He can remember that his ex-girlfriend likes to eat beef. But I don’t remember that I hate eating celery because I saw him collecting some before. For the beef recipe, I specially ordered a portion of and stir-fried yellow beef , so I opened the call log. Only then did I see that he made a phone call to his girlfriend 42 minutes ago. I just wanted to thank him for dumping me and I've moved on. I also met better people. I'm Roman. 24 years old. Currently, he is an independent photographer and Li Shanwo’s ex-boyfriend. We dated for less than a year before we separated. At that time, the choice to break up was probably because of some bloody things that happened.
I found that we didn't understand each other that deeply, and when I was with him, he didn't even let go of his ex-girlfriend. We met in a bar. That day, two of my friends and I were drinking and chatting in a corner. From the corner of my eye, I saw someone getting closer and closer to me, and finally he stood next to our seat and asked. Can you add me on WeChat? Although the light in the bar was very, very dark that day. But there was a small yellow lamp on the table, which could basically illuminate his appearance clearly. When I saw it, I thought, wow, boys are too fond of me, because of my personal aesthetics. I really like the loose-fitting, Japanese-style clothes, and Dashan wore them that day.
Gray pullover sweatshirt, dark green wide-leg pants, and his facial features look handsome. As a face control person, if a handsome guy who completely suits my style comes to ask me for WeChat, I will definitely give it to him without hesitation. But in fact, when I chatted with him later, I discovered that he asked me for WeChat that day entirely because of him. He came to me after my friends lost a game of truth or dare and asked him to do a punishment task. Because I am a photographer, I am very sensitive to vision. When I was in the bar that night, I actually felt that Dashanren's style and film were very big. After a few days, I always want to take a set of photos of him. This is probably also my occupational disease.
After a few days, I was no longer so busy at work, so I took the initiative to send him a message and asked him if he was free and willing to be my model. His initial reply was actually completely what I expected. He said he was a straight man. I don’t know how to pose or take pictures, which will delay my shooting time. But I later told him that he was very handsome, and he agreed. I was optimistic about the venue and made an appointment with him to meet him on Sunday. What I chose was, I chose a community cafe. After meeting, I could tell that it was quite nervous. In fact, I was also very, very nervous. But as a photographer, I definitely can't show my timidity and say that I will take the initiative to find some topics to chat with him. As we chatted, our state became more and more relaxed. I still remember that at that time. I praised his hair quality and volume, and he said that he is actually an programmer .
Wow, I was shocked at that time, because he was so handsome, but he was actually a programmer. The contrast made me like him even more. After the shooting that day, we became more familiar with each other, and we usually share my cat and his dog on WeChat. I eat every day, how is he playing games, etc. If I have free time, I will go out to meet and have a meal. By the way, I would also bring my camera to take pictures of him. In the process of getting along, I found that we had many common topics. And in fact, I can also feel the change in the atmosphere between us.
After knowing each other for more than a few months, I just finished dinner with him. I was going to go for a walk in a nearby park, but when I was crossing the road, there were cars coming and going. There was a car that was quite close to me, so he suddenly held my hand, but because I had a crush on him at the time, I didn't break away. He signed the contract back, and we just signed it together. Later in the park, he confessed his love to me. How to say it? All the plots seemed to be within my expectations, and it’s true that I haven’t felt attracted to someone in a long time. I promised him at that time that we would soon be together for the first three months.
In fact, every couple is like this. The first three months are considered the love stage, during our weekends. I will arrange some activities such as camping and going to music festivals. Get up early in the morning and go to the beach to watch the sunrise or something. If both of us are tired from work and don’t want to go out, we will. Staying at home watching movies, cooking, Lulu Cat, etc., now that I think about it, it’s actually a good idea.
means that the relationship that attaches great importance to form is still relatively fragile. In the next three months, we will only understand each other. On the surface, there is not much in-depth communication. How can I put it? We have experienced many things together, but we. In-depth communication was rare, and I first observed a problem between us on my birthday. In fact, although I am a photographer, many clients or models will say that I am very outgoing, but in fact I am a little bit outgoing. Because I need to mobilize the other person's state during work, I can only pretend that I am a good shooter. But actually, when I’m not at work, I don’t really like dealing with people I don’t know well.
said that on my birthday, I just want to spend it with Li Shan and not get together with friends. Say, I even celebrated my bestie’s birthday in advance in order to save time for the mountains on that day. And actually, I told Dashan in advance that he would come to my house to celebrate my birthday. I was very happy when the doorbell rang that day, because we could have a perfect world together. When I went to open the door, I discovered that it was not Dashan people, but a group of his friends. He took him that day, he took two friends that day, and their girlfriends. I stood at the door and really helped him, because his friend and I only had dinner once or twice, it was not that kind of thing at all.
The kind of relationship where we can celebrate birthdays together and even come to celebrate birthdays at home. And I don't like strangers coming to my house. There will be a feeling of personal space being invaded, especially if they are there. When the conversation in the living room was very lively, I felt that it was very, very uncomfortable for me to be an outsider on my birthday, and I had to force myself to smile with his friends because of my face.
When I think about it now, it’s really outrageous if you ask me what kind of person I don’t want to fall in love with. I answered in my heart that I shouldn’t fall in love with someone who has Bai Yueguang in my heart, because Li Shan is that kind of person. At the beginning, we actually shared it during the stage of getting to know each other. Regarding our relationship experiences, Li Shan mentioned to me that he only had one relationship at that time. But later I found that the two of them were more suitable as friends than lovers, so they broke up peacefully.
also thinks that if you break up and see your character, you can reunite and part ways with your ex, which at least shows. He didn't make any mistakes in his last relationship, right? But now I look back and think about it. As for his relationship, if we can still be friends after breaking up, then to put it bluntly, we can’t bear to delete each other’s contact information. That day he sent me a message to report that he was having a drink after get off work. I told him that you should drink less and send me a message when you get home, but in the early morning, he became a friend. He called me and told me that he was drunk and could he be sent to my house. Not long after, his friend sent him over. Before leaving, he and his friends must have drunk too much, and they also advised me that I must have a good relationship with Li Shan.
In his last relationship, Gulu probably suffered a lot of grievances, and was eventually dumped by his ex-girlfriend. I saw that he drank a lot, because he didn’t tell me about it before, but his friends vomited it out. But strangely enough, I felt like I was being held hostage by morality. Later, after his friend finished speaking, he left. I made some honey water for Dashan and wiped his face, because he did drink a lot that day. Coincidentally, I was about to charge his mobile phone, and the text message notification was displayed on the screen.
I think the number is a private number? He was not that kind of spam text message, and I was worried that something was urgent, so I clicked on it and read it. I still remember the content of the text message very clearly. You should drink less in the future.With this sentence, my intuition told me that the number must belong to his ex-girlfriend. Later, I was also very puzzled. It was so late, why would his girlfriend send him a message suddenly, and she also knew that he had drunk too much. I opened his call history and saw that he called his girlfriend just 42 minutes ago.
looks like 34 minutes. Can we talk more in those 34 minutes? I thought about it all night, but I couldn't figure it out. The next morning, after I waited for Dashan to wake up, I couldn't bear it anymore, so I told him directly. I said that I saw an unknown number sending him text messages, and he used a very, very ridiculous excuse to demonstrate. He told me that he called his ex-girlfriend to thank him, and it was also because of being cheated on by him. The lame excuse made my mind too confusing, saying that I had not decided whether to continue being with him and wait for him to forget about the last relationship.
I broke up with him immediately. I didn’t say it at the time, I just pretended to believe it. But soon, before I had thought about it, loudly. He helped me make the decision. It was also a weekend and we made an appointment to eat at a Sichuan restaurant on Saturday. After it was cooked, Dashan habitually ordered a small stir-fried yellow beef, because the authentic stir-fried yellow beef will be seasoned with a lot of celery and coriander. But the problem is that he hates eating beef, and I never eat vegetables.
Who was that dish ordered for? Because I, I thought about it right away. The first time I went to Dashan's house, I saw that it was made of wood. There was a lot of beef jerky in the brown cabinet. I thought he liked to eat it, but he explained that he did. I bought it for my ex before, but I didn’t give it away after we broke up. I kept it at home and forgot to throw it away.
Speaking of which, I would mind if he could remember that his ex-girlfriend liked to eat beef. But I don’t remember the time when I hated eating celery and he ordered stir-fried yellow beef. A habit he picked up while dating his ex-girlfriend. I really wanted to get angry, but. I thought it was respectable to eat out, so I didn’t say it, but I was thinking about it while eating. What does he think of me? It was after getting dumped from my last relationship. I haven't figured out whether it's the transitional bridge or the replacement after losing the pendulum moonlight. I didn’t plan to dwell on it anymore. I said I broke up with him directly when I got home after dinner that day.
Because the basic principle of love is that the other person must only see me in his eyes and heart. If not, then there is no point in dating, and I will not spend time and energy to accompany him. Acting in the kind of painful drama that is unforgettable, giving up a mountain that can only look at the distance. It is much easier than climbing. Roman is not willing to accompany her boyfriend to completely come out of the last relationship. So he turned the other person into an ex-boyfriend.
My name is Dashan and I am 24 years old. Currently, I'm typing code at a game company. My mother and I met randomly while drinking in a bar. In the end, it ended very suddenly. At that time, my last girlfriend and I had just broken up.
I also have relatively free time. In addition to working hours, I often eat and drink with friends at other times. When drinking, boys actually don’t know how to chat. We just like to play games while drinking. As a result, when I was drinking that day, I lost in a game, so my old friend asked me to go to the girl in Linzi and ask for WeChat. At that time, because I didn’t feel embarrassed to say anything after drinking alcohol, I just walked over. I just asked if I could get to know him and add him on WeChat.
Roman was just chatting with his friends. After hearing what I said, he looked up at me. I guess he also saw the way the brothers at my table were watching the fun, so he didn't say anything. He opened his QR code for me to scan, and later we added WeChat. There has been no contact for several days, almost a week. Suddenly one day he sent me a message. We started chatting and he said he was an independent photographer and showed me his portfolio and his Weibo account. I thought he was a girl at the time.He seemed to be quite interesting and sincere. In the end, he said that my figure and appearance were particularly suitable for me. To be his model, he said, my face shape and my figure are particularly suitable for being a model. Finally, he invited me to be his model on weekends and help him create. We met in a cafe on a weekend afternoon.
Because I have a steely personality, and even though I am from Nanma, I have not been ranked by professional selectors, so I started to be a whole person. The body is very stiff and the whole person is very nervous. Moreover, we had just met each other. Said that the whole atmosphere would be a little awkward, but then we... We ordered something, chatted and drank, thinking to get familiar with the atmosphere first, but found that our two hobbies were surprisingly consistent. For example, he likes to travel, and I also like to travel. He likes to watch livehouse, and so do I. I didn't expect that he and I would actually like the same band, and he was very serious and dedicated when he was working. He can help me mobilize my emotions and relieve my tension. I even feel that our cooperation has a tacit understanding.
It took almost two weeks. He took the required photos. He sent it to me. Although I said I don’t understand photography, I can see that the personal style of his works is quite obvious. Then I think that photo is our joint work in my opinion, in order to thank him for taking such a good photo of me. In fact, I also had selfish motives. I wanted to see him again, so I told him that I would treat him to a meal. From then on, we became good friends and would have dinner dates almost every weekend. After that, in the process of getting along with him, I actually... I can feel that I have become more confident and better able to express myself. He seems to have a kind of social magic. It was this kind of talent that made him an excellent photographer, and he gradually became more versatile in the face of girls. In fact, it's hard for me not to be moved, but I don't want to cause trouble to him because of my unilateral thoughts. I can't even be friends, and sometimes I can't help but wonder if he will invite me.
If other friends of the opposite sex become his models, will he invite other friends of the opposite sex to have dinner together on weekends? Said, when I think of some problems, I want to be impulsive and cross the road again. I suddenly held his hand and confessed to him. How I feel every time I meet him, and how I feel when I can’t meet him. After he heard what I said, he smiled very happily, he said. He finally had his own model. I remember his words very clearly now.
On that day, we were really together. We had been together for 34 months. His birthday was also scheduled in advance, and everyone invited a few of his best friends to celebrate together. Two days before his birthday, he told me that his good friend couldn't come, so it became just the two of us spending it together. He loves to be lively, and I didn't want to spend his birthday in a deserted state, so I found my good buddy again. I invited their partner and planned to celebrate Slowly's birthday together, but I didn't tell Slowly about this matter in advance. Thinking of giving him a surprise, I didn't think of him when he opened the door. Stunned, I thought he would be happy, but only. I thought so. After entering the house, we all ate together, but he almost did not participate in our chat. I just sat on the sofa and played with my phone. I asked him several times to come play with us, and he always said yes. Does he want something? I didn't know when he got emotional.
I just think that if you are dissatisfied, you can wait until your friends leave to tell me, rather than in front of everyone. He showed it like this. Everyone was originally happy, but he kept his face and said nothing, which made the whole scene very embarrassing. This was the first time we were unhappy, when we first got together. I was probably in the sweet state of being in love at the time, but his sudden anger really made me confused. And if he gets a little short-tempered or loses his temper when we are alone in private, I can understand those things.I could even try to coax him, but he did it in front of so many of my friends. What he did was indeed a bit too much. I actually really hope he can trust me. Do what you want in front of me, and tell me directly when you are unhappy, otherwise I really don’t know.
. I couldn't guess
, but gradually he couldn't figure it out. Later, I only found out after listening to him chatting with his friends. Sometimes, when he was wronged at work or encountered strange customers, he would not hesitate. He wouldn't tell me these things, and what I didn't expect was that he would suspect me of having sex with my ex-girlfriend. Or he could keep it in his heart, and he wouldn't talk to me about it. To be honest, I don’t think I should have drank so much that day. After get off work on Friday, everyone was very happy. My friend asked me to go to the bar for a drink, but I told my mother and I went to play. As a result, I don’t know what happened that day. I lost the game and quickly got into trouble. When we were chatting, the topic of my ex came up, and I impulsively dialed my ex-girlfriend’s phone number. But I really didn’t want to reconnect with him, I just wanted to thank him for dumping me.
I have moved on, and I have met a better person because I broke up before. The ingredients suddenly threw me off, and I was actually a little unconvinced. I know my behavior is childish. But when I drink too much alcohol, I can still be rational, and it's on the phone. We actually didn't say a word, so I hung up the phone and continued drinking, but ended up drinking completely. Of course I only have a tiny memory of being dropped off slowly at home by a friend, and when I woke up the next day. Slowly told me that he saw my phone last night and received a text message. He was worried that something was urgent, so he clicked on it. I took a look at the number and it was my ex-girlfriend. I feel that this matter cannot be hidden any longer. It made me feel that I still need to take the initiative to explain it clearly to him, but what about after he listened.
was not angry at all, he just said calmly, I see, did I doubt you. I thought his reaction was so strange at the time, even if he got angry at me and asked me to do it later. Not allowed to drink so much or asked me not to contact my ex-girlfriend again. I think these behaviors are normal, but his current reaction makes me feel. It's very abnormal. Judging from his performance that day and his performance today, it's not like he doesn't care. He just kept his emotions inside, and I was actually quite helpless. I said everything I needed to say, but he didn't respond directly at all. I can't chase him to constantly prove his innocence. This would only make me feel guilty, but I knew clearly that he didn't believe it. It felt like nothing was right no matter what I did, and I felt aggrieved. Why can't he trust me more? Why can't I be more honest?
Later, my friend asked me why we broke up, and I said. Because of a plate of stir-fried yellow beef, they laughed all day long, which I also found quite funny. It's ridiculous, you know? The thing is, slowly and I made an appointment to go to a newly opened Xiangcai restaurant for dinner. Well, I ordered a small stir-fried beef because I had seen him collect some beef recipes before. I specially ordered a small stir-fried yellow beef, who would have thought of something. It became the last straw for us. I still remember that he didn't take a few bites at that time. He just said he was not feeling well and wanted to go home, and he didn't want me to send him back. Well, that night. I received his breakup text message. I felt baffled and asked him why. Then he said, what, you know? He said that he doesn't like to eat vegetables, and we may have different tastes.
They often quarrel after being together for a long time, which is outrageous. He said that it is to avoid such things happening. It's better to break up early and leave some dignity to each other. I remembered it when I saw that text message. He told me before that photography is the art of recording wind, sunshine and stories. Now think about it. He is also like a gust of wind. He often travels to various places to shoot, but I don’t like going to strange cities. Stability is the most comfortable for me, us. It's really not a good fit. We were too impulsive at the beginning and got together without much understanding. But even if we choose to break up in the end, the happiness we feel together is not fake. Feelings without trust will only make it difficult for people to move forward.
