It was night, and Li Wei hurried on the bed and didn't dare to turn off the lights. He held an axe in his hand and held it tightly in his hand. His eyes were wide open, staring at the door tightly, as if he was afraid of something?
Bang, something seemed to be ringing outside the glass window? Xiao Li was very excited when he heard the sound on the bed. He held an axe in his hand and kept saying don’t come over, don’t come over.
But what should come is still coming. The door suddenly opened. A black shadow outside the door strode in, closed the door, and snatched off Xiao Li's axe, resisting regardless of Xiao Li's knife, the overlord defiled Xiao Li.
This is not the first time. Xiao Li is a migrant worker from the countryside. Although Xiao Li is not a stunning beauty, she is also very beautiful and elegant. At that time, many men in the village said that she was beautiful.
One day, Xiao Li was walking on the road after get off work, and suddenly he felt that someone was following him behind him. He looked back immediately, but found that there was nothing. He continued to move forward, but the more he walked, the more something was wrong in his heart, he always felt that someone followed him behind him.
Xiao Li had no choice but to speed up and run back quickly. When he arrived at the door of the house, he opened the door, closed the door, looked out from the window, and saw nothing. At that time, Xiao Li suspected that it might be his psychological problem. He had watched too many TV series?
But after several consecutive days of night shifts, Xiao Li felt this way, and she became more and more cautious. She was holding several bottles of anti-wolf spray on her body, and ran home tightly on the way. When she got home, Xiao Li found that it seemed that someone at home had touched the original thing and was not in the original position.
Xiao Li ran to the door. When he wanted to go out, he loosened his hands wearing black gloves and closed the door tightly. Xiao Li looked at the black hands and couldn't help but tremble all over. He slowly wanted to put his hands in his pocket and take out the anti-wolf spray, but the man seemed to have a premonition, and he held his hands tightly and tied them up with a rope. However, Xiao Li's opposition defiled Xiao Li for the first time.
and after the matter is finished, he will threaten Xiao Li not to say it, otherwise he will take revenge on his family. Moreover, she has recorded the video on her mobile phone. If Xiao Li says it, he will send the video online and send it to her relatives and friends.
Xiao Li shivered and agreed to his request. After Xiao Li was sure that the man in black walked out, he immediately picked up his phone and called the police and wanted to call his family. However, he was so scared that he could only put down his phone temporarily and lay on the bed and cried silently.
In the following days, the man in black came to torture Xiao Li every two days, and Xiao Li had to endure it silently.
After reading Xiao Li's misfortune, let's get back to the topic.
Why do women choose to endure rape?
1, too loving face
According to a survey data, 97% of women choose to remain silent after being raped, and only 3% choose to call the police.
Sometimes the victims are seriously hurt and afraid due to the perpetrator's verbal intimidation. I cannot accept the negative impact of calling the police.
is afraid of relatives, friends, neighbors, and neighbors, looking at him with tinted glasses, insults, slander, and slander, pointing behind his back, and if his psychological ability is not high, he may commit suicide.
But if you are tolerant, although it is painful, you will not be forced to death by these remarks.
instead chose to conceal his silent licking injury, and then blame himself for his cowardice and self-pity for the rest of his life, which led to greater mental damage than physical damage.
2, which has caused great harm to women's families.
In China's inherent concept, chastity represents everything. From a social perspective, in the past, everything about women had to rely on men.
In that kind of society, if a woman’s innocence is wrong, the woman will be disliked by men in the whole society. After all, a woman is a kind of "item". Once she is "used" by outsiders, her "value" will be severely damaged.
After all, everything depends on men, and men dislike her when she dies. Later, social changes, after World War I, , women's status increased rapidly, and gradually women dared to accuse men of rape.
But this is a minority after all, because there are too many women who give up for family reasons and endure it silently. Deep down in their hearts, women feel that they have encountered such a thing and cannot face their husbands, children and parents.
3, I am afraid of affecting my own work
Because society has changed, even if women do not rely on men, they still have a way to survive. However, if this matter breaks out and affects their own work, then more of our choice is to endure it.
Work is very important for women. After they say these things, they are likely to discuss them among colleagues or between superiors and subordinates.
may also become the object of being excluded, making it difficult to get along with everyone at work, which will greatly affect your work, and may even lose your work.
4, how can women avoid being raped?
Women must have principles and never go to dangerous places, including sparsely populated areas, fields, hills, edges of villages in the city, bridges and culverts, etc. If there are more people, it is safer, and there are more righteous people.
Slums, urban villages are all places where dirt is prone to hiding dirt. There are many unemployed people, gangsters, homeless people, and scavengers in this area. They are a group of people with high incidence of rape crimes.
Don’t give criminals any chance. The cost of crimes for many criminals is so low that you can’t imagine. For example, a girl is raped by a scavenger and a scavenger is caught in prison. What’s the point? Maybe he lives better than outside.
So no matter whether you are a silence lamb or a weapon of the law, you have the right to speak and use the law to protect your legitimate rights and interests. With capital, you don’t have to worry about whether a man will give up on himself because of whether his body is beautiful or not, whether he is "complete" or not.
Stay silent after women raped. Do you have any other opinions?
