Recently, many people around their bodies are afraid of fever, afraid of not being able to buy medicine, and afraid of themselves "winning the prize, "Who doesn't know that worry and fear are also a curse, and they are afraid of anything that is easy to come. All kinds of overwhelming information make it difficult to distinguish the authenticity of the information, which only increases panic. " Huangdi Neijing " says that tranquility and nothingness, true energy follows it, spirit is kept in the inner world, and illness is always safe? A person always maintains peace of mind is also a major magic weapon to fight against diseases, and even the whole person's temperament is quiet and comfortable.
I often met that girl during a training in another place. She only lasted three or four days. She was tall and always had a smile on her face, giving people a quiet feeling. Because I work in the same building, I often encounter it in the elevator. She always smiles at me sweetly and calls me "Sister", which is considered to be a greeting.
Later, I often met her, and I actually lived in the same community as me. Every morning on the way to work, I could always see a stupid boy walking slowly, either riding or pushing an electric car, just as the speed of the girl walking. I was a little surprised for a moment, why aren't the two riding in the same car? Seeing that tacit understanding, I couldn't bear to disturb me. When I met, I just smiled slightly and went my own way.
Occasionally, I would meet a girl alone and ask her, who is with you, and she nodded and smiled: "It's behind!" I laughed and my mood became more relaxed.
Later, I saw the girl's abdomen bulging day by day, and then I realized that she was pregnant and took the opportunity to go to work every morning for a walk. However, some people were always worried and would follow her silently. When they arrived at the girl's workplace, they would ride their bikes back.
After a long time, those two people became a landscape that I could see every morning, walking by them silently, and a bit of warmth passed by my heart.
I haven’t seen them for many days recently. I think it’s their baby who was born. I wonder, will the two of them leave together like this in the future? Or, will they miss walking like that before? Or, they just regard it as the most ordinary thing in ordinary days and will never take it to heart.
When I was in my teenage years old, I peeked at various novels in class and was moved by the protagonist in the book. I fantasized that life is only meaningful when it is vigorous.
When you are twenty years old, when facing people or things you don’t want to face, you will think about coming to the scene to earthquakes and so on. In this way, everything will be "zeroed" and everyone is on the same starting line. The troubles in reality are nothing.
When you are thirty, you will suddenly feel tired and think, "You'll get seriously ill, so that you can just lie in bed without having to work, and be taken care of by others."
When I was thirty-five, I suddenly realized that I actually liked some light things more and more - light days, light people, and light mood.
There is no need to be too close to your colleagues, complete the work, and have a slight understanding without saying. I have heard someone I admire say that the three levels of entanglements with people and things are angry, hatred, and indifferent. If you really reach a "slight" state, that is, you really don't care about it. I think everything is like this.
Between your family, three meals a day, and you don’t have to have a big meal every day, just eat a regular meal together. In marriage life, no matter how heroic love is, it must withstand the polishing of ordinary life, so that it can be regarded as "the prince and the princess live happily together from now on."
and friends also seem to have really realized the tranquility of "the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water". When communicating, it is like a stream gurgling, slowly flowing through each other's hearts, without any utilitarianism, just listening, just telling, just experiencing the "wanting to understand each other".
I really want to be a grass in the corner. If there is the sun, you will accept the warmth of the sun; if there is raindrops, you will enjoy the nourishment of the rain and dew; if there is strong wind, you will stand up straight to welcome the baptism of the storm.It’s not grass, it’s a chair, a book, or a leaf. It’s good for everyone. In short, you will welcome whatever you encounter. Since you come, enjoy it and look at everything lightly. Just listen to others' words, and listen to them. When you encounter good or bad things that are labeled by everyone, you only welcome them, and then do what you think. The most important thing is to keep your indifferent heart. The sentence that Wu Zhe often talks about in "Soldier Assault": Normal heart, normal heart.
In life, the most important thing is to seek peace of mind.
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