I really don’t want to talk about the broken things about our family, but I’m very angry if I don’t say them!
The summer of the previous year, my father-in-law suddenly had cerebral infarction in his hometown . The son's father's sister-in-law didn't say he would take his father-in-law to the hospital, but called us and asked us to drive back. We took our father-in-law to the hospital, and we went there for two hours. If we didn't say anything else, the condition could not be delayed!
Father-in-law is hospitalized, and the problem of serving is coming.
In the past, my father-in-law was hospitalized for one day when he was sick. It was not that we were concerned about anything. We lived in the city and it was not impossible to serve him. However, the child’s father was too tight at the office and could not even take leave. The leader did not allow him to take leave.
My uncle works in another place and can come back when he works in the province, but my sister-in-law doesn't let her come back because she is afraid of delaying her earning money. He didn't even tell his uncle. His sister-in-law said that if he told him, he would fall off the scaffolding if he was afraid that his uncle would be distracted! (The eldest uncle is a construction worker)
Ask a nurse. The eldest sister-in-law is afraid of spending money. Finally, the eldest sister-in-law said that she doesn’t need to avoid suspicion when serving the elderly, she will serve her.
Finally agreed, one day for one.
The sister-in-law said that she came in a hurry and didn't even clean up at home. She asked us to serve her first. She slapped her butt and took the bus home.
She left, and the child’s father couldn’t ask for leave again. I was in a tutoring class at the time. What should I do in the hospital stall?
tutoring classes are all the same as carrots, and I am also unable to do anything. Thanks to our boss, we are a good man. He said, "You go to take care of the elderly first in the past two days. I will find a way to do the class. You will come back when you finish your work."
Later I heard that the boss called his son to take over for a few days.
In this way, I go to stare during the day, and at night, my father goes there, and after work at noon, my father goes there, and I also go to take a look.
Because I just got admitted to the hospital, I had to do all kinds of examinations. Although he had diabetes , he was in good health and could walk or run. Now he couldn't do it anymore. He needed someone to carry him when walking, so I pushed him in a wheelchair because the ward and the examination were not on the same floor, which was a bit troublesome.
I am relatively thin. Although my father-in-law is not very tall, I can't mess with him. Unfortunately, he will help him when he meets kind-hearted people. Everyone knows that it is not easy to be hospitalized.
In fact, checking this is a trivial matter. The key is that a daughter-in-law, my daughter-in-law, is a little embarrassed to serve my father-in-law, especially when he is about to urinate and defecate. Although my father-in-law is a little confused, he has not yet gotten confused yet, and he feels embarrassed every time he urinates.
It just so happened that my father-in-law's hospital bed was next to the wall and there was a curtain, so he asked me to hide outside. He pulled the curtain and connected it with a urinary pot. After that, I went to the bathroom and poured it down.
If you have stool, the child's father usually comes to see it in the morning. If he feels comfortable, he will help his father-in-law to go to the bathroom.
At night, because the ward did not allow simple beds to be placed, the child's father put the two chairs together to pay for it. It looked very uncomfortable, and the child's father was fat, which was really difficult for him!
This combination of the two of us can be considered 360 degrees without blind spots.
The people in the ward thought I was my father-in-law’s daughter at first, but they didn’t expect it to be my daughter-in-law.
My child’s father and I persisted like this for three days. My sister-in-law hadn’t come yet, so she called him. My sister-in-law said she was coming at home and could not come for the time being.
Waited for two more days, but my sister-in-law still didn't come. I called her again and she explained that she would come tomorrow.
In this way, on the sixth day of my father-in-law's hospitalization, I waited for my sister-in-law's son, that is, my father-in-law's grandson.
Her son went to college and came back from summer vacation.
Her son was sent to the hospital as soon as he was on vacation. My sister-in-law never came again after leaving the hospital. (I guess my sister-in-law just said that she would not avoid suspicion. She felt that it would be too good to serve her father-in-law.)
At this time, my father-in-law's illness had improved with the intervention of drugs.
When my father-in-law first started to get sick, his condition was quite serious. He couldn't even call out his son's name. Just looking at his son smirking, and walking became a problem. Without the help of his father, he couldn't walk into the toilet by himself. Fortunately, my father-in-law's disease has improved with the intervention of drugs.
But this improvement is only compared to when he was first hospitalized. He still couldn't walk when he was discharged from the hospital. His father pushed the child's father to the side of the car in a wheelchair and then put it on the car. His mind was still unclear, he did not recognize people, did not recognize the road, did not recognize money, and was confused.
After staying in the hospital for nine days, the doctor was discharged because he was a chronic disease. The doctor asked him to go home and take medicine to take care of him slowly.
stayed in the hospital for nine days and spent more than 7,000 yuan. At that time, all the money was paid in advance. After the discharge, we registered for more than 3,000 yuan for the cooperative medical treatment , there were still more than 4,000 yuan left. It is said that our two families should be half of each person, and my sister-in-law has not given us yet.
is not said, it’s all about money, it’s all small matters.
Father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, and we were even more troubled and worried.
My father-in-law has been living in his hometown. We are in the city. He is now inseparable from people, which means that our two families have to take turns to take care of them.
The eldest uncle is already the same village as his father-in-law. They are very convenient to take care of, but they are not far away anyway.
We can't do it anymore. It's far away. It's hard for the child's father to take leave, so it's not realistic to ask my father-in-law to come to live in the house, because we live with the child's grandmother, and our family has no extra rooms. My father-in-law really comes to our house and has no place.
My husband and I thought about it and decided to discuss it with our uncle. When it was our turn to serve him, he would also serve him and we would pay.
In fact, it was nominally discussed with my uncle, but in fact it was discussed with my sister-in-law. We gave her three thousand first, but she accepted it without even giving it to her.
The first day after my father-in-law was discharged from the hospital was Sunday. The child's father came back after taking care of him for one day.
Another week passed, the child's father went back to his hometown to see his father-in-law. He was the only one at home, so he asked him, "Why are you the only one? Didn't my sister-in-law come to see you?"
father-in-law said, "Your sister-in-law has never been here. We always come here occasionally (the child's father's nephew, the grandson in the above) to see me."
father-in-law asked, "Who is here to accompany you tonight?"
father-in-law: "I can do it myself if you don't need anyone to accompany you at night."
father-in-law said, although his father-in-law was a little confused, it can be explained in general. He also knew to cover up his sister-in-law.
The child's father changed his father-in-law's clothes. He saw that he had a bruises on his legs and his arms, and he was all blue. He asked him what he did. He couldn't justify himself. Finally, he told the truth and said that he fell from the bed at night.
Later I finally understood that the eldest grandson didn’t spend the night with him, not even a day!
This is what my sister-in-law does!
Later, the child's father went back to serve his father-in-law after work at night. He knew that no one would be in vain!
The child's father ran for about a month before his father-in-law gradually got better.
My uncle never came back to see you since the beginning, let alone serve you.
I got angry as soon as I said this. The child’s father refused to say it. One was his father and the other was his brother. What could he say he could say?
