"Where is your nanny? You are obviously the hostess! Let your dad show her grandson every day." When the neighbor came to Xiaofang's store to buy things, he told Xiaofang.
Five years ago, Xiaofang invited a nanny to take care of her parents, but now she is in trouble. Xiaofang wanted to fire the nanny, but the nanny refused to move out and said that she had been cheated.
What's going on?
The helplessness of my daughter
Daughter Xiaofang said: "I am drowned by the spit of my neighbors now, and my face is so bad."
Neighbors all say that my nanny is the hostess, and I instruct my father to work and take care of my grandson every day, and my father is still happy.
Usually, her son and daughter-in-law often come over, and her two grandchildren live here. The eldest is in middle school and the younger is two years old. The first two years ago, her daughter-in-law gave birth to children, and they were in my family for confinement.
My dad often leads her grandson to play outside. neighbors said that my dad has become a nanny to watch the children, and this home has become her home.
I became an outsider instead. Usually, I can’t speak anything at home. Sometimes, when I say something, the nanny actually said to me: Who are you? Who are you?
What is my old age? I am the owner, my name is on the property certificate!
Our family usually lives in our small shop. I have to take care of my two children, buy groceries and cook, and take care of the store. The child’s father purchased and shipped goods and picked up and dropped off the children. The two of us were very busy and we really had no time to take care of our father and sick mother, so we hired this nanny to cook and wash clothes for our parents.
My mother has been sick for twenty years and cannot take care of herself. The doctor said it was depression .
This small room next to the toilet was originally a utility room. After the nanny came, I let my mother live here.
Dad doesn’t take much care of his mother. More than ten years ago, my father ran away once and for several years. I was only in my teenage years at that time, and I had to go to school and take care of my mother. Life was difficult.
Later, my father came back. I was very happy that this family has been reunited. After my father retired, he could not eat in the unit cafeteria, and three meals a day became a problem, so I found this nanny through an acquaintance.
I think as long as the life at home is arranged, my dad will stay.
was very good at the beginning. My father's life was taken care of and my mother could eat and wear well. I felt relieved. At that time, I happened to be pregnant and came back less.
Later, the person who went to my store to buy things was talking badly about our family during a chat. said that the nanny was my mistress and brought her daughter-in-law, grandson and family with me. My father became the nanny to watch the children.
I came back quickly. I feel like this family has become the nanny's home. Her two grandchildren live in my house. My father plays with the nanny's little grandson, and my father never helps me take care of the children.
Xiaofang said, her eyes turned red.
The person involved, Lao Peng, hid in his hometown in the countryside, fished by the pond like nothing happened.
Father's helplessness
Lao Peng said: "It's because my daughter Xiaofang and the nanny can't get along. If they want to argue, they can't bother, and I can't take care of it."
"Xiaofang wants to quit the nanny, so just quit. All I can do is give the nanny more money and comfort her. But if she doesn't want to leave, I can't do it."
Lao Peng's attitude has two meanings. One is that he doesn't want to quit the nanny, and the other is that his daughter wants to quit the nanny, and he can only agree.
Lao Peng also has a lot of bitterness when talking about this family.
Lao Peng and his wife used to work in the same unit. Lao Peng is the leader and his wife is an ordinary employee. My wife got sick at the age of 40 and couldn't take care of herself. He works and takes care of his family, and life is very difficult. At that time, his father-in-law advised him to divorce and find another one. But for this family, he chose to stay.
A few years ago, Lao Peng also met a female companion he got along. After a few years of going out, he finally returned to this home.
Lao Peng used his savings to buy this house and recorded it in the name of the girl Xiaofang. This is the property he left to his daughter and the father's love for his daughter.
This nanny was found by her daughter Xiaofang. At that time, they negotiated that the nanny would be a companion for her father Lao Peng and would take care of her for more than five years. She could live here for a long time in the future, with a monthly salary of 800 yuan.
Lao Peng and the nanny just live together like this. The nanny used to be a cook and the meals were very good. It turns out that Xiaofang's mother, who was very thin, has gained a lot of weight under the care of her nanny and her face has become round.
Lao Peng is very satisfied with the nanny and is willing to live like this for a long time. But his daughter wanted to drive the nanny away, and he had no choice but to give her some compensation in money, secretly increased her monthly salary to 1,600 yuan, and gave her an additional 10,000 yuan.
Lao Peng also said that he didn't want to drive the nanny Xiao Aiying away, but his daughter Xiaofang was angry and he couldn't say anything. He is willing to pay for the nanny to rent a house in other places. When his daughter Xiaofang's anger fades, he will take the nanny back.
But the nanny was afraid that after leaving, she would not come back in the future, so she refused to leave. Her daughter Xiaofang insisted on driving her away. Then the conflict between the two of them was not well coordinated, so they could only deal with it themselves.
The attitude of the party involved Lao Peng is the main reason for this situation. Lao Peng didn't want the nanny to leave, so the nanny could always occupy the house. But Lao Peng had to listen to his daughter in front of his daughter, which caused a quarrel between the nanny and her daughter.
But the problem always needs to be solved. Under the persuasion of the mediator, Lao Peng returned home and sat down with his nanny Xiao Aiying, daughter Xiaofang and the uncle of Xiao Aiying, the then intermediary, and discussed the solution.
Uncle explained the whole story in detail
The person who brought the nanny Xiao Aiying to Xiaofang's house was the nanny's uncle, and the uncle introduced the story.
Nanny is my niece. After her husband passed away, she has been working outside, working as a chef, and working as a nanny.
Xiaofang was looking for a companion for his father and also looking for a nanny. My niece was willing to work as a nanny because she fell in love with Lao Peng. , or, at that time, she earned 1,600 yuan a month, and at this family, she had to take care of a patient, how could she only get 800 yuan a month?
Xiao Aiying has been working hard to accompany Lao Peng and take care of Lao Peng for the rest of her life. She really treats this home as her own home, keeps the home clean and tidy, and lives a harmonious and beautiful life with Lao Peng.
But she is also a mother and has her own family. The school in the city is good. My grandson is studying in the city and I can understand it if I come to my grandmother’s house for a few days. If you don’t want them to come, you can make it clear that they can come less in the future. She was going to be driven away, how could she accept it all at once? After all, she had a relationship with Lao Peng.
Xiaofang, you now think the neighbor’s gossip is not nice. At that time, you said that Xiao Aiying was the company of your father, and you agreed that Lao Peng and Xiao Aiying live together. You are afraid that Xiao Aiying will not be willing to take care of your mother, so you promised to let her live here for a long time in the future, and you also asked her to regard this place as her home. Now, why have you regretted it again?
She asked you for 50,000 yuan, which was what she wanted because she was reluctant to leave. Of course, the money you give is indeed small, so how can you get a nanny worth 800 yuan per month now?
"Lao Peng, tell me, is this the reason?" My uncle wanted Lao Peng to say something fair.
Lao Peng sat aside, looked at it with a newspaper, and didn't say anything, as if the things everyone was talking about had nothing to do with him.
Lao Peng could not hide anymore, so he put down the newspaper in his hand.
have both difficulties, and they understand each other
Old Peng said with red eyes that he didn't want to see the matter to this point. During the past 20 years when Xiaofang's mother was sick, he lived a hard life, mainly because he felt very hard. He also wants a wife who can talk and a normal home.
, he would like to thank his daughter Xiaofang for inviting Xiao Aiying for him.Xiao Aiying's arrival made him live a normal life and feel the long-lost home. He was reluctant to let Xiao Aiying leave.
However, he only has Xiaofang, and he cannot have a quarrel with his only daughter because of the nanny. When he gets old in the future, he still needs his daughter's care, so he can only let Xiao Aiying leave according to Xiaofang's request.
The reason why nanny Xiao Aiying was unwilling to leave: When she was invited, the agreement was to let her be Lao Peng's partner for the rest of her life, so she agreed to be a nanny, and she only received a salary of 800 yuan a month, taking care of Lao Peng and his wife in every detail, treating this place as their home. Now she suddenly wants to drive her away, but she can't accept it. She didn't leave because she wanted an explanation, and she also wanted a statement.
Xiaofang also has unspeakable difficulties. Her father once left home for a few years, but now she is older. She wants to find a cohabitation partner for her father who is not married, so that she can stay at home and take care of her mother. But she couldn't accept Xiao Aiying's mistress in the family, so she would rather pay than let Xiao Aiying leave, but 50,000 yuan was too much, and she refused.
They all talked about love, but they didn't talk about the law. If the three people involved knew the law and acted within the scope of legal norms, such an embarrassing situation would not have occurred.
Lao Peng is now living in de facto cohabitation, and he violated the crime of bigamy , which of course caused criticism from the surrounding neighbors.
If Lao Peng handles his relationship with the nanny within the scope of the law, he will avoid such a situation. First, keep your marriage with your wife. You can ask a nanny to take care of your wife. The nanny only does the housework that the nanny should do. Second, if you find a partner, you can go through the divorce procedures with your wife, and you will not leave your home if you divorce. You will officially marry Xiao Aiying and take care of your wife together, which will also arouse public praise.
If Xiao Aiying understands the law, she would not put herself in such an embarrassing position. If you want to find a partner, you should talk to it according to the method of finding a partner, instead of just making an oral agreement with Xiaofang, being both a nanny and a partner, without legal protection, you will be driven away by your employer at any time.
And Xiaofang wants to keep her father at home and find a cohabitation partner for her father. Her ideas and practices are illegal; she promised Xiao Aiying verbally, but she did not draw a clear line. After the situation he didn't want to see happened, he drove the weak Xiao Aiying out of the house, which not only violated his promise to Xiao Aiying, but also hurt his father's emotions.
last words
matter was finally resolved, and nanny Xiao Aiying left the Peng family with 30,000 yuan in compensation.
Xiaofang has taken control of the family and said she will move back to take care of her parents as soon as possible.
Lao Peng sat lonely on a rattan chair smoking a cigarette, looking out the window with empty eyes. He felt unhappy and planned to go to his nephew's house to retire.
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is that does nothing, it must be legal and reasonable, and does not violate public order and good customs . will not have an embarrassing situation that is criticized.
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