"Don't you plan to go back?" The in-law suddenly asked Aunt Sun, who was still in the hospital.
Aunt Sun was a little at a loss and didn't know how to answer this question for a while. She thought this should be what her daughter-in-law meant!
Aunt Sun came to take care of his son and daughter-in-law as soon as he retired. It has been more than 10 years since he retired.
At the beginning, my wife did not retire, so they had to separate from each other, but for the sake of their son, the old couple had no complaints, but this became Aunt Sun's biggest regret.
Aunt Sun's wife was about to retire, but she fell accidentally and was not taken to the hospital in time and never woke up again. This made Aunt Sun regret and suffer for a long time. She blamed herself. If she were at home, her wife might not have left like this.
Aunt Sun felt uncomfortable and didn't dare to say it out loud, for fear that her son would blame herself. She was depressed for a long time. Her son and daughter-in-law were worried that she would do stupid things, so her daughter-in-law even called her mother over to accompany her. At that time, the whole family was in a good relationship.
Time can heal all the pain, and Aunt Sun slowly came out. She knew that if she had been immersed in grief, her son would also blame himself in addition to worrying, because it was all for his parents.
After that blow, Aunt Sun's health was much worse. Once she got older, she would inevitably suffer from illness and pain. Her son and daughter-in-law were busy every time, which was really hard. This time she was hospitalized and she obviously felt her daughter-in-law's impatientness and no longer had her previous care and care.
That day, my in-laws came to the hospital to see her and suddenly asked her if she was still going back? She didn't react at once.
She didn't want to go back in her heart. Her wife was gone. Over the years, her retirement salary was subsidized for the family, and the savings left by her wife were also given to her son.
In order to go to school, the daughter-in-law wanted to change the school district housing. In order to relieve their pressure, Aunt Sun took out all her pension funds and asked her son to change the house. Now she is not in good health. What should I do if I go back to live alone?
Aunt Sun did not answer her in-laws. She didn't expect that the person who has always been friendly to her suddenly changed her face and said that she is dragging the child down now because she is sick every few days, so the children have to ask for leave to take care of her. Is she not guilty at all?
Aunt Sun felt that she was also very wronged. She left her husband to take care of her grandson, but her husband died unexpectedly. She never considered herself and took out her retirement capital and asked her son and daughter-in-law to change houses. Now this family has no place for her?
The grandson was taken care of by her as soon as she was born. She paid and worked hard to take care of the family's life and did housework. Isn't these efforts counting? Just because she is old and sick, she should have abandoned her. She didn't know that it was because her in-laws felt sorry for her daughter and came to her to say this privately, or because of her daughter-in-law's intention, but it made her feel very disappointed.
After being discharged from the hospital, the daughter-in-law asked her in-laws to live in the pretext that the grandmother was not suitable for fatigue. The son also thanked her mother-in-law and said that she had caused her trouble.
As long as the son is not at home, the daughter-in-law and in-laws will deliberately leave her alone and don’t talk to her much. Whenever she wants to do something, they will stop her quickly and say that they must not be tired of her anymore. It is hard to explain to her son if there is anything. The words are about her, but the tone sounds very uncomfortable.
Aunt Sun knew that this was despising her and wanted her to take the initiative to leave, so that they would not have to worry about their son's objection and would not be evil people.
Aunt Sun can't bear to leave her son and grandson, but this family makes her stay too uncomfortable. She is ridiculed by her in-laws every day. She really can't stand it anymore, so she told her son that she wanted to go back.
The son disagreed. He actually always blamed himself for his father's affairs. It was impossible for his mother to go back. If the same thing happens again, he will really be blamed.
In-laws and daughter-in-law advised their son to respect Aunt Sun's wishes, and said that returning to their roots is the wish of the old man. They can visit Aunt Sun from time to time, but their son just refused to let go and firmly disagree.
One day, my son returned and forgot an important document at home. At the door, I happened to hear my mother-in-law dislike Aunt Sun and said that she wanted to stay here and not leave. My son opened the door and looked at her mother-in-law very angry, and finally understood the reason why her mother suddenly asked to go home some time ago.
He asked his mother-in-law whether she meant her or her wife. The mother-in-law knew that she could not tell the truth, but only said that she meant her. The son was not stupid. I believe that the wife had complaints and the mother-in-law had this idea. No wonder the wife insisted on keeping her mother-in-law. She planned to drive away his mother-in-law and leave her mother-in-law to live with her.
The son asked his mother-in-law to leave directly. If she was visiting his wife and grandson, he would welcome him, but if he bullies his mother again, he would not get in contact in the future.
The mother-in-law didn't expect her son-in-law to be so merciless. She immediately called her daughter, and the daughter-in-law rushed back immediately. She saw that her mother and husband were both angry, and the mother-in-law anxiously persuaded her husband.
Seeing her come back, Aunt Sun's son asked directly who wanted Aunt Sun to leave. Without waiting for his daughter-in-law to answer, the in-laws directly said that it was her own meaning. The daughter-in-law knew that the son had discovered something and said nothing.
What else does my son have to understand? He asked his wife and said that Aunt Sun has spent money and efforts over the years, but when the child is raised, he wants to drive away the person. Do you have no conscience to do such a thing?
Aunt Sun's son directly expressed his opinion that Aunt Sun could not leave, and if she wanted to leave, her mother-in-law would leave. If she was willing, she could leave together.
Aunt Sun stopped her son and refused to let him say anything else. The good family should not be separated because of her!
Aunt Sun saw her son protecting her so much, and shed tears of relief and touching.
The daughter-in-law has never seen her husband get so angry. Knowing that there is no room for negotiation on this matter, she comforted her mother and sent her back. When she came back, she apologized to Aunt Sun seriously, saying that she would be filial to her with her son in the future.
Disrespected and filial to the mother-in-law. It seems that it is really a problem for the son. Another reason is that the son is incompetent and it is difficult for the man’s parents to be respected.
Where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law should be kind to her daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law should also be grateful for her mother-in-law's efforts to their small family, so that the family will be harmonious and life will get better and better.
Do you think Aunt Sun’s in-laws and daughter-in-law are too much?
