I have heard a saying before: As long as you lower your head once in love, it means you will be lowered for the rest of your life.
After several years of marriage, I have been deeply touched by this sentence. Since I got married to my wife Wang Nana, no matter whether it is big or small, no matter who is right or wrong, the final result ended with me apologizing.
This made me, who has always been a little strong, feel very uncomfortable and always feel very frustrated. But when I think of the scene where she had a falling out with her family in order to get married to me, I endured it.
Sometimes I think, if our child was born a few years later, maybe I wouldn't have done such a thing.
My wife reacted very much during her pregnancy. In addition, her job is in the service industry. It can be said that she gave all her patience to outsiders during the day. After returning home, I, the person next to me, became her target of venting.
often ask me to get up late at night to buy food for her. If I can't buy what she likes, then what greets me is a storm. There were several times when I almost couldn't help it and wanted to quarrel with her, but when I thought about the child in her belly, I endured it again.
Time flies, as her belly grows bigger and bigger, she was at home for the last few months, and although she was very impatient when facing my mother during the day, she did not do too much. But as soon as I came back in the evening, she started to complain to me, saying that my mother was doing so, and also asked me to talk to my mother, which made me very embarrassed.
So I often take the initiative to apply for overtime, and after get off work, I will choose to sit in the car for a while to express my inner depression.
I counted the days with my fingers, and finally waited for the birth of my child. I thought the hard days were about to end, but this was just the beginning.
During my wife's confinement period, she did not eat the food made by my mother. It was either too greasy or tasteless. In short, she just didn't eat it. Seeing that a war broke out between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I immediately persuaded the two of them separately.
told my mother that it was all my wife’s fault. She was picky about food, and she persuaded her to persuade her to stop her.
As a result, as soon as I returned to the bedroom, she asked me why I didn’t coax her first. This sentence made me stunned and didn’t know how to answer. After
, she began to criticize my mother's actions during this period. I couldn't stand it and shouted loudly, "What do you want to do? I took care of the child alone, did you take care of me?"
I thought that if I left this at this time, she would give in, but she directly retorted, "Why can't I take care of me? Even if I can't take care of me, I can hire someone. My best friend Li Nan will take care of me. At worst, I can ask her to help me take care of it for a month."
Before I could speak, the door "bang" The voice was pushed away, and my mother said with anger, "Do you think I'm willing to serve you. Since you've found a good person, I'll leave tomorrow."
As a result, my mother ignored my retention and left my house the next day. I've gotten used to this situation because my mother has liked my brother since she was a child, and the reason why I was not favored was just because my mother thought that the second child was a girl, but she was still a boy. This also disappointed my mother and didn't like me much. And my wife still has this personality, so her relationship with my mother will naturally not be close to her.
After my mother left, my wife invited her best friend Li Nan over that afternoon. Seeing the two of them talking and laughing, and Li Nan was a nurse before, I felt relieved.
When I went home that night, I saw the hot food on the table and the clean house. I nodded. Before going to bed at night, I asked my wife, "Wife, how much does Li Nan cost per month?"
"Ten thousand," my wife said casually.
"Ah, it's so expensive."
saw that I thought it was expensive, and my wife said dissatisfiedly, "You go outside to inquire. Ten thousand is the lowest in our place, and this is for my sake."
I had no idea about this. While my wife was asleep and I went to the bathroom, I checked the price of month nanny , but it turned out that there was really nothing lower than 10,000, which made me feel a little better.
Just when I felt relieved about this, Li Nan suddenly pushed open the bathroom door. When her eyes were facing each other, she and I became nervous, and she was even more shy and her neck became red.
She closed the door in panic and walked out, and I felt very nervous.
After leaving the bathroom, I saw her sitting on the sofa in the living room. I whispered, "I'm sorry, I'll pay attention next time."
"Well, I blame me, I didn't knock on the door." She said in a low voice.
Whenever she looked at Li Nan the next day, she would always blush and lower her head.
Looking at her, I remembered the feeling of being with my first love.
This feeling seems to have given me a new life. I began to look forward to going home, and I didn't want to work overtime. Li Nan gradually looked at me and looked at her without escaping. Even when I looked at her, I found that she was looking at me.
What I like more is that she is gentle, no matter how the child cries, she is very patient. Even if my wife gets angry for no reason, she doesn't care.
Looking at her actions, I thought more than once, how great would it be if my wife had half her gentleness.
It’s said, it’s thoughtful, even though I already like her very much, it’s still stuck in my mind and there is no substantial action.
Until one day after get off work, I was used to sitting in the car for a while. When I heard the car window ringing, I looked up and found that it was Li Nan. I immediately got up, opened the car window, and said with a smile, "I'll just lie down, don't talk to my wife."
Unexpectedly, she said in a low voice, "Can I go up and sit down?"
I noticed something was wrong, and after she got into the car, I asked in a low voice, "Is she crazy again?"
Hearing me say this, she shed tears, nodded, and then shook her head quickly.
I understand, it must be my wife who is in a mess again, so I comforted her in a low voice.
When I said I could not bear it, she raised her head and looked at me, staring at her big eyes and asked, "Are you saying true?"
was speechless for a moment, but I nodded.
At this moment, she hugged me and said, "I like you."
For her actions, I pushed her away rationally and said in panic, "Don't do this, I'm already married."
"I don't care, I just like you."
When I heard this, my heart skipped a beat, and then I looked at her cute appearance, and I hugged her.
Although we have a little love between us, we still have to continue to live our lives and reality will continue to face.
A few days later, I calmed down and called Li Nan out. While expressing my apology, I handed over an envelope containing her salary, but I gave it double.
Hearing her say what she tried to keep me, seeing that I was not moved, he even threatened to tell my wife, my affairs with her.
looked at the photo of my wife and I in my wallet and said seriously, "No need to say it, it's all my fault. If you want to threaten me with this, I advise you to give up. I will go up and confess later. If you want to know the truth, leave quickly with the money, otherwise it will be of no benefit to anyone."
After hearing me, she turned her eyes a few times, and then said, "Then you add another 10,000 to me."
I agreed to her request, and she nodded with satisfaction.
After Li Nan left, I did not confess to my wife. She is still in the dark so far, but I advised her not to contact Li Nan.
A year later, my wife's house was demolished. As an only daughter, she got a lot of money. In fact, she had known about the demolition for a long time. She didn't tell me the reason, but she actually wanted to test me.
This also explains why she loves being so unreasonable.
Fortunately, I withstand the test. Although my wife's temper is still so bad, after these two things, I completely put down my airs and willingly be driven by her. After all, I feel guilty.
