story: I went to visit my daughter, and what I saw while eating made me cry and leave 50,000 yuan!
My name is Wang Shujuan. I am 52 years old. I divorced my husband when I was young. After marriage, I lived alone with my daughter. I was afraid that my daughter would be wronged and did not remarry. My biggest wish is that my daughter can have a good home and not have an unhappy marriage like me.
My daughter is very beautiful, she is still a college student, and she has a good job after graduation. In my eyes, she is very good, and I also think that the man she is looking for should not be bad.
When my daughter came to me with a dark-skinned, short man, I was a little angry. I felt that he was not worthy of my daughter. After getting to know him better,
found out that his family was worse off than ours. He had no money, and he was not good at dealing with people. When he met me, he was hesitant and evasive because of my arrogance, which made me despise him even more.
I have worked hard to raise my daughter for so many years and paid a lot. I definitely hope that she will marry a good family. But she came back with such a man. I told my daughter directly, let them break up, he is not worthy of you.
My daughter refused to break up. I asked her what she saw in him. She said that I didn’t care about him, I only wanted him to be good to me. His family conditions are not good now, but I believe that through our efforts in the future, it will definitely get better and better. And compared to a prosperous life, I want a husband who loves me more, and I don’t want to meet an irresponsible man like me.
I fell silent when my daughter said this, because my marriage was indeed unhappy, otherwise I wouldn’t have divorced when my daughter was young. The reason for the divorce was that my husband found a mistress outside and left me and my daughter with the mistress and ran away.
But even so, I still can't understand why my daughter wants to find such a man. There are so many good men out there, and there must be someone better than him, but my daughter just identified with him.
During the relationship between her and my son-in-law, I also asked others to introduce her to better men. However, no matter how good the man was, my daughter remained unmoved and told others that she had a boyfriend.
Although I have always opposed it, my daughter just decided that he had no choice but to agree to their marriage.
I asked for a gift of 100,000 yuan. After hearing this, my daughter directly said that she didn’t have that much money. I glared at my daughter and said, don’t say anything.
But in the end, because the son-in-law's family was too poor, he only gave 50,000 yuan. But now, which family's daughter gets married with a gift of not 100,000 yuan or 200,000 yuan. How come my daughter only got 50,000 yuan as a gift, and my stupid daughter still helped the other party talk.
Because I was angry, I never went to see my daughter’s home after she got married. It was always the daughter and son-in-law who came back to visit me.
I heard from my daughter that they live in a very old community with her parents-in-law. Although life is hard, her mother-in-law is easy to get along with and she feels very happy.
also said that his son-in-law has made great progress in his work recently and his salary has increased, and his life will get better and better in the future.
Listening to my daughter say this, I feel helpless and a little relieved. I just hope that my daughter is really happy. Soon, my daughter became pregnant. I told my son-in-law that when my daughter gave birth, she must call me to tell me and I would take care of her.
I was taking a walk that day when my son-in-law suddenly called me and told me that my daughter had given birth to a little boy and that he had set off to pick me up to visit my daughter. I was very happy to hear the news and immediately went home to pack my things and wait for my son-in-law to pick me up.
watched the car swerve into an old-fashioned community. After entering, I found that the condition of their house was really bad. The furniture was all very old and almost obsolete, and the walls were also slightly yellowed.
But his parents were very enthusiastic and said they went out to buy groceries very early when they knew I was coming. They also asked their daughter what I like to eat.
Because my daughter had just given birth, she did not come out to eat with us, but lay on the bed in the bedroom.
After we sat down, her mother-in-law asked me to eat quickly, then she stood up and got a bowl and got busy. I watched her put some of the food on the table into a bowl and then bring it into the room.
The food on the table is very rich, and they even put my favorite ones in front of me for me to eat quickly. Halfway through the meal, the child started crying. I wanted to stand up to comfort him, but my mother-in-law quickly called me and said, "Sit down."
After the mother-in-law coaxed the child out, the food on the table was already cold, especially the food in her bowl was no longer edible. I told her to throw it away and heat up the food on the table before eating. But my mother-in-law said, how can we throw it away? It would be a pity to throw it away. It would be better to save a little bit.
Seeing my mother-in-law like this, I thought about the time when I aggressively asked for a 100,000 yuan gift. At that time, I thought their family was not sincere. Now it seems that I wrongly blamed them. When
left, I gave my daughter 50,000 yuan, which was the original gift money, hoping that this would make their lives better. Although my daughter is not very wealthy now, after getting along with each other, I can see that my son-in-law and his family treat her sincerely, and my daughter is very satisfied with this.
Isn’t my biggest wish that my daughter can live a happy life? Looking at my daughter's current state, I slowly let go of my prejudice against my son-in-law's family, and I just hope that their future life will be better and better.
