came across a video. A group of people were noisy, and one of them was heard yelling helplessly: "Do you want me to give you my life?"
It turns out that this is also about free medicine, but the free medicine was robbed by people. Those who did not grab it, or those who had already snatched it and came back, forced the boss to take out the medicine again.
I suddenly felt chilled. Maybe the people who gave away medicine for free were even more chilled. Originally, others should be grateful to him, but instead it seemed that he owed others.
Suddenly, I remembered the story about "a fight against rice and a hatred for rice".
Doing rice nourishes kindness, bearing rice nourishes hatred
Once upon a time there were two families living next to each other with no grudges at all.
One family is rich and the other is poor. There is a year of disaster and no harvest, and the poor family has no rice to cook.
The rich man couldn't bear that his family would starve to death, so he sent a bucket of rice to relieve his urgent need.
After the disaster passed, the poor came to the rich to express their gratitude. During the conversation, the poor mentioned that it was time to start farming soon, but the seeds at home had not yet been harvested.
After hearing this, the rich man immediately generously gave a load of rice to the poor man and asked him to take it home and make seeds.
Image source network
But after taking it home, the family was very dissatisfied. They cursed and thought that the rich were too stingy. They obviously had so much food at home, but they only gave them so little.
When the news reached the ears of the rich, he was very angry. The poor family also held a grudge because the rich did not give them more rice. The relationship was originally good, but because of this incident, there was enmity. From then on, the two families stopped communicating.
When a person is desperate, if you help him in times of need, he will be grateful.
Picture source network
But you cannot let your care become the norm, otherwise, people who are not grateful will think that everything you do is a matter of course.
They can't stand it if they don't do it as thoughtfully.
Rescue the emergency but not the poor
I also heard a story about a beggar who was begging in a village. He went around the whole village and no one gave him any money. Finally, a family was very kind and gave him ten yuan.
From then on, he loved to come to this house to beg. The owner of the house was always kind to him and gave him ten yuan each time. This lasted for more than half a year.
One day, the beggar came to this house again to beg, but this time the owner only gave him five yuan. He was very dissatisfied and asked the owner why he gave so little.
Picture source network
The owner of the house sighed and said: I got seriously ill some time ago and spent all my savings. I can only give you so much.
The beggar shouted angrily: "How dare you use my money to treat your illness."
It can be seen that a person's kindness will really spoil an ungrateful person. You must let your kindness go to the right person, otherwise you will end up in a sad situation.
There is a saying that it is very reasonable to help the urgent but not the poor. Don't let your good intentions turn into worthless things.
Everyone should always be grateful
I think this is also true of the recent epidemic situation. Many people agree, and many people complain.
To be honest, I am in favor of it, even though I have parents who are nearly 80 years old and both have underlying lung diseases. My father has emphysema and my mother has asthma .
But I won’t blame the country. I think everyone and every household should be responsible for their own health, right? No matter how well the country protects you, if you don't pay attention and are not careful, you may still get tricked.
Picture source network
I am really not a high-profile person who deliberately pretends to be patriotic. I am also one of the most disadvantaged groups. I have high blood pressure, but I haven’t been able to get any medicine.
But I guess I blame myself for not planning ahead. Preparing for a rainy day should be a skill that everyone should have. There were many opportunities to buy medicines in the past, but I didn’t predict them.
I also know that many people complain that they let go too quickly, did not arrange the medicine properly, or that they should not let go at all.
What I think is that every decision-maker is not a god, and the decisions he makes may not be in the interests of everyone. Moreover, I think letting go may come when you have no choice but to do so.
Image source network
Although I am really weak, my family is not rich, I have not been able to earn wages for several months due to the epidemic, and there is no one around me to support me, but I am really grateful for the protection I have received in the past three years.
are like parents. When there is danger outside, parents will protect their children without hesitation, remove external obstacles for their children, and minimize the danger.
However, when the child was let out, he was horrified to find that he had lost the ability to protect himself. Then in turn, he hates his parents for not protecting him for the rest of his life.
Image source network
I am willing to be that grateful person, not complaining, not afraid, leaving the rest of the way to myself.
Along the way, I am grateful to everyone who has helped me. It is precisely because of this gratitude that I feel that life is not difficult and I am full of expectations for the future.
