The second sister who has no self (Three Eighth of the 72th house tenant)
2022-12-04
While the eldest sister is happy, her life is not good. Of course, this is not a problem of working, but because of the pressure from the family, and the pressure from the family comes from two aspects.
Originally, their lives were not good, but they were extremely simple. However, because the eldest sister's behavior challenged her father's family position, the father began to impose control of her second sister and younger sister through her mother. The two were still relatively young at that time and were basically in a complete defeat. But with the addition of my elder sister, this one-sided fall has become a tug-of-war, and the second sister and the younger sister are at the center of this tug-of-war, so at the end, the second sister and the younger sister chose the completely opposite path.
Because of the successful departure of her elder sister, she became the idol of her second sister and her younger sister, at least a family member who can be negotiated. Her mother's unsteady and fear after she was already in poor health, she gave all her thoughts to her father, so the elder sister became a turning point and became the parent of her second sister and her younger sister.
And because of her previous life and later success, such a well-regarded person manifested as direct intervention in the lives of her second sister and younger sister. Without her knowledge, she also put great pressure on her two sisters. It can be said that her second sister's life was the choice after her final collapse, and this choice also made her self-aware.
First of all, my second sister also went to Hefei to work, and she lived in the master bedroom of our room. She almost persisted for a while after she became an adult, and it was during this period that we met. At that time, the eldest sister had left, and the second sister was also ready to leave. First of all, because he is in the whirlpool, and secondly, his salary is relatively low there. She still went to Suzhou to work. The relationship introduced by her elder sister is relatively easy to supervise in Qingfeng Paper Factory, but she is also relatively tiring. But this kind of fatigue seems to be more psychological. When I saw her again in Hefei later, she was still beautiful, but she felt that her skin was in her thirties and was far from her sisters.
She worked in the paper mill for a long time, and during this time, because he became an adult, his father began to recruit people to introduce his husband's family. In fact, there were some before, but because of his elder sister, he gave up. When she was alone in Suzhou, his father seemed to have it and introduced him when he felt it was OK.
At the same time, the eldest sister, who successfully transformed her marriage, also began to look for her in-laws for her sister. Both sides were introducing it. There were many people added to QQ, but they were not satisfied, but they could not refuse.
It was my elder sister who was introduced to me as an initiative. On May Day holiday, I said I would go to meet and chat. I did the work that night. Regardless of whether my second sister agreed or not, I agreed after the appointment. There may be some reasons introduced by my elder sister, and more importantly, cultural reasons. After that, she had frequent exchanges in Suzhou and Hefei!
This time the battle, my father failed again, but he didn't say anything. After all, this can be said to be used to it, but my mother started to panic, and you can't all leave. But sometimes love is like this, it’s no longer possible!
The person introduced by the elder sister is actually not very good, at least not as good as their family. She introduced her because she is familiar with her. She couldn't meet more people there. Although her parents-in-law were satisfied with her, they could not introduce her family. After all, the surrounding area is demolished, so it's hard to say that they don't like it. The person introduced by my elder sister also has a house but will not be demolished at all. It is a place that the government has already drawn, but it is better than their hometown, and more importantly, it is closer to me. And what about the person introduced? I just said that whether you agree or not, you will do it. So this person’s character is not very good, but it cannot be said that he is not bad. For them, this may be normal. He is just a gangster in the village. His parents paid for a community supermarket and their lives were better.
It’s just that men are a little bit of a waste. Although they don’t have those capitals, they are still OK occasionally. So the second sister often sighed that she didn’t meet someone similar to her father because she listened to her father.
She has now had a son and a daughter, and her life is not full. Although she is not as good as her elder sister, it is much better than what she thought before!
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