I really haven’t paid the heating bill for the house, and my parents are freezing.
My guess is correct
I have just calmed down for two months, thinking that it would finally stop bothering me. After a few days of peace and quiet, it got angry again today. I can't think about that fucker, my head is buzzing when I think about it.
I feel angry and confused, what should I do with my family?
My father and mother went back to their hometown before, but because of the epidemic, they have not returned to the city. My younger brother and his family are in the city.
When my parents were in my hometown village, my parents and I would video chat every day. We were very happy and felt that we no longer had any worries.
Filial piety comes first, and the health and happiness of parents are the most important.
My parents have returned to the city these days. I have been video-recording with my parents for several days, and I see my mother wearing a thick sweater and my father sleeping with a big quilt, and I am not very happy about it.
I was wondering in my heart, did my brother and the others not pay the heating bill? I didn't ask at that time, because I was afraid that if I asked them right after I went back, it would be embarrassing for them all to hear, and it would save me trouble later.
As a result, during the video today at noon, my mother said that this hurt, that it hurt, and that my shoulders hurt. Usually my mother likes to nag about some annoying things. After nagging about this and that, I just listen. Sometimes she hangs up when she doesn’t like it. I don't know why, my mother is like this.
I asked why it hurt. I was wearing such thick clothes. Was it because I didn’t pay the heating bill? I kept asking, and my mother told me. Filial piety comes first, but the younger brother is like this. When he goes back, he will add trouble to the old man. It is really mud that cannot support the wall, and hate that iron cannot become steel. It is his own fault.
According to my brother's current situation, he has no job. If he doesn't change his gambling, I guess he will have no money to pay the heating bill. The result is true.
I felt sorry for my parents who wanted to hand it over, so I called the customer service number of the heating company and they said that for the year-end settlement, I had to bring cash and the homeowner’s account book to the lobby to hand it over.
I really don’t want to make friends, so I just want to freeze it and let him have a long memory. He does this thankless thing every day, and he doesn’t change or make progress. There is no such thing as a pie in the sky.
I saw him on November 11, and then I paid my brother’s insurance, and I never contacted him again. Help him be happy. If you don't help him, don't contact him. The insurance issue didn't make me half mad. He insisted on finding someone to cancel the insurance that the child had paid for ten years, so he was anxious to get money. He was crazy and had no bottom line.
My younger brother is 38 years old and gambles online. He doesn’t want to repent. I will definitely never help him again.
Please don't morally kidnap me . Helping him is a brother-in-law relationship. If I don't help him, I have no obligation. The key is that he thinks about good things every day, but is not pragmatic and does not work. He goes to the construction site because he is afraid of suffering and being embarrassed.
I don’t know how much that face is worth. I can’t even eat, so I just stay at home.
How much is face worth?
If you change, I can help. If you don’t change, I will never be the same as before. I will just keep helping and helping. There is no hope. The problem is that you can argue with each other, it’s a bottomless pit.
I was so angry that my head was buzzing and hurting. If I didn't contact them, their family would never ask whether I was alive or dead. As long as I contacted them, they would give me money.
Whether I pay the money or not, if I pay, I am being filial to my father and my mother; if I don’t pay, I don’t know if I will have a long memory. What to do? It’s endless.
My mother told me that he was not at home and had gone to Beijing. He started nagging me again, and I didn't want to listen. I said, Mom, don’t get angry. He is almost forty and should be responsible.
He makes trouble like this every day. He just wants to go out, pick up his schoolbag and leave without caring. It’s almost Chinese New Year and I’m out again. I always bring money back when I go out. Every time I go out, I never get it back home and have to transfer it to him. This is what my parents are used to doing as a good son.
Can you not worry about it? It is fake.
No one will mention him to me in the future! ! ! I was so panicked that my hair almost fell out and I couldn’t even smile. If you don’t change, you will help but harm... @Toutiaohao#How scary is online gambling?#
