Aunt Yulan came back from buying vegetables outside, and the door was closed. She went in gently but unexpectedly heard the conversation between her son-in-law and her in-laws. It turned out that I had always been self-indulgent and thought that my son-in-law really wanted to match him and his in-laws, but I didn't expect that they just wanted to be free servants.
Aunt Magnolia, her husband died of illness in her early years [she burst into tears], and she took her daughter alone and did not look for her again. Over the years, he has spent all his energy on his daughter, and his daughter has not disappointed her [she burst into tears]. Through his own efforts, he was admitted to a good university.
After my daughter graduated from college, she found a job that was quite appropriate in her major. During work, she talked about a partner and the two discussed settling down in the city where they were studying.
After my daughter graduated, Aunt Magnolia's financial pressure also became much lighter. Over the years, it is indeed not easy for her to support her daughter alone. She is less than 50 years old, but she looks much older than her peers.
The daughter is talking about from another place. The boy's mother died when he was in high school. Now his father is the only one. Aunt Magnolia did not agree with her daughter being with the boy, but she couldn't stand her daughter's like, so she had to accept it.
Before getting married, the daughter and son-in-law gathered a down payment together and bought a small four-bedroom apartment.
Aunt Magnolia at this time was also at retirement age. She was not a civil servant and did not have a formal unit. She just paid herself the urban residents' pension insurance on time every year. Now that she has completed the retirement procedures, she can receive a salary of several tens of yuan a month.
This pension is enough for her. She is still in good health and she basically doesn’t need to touch this money.
After the daughter and son-in-law got married, the daughter had told her many times to ask her to live together in the city, but Aunt Magnolia refused. She feels that she is now working as a placing clerk in the supermarket and earns more than 2,000 yuan a month, and she lives a comfortable life.
My daughter was pregnant in the third year after marriage. At this time, her daughter begged her again: "Mom, I am heavy now and it is a bit inconvenient to move. Come and take care of me! Besides, I don't feel at ease when you are alone in my hometown."
Aunt Yulan felt sorry for her daughter. Even though she didn't want to go, she still packed her luggage and bought a train ticket for her daughter.
Since Aunt Yulan went to her daughter's house, she took the initiative to take care of all the housework of her daughter and son-in-law's house: she did everything in detail and did it very well. For the sake of her daughter's health, Aunt Magnolia goes to the nearby vegetable market every day to purchase the freshest ingredients.
The family lives together happily without any contradictions. The son-in-law is also grateful to his mother-in-law. The son-in-law always said that since she went, he has the feeling of a mother and has the taste of a mother when he has eaten.
The son-in-law's father is five years older than Aunt Magnolia. Since his wife passed away, his in-laws have been single until now and have never remarried.
Aunt Magnolia and her in-laws only met a few times at their daughter's wedding, and they have never seen each other again since.
When having supper that day, the son-in-law suddenly said to his daughter, "Wife, my father is alone in his hometown. I'm not very relieved. I want to take my father over and live with me."
Aunt Yulan's daughter immediately refused after hearing this, but the son-in-law said, "You don't worry about your mother, take her over. I don't worry about my father either. Besides, our room is enough. In the future, you have more people and more care for you!"
Aunt Yulan did ideological work for her daughter after hearing her son-in-law's words: "The father also raised him alone, and you paid for this house. Now I live here, he has no objection, but his father comes to you. Isn't that obvious embarrassing me? If that happens, I can only leave and not make you embarrassed!" The daughter agreed after hearing Aunt Yulan's words. After a few days, the son-in-law took his father over.
In the first few days, Aunt Yulan felt really embarrassed. Her daughter and son-in-law went to work, leaving her and her in-laws at home.
Aunt Magnolia goes out to buy vegetables every day, trying not to stay at home to avoid embarrassment.
A few months later, Aunt Yulan found that her in-laws would always take the initiative to help her do something, and also took the initiative to talk to her about some homework.
After spending a long time together, my in-laws talked to her about the difficulties he had made over the years, and Aunt Yulan immediately felt a little pity for her in-laws.
Since then, Aunt Yulan will pay attention to the preferences of her in-laws and buy some dishes he likes when buying vegetables. At noon, when she and her in-laws are at home, she will prepare the food on time and wait for her in-laws to come back to have dinner together.
After spending a long time together, she felt that the initial embarrassment between her and her in-laws was gone.
That day, the son-in-law suddenly found her: "Mom, I feel maternal love from you. Since you came here, our family has really become angry and really looks like a home. My father has been here for the past few months and has helped take care of the children. With your care, there are more smiles on his face! If you like my father, would you mind spending the rest of your life with my father?"
Aunt Yulan never thought that her son-in-law would come to her to talk about this matter. She was a little embarrassed and didn't agree. She just said that she didn't think about it. It was good to be a relative.
When the son-in-law didn't mention this to her, she felt less embarrassed. Now that the son-in-law mentioned this to her, she felt embarrassed. She felt a little uncomfortable holding her little granddaughter at home every day.
But my in-laws became particularly attentive to her. Every day, I always talk to her intentionally or unintentionally.
That day, Aunt Yulan coaxed her little grandson to sleep and went out to buy vegetables, so that her in-laws could take a look at her little grandson. When she came back from buying vegetables, she found that the door was not closed. She thought she was anxious to leave and forgot to close it. I also blame myself for forgetting things when I am old.
She came in gently. When she was changing shoes, she heard the conversation between her son-in-law and her in-laws: "Dad, are you interested in my mother-in-law? I mentioned it to her, but she just said she didn't think about it. If you add some more fuel, maybe you can do it. If the child is successful, I don't need you here in the future. If you go back to your hometown, she can still follow you. At that time, someone will do laundry and cook for you and take care of you. I feel relieved!"
"This is not good for others, I can see that it is not good for me. She is a kind woman, but I can't deceive myself. The relationship between me and her is just a pure kinship! "
" Love is all about getting along. You are getting older and we are often not by your side. If you have a woman taking care of you, I'll feel at ease! My mother-in-law is soft-hearted, and you may agree if you have another skin. Besides, she also has a pension, and you won't have too much financial pressure in the future. If she wants to give her daughter, isn't it equivalent to giving it to me?" The son-in-law is still trying hard to persuade his father.
Aunt Yulan after hearing this, she couldn't calm down her mood for a long time. She deliberately made a sound and went in and said hello to her son-in-law and her in-laws as if nothing had happened.
After she entered the kitchen and started to be busy. While choosing vegetables, she recalled what she had heard just now. Only now did she realize that her son-in-law had already made up her mind and wanted to be a nanny for his father for free! This time, he suddenly took his dad over and turned out to have a purpose.
Aunt Magnolia decided to leave her daughter's house as soon as possible, and she did not want to cause any further misunderstandings.
The next day, Aunt Yulan told everyone about her idea of returning to her hometown. Her son-in-law was the first to keep her, but Aunt Yulan refused to stay here.
at the end: In real life, there are many examples of mother-in-law and father-in-law becoming a family, but they cannot pretend to be good people in public, but they are plotting against others behind their backs.
It is not wrong for juniors to make their elders happy and want to match the elderly together, but the mistake is that the purpose is not pure.
Aunt Yulan was kind and out of her family unity, and took care of her in-laws by the way, making her son-in-law mistakenly think that she was interested in her in-laws, so she had that thought. Aunt Malan can only avoid embarrassment and misunderstandings if she chooses to leave.
Because things in the future are hard to say, it is better to be alone than to serve others.
