Never met, but I had heard drunken voices on the phone, whispering softly, and caring for my children. I had a few phone calls with him, and I was very polite and generous.
The first meeting was at the end of December 10, when our family of three went to visit him. The first time he saw him was wearing a cotton coat, his hair was gray. It's normal to be in your 40s, and you're worried a lot. The whole person looked bright and energetic. After a few greetings, he started eating. He poured me a bowl of wine when he was drunk. I happened to drink too,
so I drank one bowl each person, chatting while drinking, as if I met an old friend. This was the first time we got along, and it was very harmonious.
There are 6 people in the family. Two elderly people in the family are alive, plus their wives, three children, two daughters, one son, and the son is the youngest. The son has never done anything since he was a child. The housework at home is usually completed by two sisters. The son’s task is to play, and it is also the happiest one. Because his lover gave birth to two daughters in a row, the daughter-in-law who was not favored by his father-in-law could only give birth to a daughter, but not a son (importantly underestimated daughter). The idea was very serious, so he proposed to separate the family and eat them separately. The seventy-eighty-year-olds are really cruel, and only one son has been separated. But I still live together. Whenever I pass by their room, I smell foul. Because I am old, I always go to the toilet at night. It is said that it is a family division, but the two elders have some discomfort, so they have to call him the son and grandson. The food and use of children and grandchildren pay for it, but they all do not have a good word from them. It is so sad and sad to keep their children alive.
Zui doesn't like talking, and always smiles when you meet people. When the weather is not cold, you always wear his old clothes, which are clean and tidy. The two daughters are already married. What makes him the most headache is his son. He smokes and watches a blog. He often stays up late to play cards, which makes Zui a headache.
is not easy to discipline. This is all due to his long-term work abroad and no time to discipline his children. However, in that era, everyone's living conditions were not very good, so it was undoubtedly reasonable to have to go out to work. This is my first understanding of drunkenness!
