mother or her family. Does the mother-in-law not know in her heart that she has no right to care about what she spends money to buy? Not to mention buying fish, even if she wants to buy a bunch of crabs, she can do it. Does her mother-in-law have the qualifications to take care of it? It seemed that he had been too spoiled to his mother-in-law, making her think that he was the master of this family.
Thinking of this, Linlin lost her face. She asked her son to sit down at the dining table, picked up a large piece of fish and let him eat it. No matter how hard her mother-in-law glared, she only cared about eating well.
As you can imagine, her mother-in-law sat beside her all night long and waited until Linlin put her son to sleep. Her husband also called and asked her not to go against her mother all the time and to be more tolerant of the elderly. It’s not easy for her to raise a child alone!
Linlin was annoyed when she heard this. It was her mother-in-law who took the initiative to take care of the child. She was very touched at first and gave her mother-in-law 1,000 yuan in pocket money every month. She didn't let her pay a penny for food, drink, housing and transportation. But slowly, some of her mother-in-law's actions really left her speechless and even felt hurtful. She really didn't understand why she was living under someone else's roof and still acting like a monster. She was too idle, and she still wanted to set some rules for her.
Linlin finally decided to let her mother-in-law return to her hometown after her child goes to kindergarten! Maybe the distance can create some sense of beauty between them!
eh! Every family has problems that are difficult to recite. Linlin enjoyed her mother-in-law's help, so it was normal to pay a price. However, for a mother-in-law like this who is difficult to get along with, I suggest that we live separately as soon as possible. Otherwise, instead of becoming relatives, we will become enemies first.
Note: Original article, please do not reprint.
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