1
When I received the call from my mother, I was in the hospital for fetal heart monitoring . Due to emotional excitement and unstable fetal pressure, the doctor suggested that I stay in the hospital for observation.
I hugged my husband Su Ke, and couldn't help but cry, and suddenly I said, "My mother is sunny!"
Su Ke rubbed my back and comforted my emotions, while saying, "It's okay, don't worry, our mother has no underlying disease, it's better to take medicine for a few days."
I kept sobbing: "But what should I do? I'm about to be due to due date, She was born as soon as she was born, who would take care of me?" ”
Su Ke patted her chest and said to me, "No, you still have a husband, it really doesn't work, let my mother come." ”
2
I also know that I have a healthy mother-in-law. But my mother-in-law lives in her hometown in the countryside all year round, and our lifestyle and eating habits are very different.
asked her to take care of my childbirth and confinement period, and only the words "confinement hatred" appeared in my mind.
Ke Suke is busy with work, so he only asked Month nanny Have no relatives around him, and he is really worried. So after weighing the pros and cons, we decided to let my mother-in-law take care of me.
After examination, the doctor said that I was already full-term and should pay attention to adjusting my emotions. I should not be too excited. I will wait for delivery when I go home.
On the day of discharge from the hospital, I just entered the community and saw my mother-in-law who we arrived earlier sitting on the sacks she brought, holding a steamed bun in her mouth and a green onion in her hand.
I was so disgusted that I blocked my nostrils and my face tilted to the side.
Su Ke saw my reaction and muttered to me in a low voice: "Old man, I'm used to it, give me some face." Then, he stepped forward and hugged his mother-in-law, and took a big bag on her shoulder.
3
My mother-in-law took out the treasures she brought from the sack, red dates, walnuts, yellow millet, and two large plastic buckets filled with farm eggs. She even took out a few frozen pigeons and old hens, saying that these are powerful tools for milking, ensuring that I have sufficient milk after giving birth.
milk milk, I hate to hear these two words the most, as if my existence is just for milk production. Is it because only children are important that I don’t need to care at all?
My mother-in-law was still chattering, and I couldn't listen, so she walked to the kitchen to pour a glass of honey water. When she came back, she saw her whispering to Su Ke. When she saw me coming back, she hurriedly stuffed a red cloth bag.
I am afraid that my heart will still be stuck, and I will never be able to stick with my mother-in-law like my biological mother and daughter.
4
My mother-in-law goes out every day before dawn, and always looks tired when she comes home, either with a solemn expression or a smile on her face. Every night at 7 o'clock, she would make an appointment in the WeChat group on time to meet the next day.
I secretly laughed in my heart. I am really an old lady. I made friends so quickly. I must have made an appointment with a group of old people to dance and exercise.
I complained to her: "Mom, it's a special period now, don't run around. If you don't get infected, I'm about to give birth."
My mother-in-law said indifferently: "Don't worry, Ni. Mom knows in her mind that when I was at home, I'm in great health. How could I be as delicate as the people in the city?"
When I heard this, I was not talking to the mulberry and scolding my mother. How could I bear it? My voice increased significantly by one octave: "This is an infectious disease, not a city disease. As long as you are a human, you may be infected.The ignorant is fearless, you don’t know science and you are not afraid, but what should we do? What should the children in my belly do? "
When my mother-in-law heard me yelling at her, she became anxious: "Every time I go home, I always spray alcohol as you ask before entering the door. What else do you want to do? Do we all suffocate to death in this home? No matter what, I will go out tomorrow, and I have made an appointment with someone. If you don’t let me go, I won’t go the day after tomorrow. "
I think it's the last day anyway, so let her go.
5
The next day was near noon, and my mother-in-law who had not waited for her to come home, but she waited for the property call and asked me to go to the property office to pick up my mother-in-law.
Listen to the description of the property staff , mother-in-law didn't know why, and started fighting with an old man in the same community. The property owner pulled the two away and asked them to mediate in the property office. As a result, the two of them didn't say the reason and just cursed each other. The property owner was afraid that they would fight again after they left, so he asked his family to pick them up.
My mother-in-law and I walked home, and my mother-in-law kept complaining behind me: "People like Old Man Liu should be beaten, and the property owner was meddling in other people's business and insisted on striking them. He even called you. After getting angry, I went to settle the score with them. "
I stopped, turned around, and shouted: "Mom, this is not your field, you will fight if you disagree. If I get angry, it will make you angry, and it has nothing to do with others. Tell you not to go out, you insist on..."
The pain in the lower abdomen suddenly interrupted what I wanted to say, and made me collapse to the ground. It really made my mother-in-law say that I was so angry that I was about to give birth.
6
When Su Ke rushed to the hospital, I had already entered the delivery room. After most of the day, I gave birth to a daughter of more than 6 pounds.
I thought that the rural mother-in-law would be a little boyish than girls, but when I was pushed out of the delivery room When she was still not concerned about the gender of the child. Instead, she took off her coat and covered it on my legs, afraid that I would catch a cold.
Back in the ward, the mother-in-law was not in a hurry to see the child. When the nurses were gone, she took out a red cloth bag from her close-fitting pocket. It was the one she hid when I caught it last time.
My mother-in-law opened the cloth bag, and there was a heavy gold bracelet .
My mother-in-law put the bracelet on my hand and said, "Mom knows that when everyone's attention is on the child, you will feel unbalanced. But I am not your real mother, I don’t know how to comfort you, so I really prepared a surprise for you and I will give it to you today. Like it, Ni? "
Actually, I really want to say that the gold bracelet is so tacky. But this gold color is like a warm sun, shining into my blocked heart, making my whole body warm.
I don't know how to express it, so I nodded to my mother-in-law.
7
The day after I got home, Su Ke and I found out that we were sunny. When the confinement wife heard about our situation, she immediately refunded the deposit and stopped coming.
Mother-in-law comforted us half-jokingly, the family always leaves a cooking person. She is not yet sunny and can take care of the whole family. Let us be quarantined in the room and leave the child to her with peace of mind.
After saying that, she took out a plastic bag containing antipyretics, cough water, anti-inflammatory oral liquid, alcohol spray and other items. These are the most intimate at this time, and I was worried about where to buy it. I hurriedly asked my mother-in-law when it was prepared.
Mother-in-law said proudly: "I have joined a medicine preparation group. Which pharmacy has medicine, and there is a sharing in the group. However, it is all about luck to buy it, so I go out early every day to queue up. I could have bought antigens, but the last time that Old Man Liu deliberately went to the lineup, which made me not buy it, so I started fighting with him. ”
It turned out that my mother-in-law went out early every day to prepare medicine for us. I was ashamed of the quarrel with her before and asked her why she didn’t tell me earlier.
When her mother-in-law said that when she bought the medicine, she heard from others that some people thought it was unlucky to prepare the medicine, and it seemed that they would definitely get sick. She was afraid that I would be the same, and she was pregnant, so she didn't dare to say it. She bought it secretly and put it away secretly. It would be best if she couldn't use it. Once she wanted to use it, she wouldn't be able to buy it.
I searched for something that my mother could eat during breastfeeding during her breastfeeding. Seeing that my high fever did not subside, my mother-in-law told me not to rush to breastfeed and take anti-inflammatory drugs first, so that the baby can drink milk powder.
Looking at my daughter from afar, I want to hug her and be able to feed her personally, so that she can enhance her resistance and resist the invasion of the external virus .
It was not until now that I realized that the mother himself is most anxious for the child to not have breast milk. My mother-in-law is also a mother. She probably understands this kind of mood, so she has prepared so many powerful tools for breastfeeding, for the sake of the children, and even for me.
Looking at the busy figure of my mother-in-law every day, cooking for us, holding my daughter to sleep, feed and stay up late, I never thought that her small body would have such great energy.
is the same. If she didn't have that much energy, how could she dare to fight with a man? Maybe this is her mother.
Don’t raise a child and don’t know the kindness of your parents. I didn’t understand it before, but now I understand it.
