Speaking of which, in a local village in Shandong, there is a woman named Jinxiang. Originally, I thought that my life would last like this, but I didn’t expect that my husband, who was in his forties, fell in love with her and divorced her.

: In a local village in Shandong, there is a woman named Jinxiang.

Jinxiang is forty-three years old this year and is about to reach fifty years old.

Twenty years ago, she married a man named Sun Lianying from the same village by a matchmaker.

Originally, I thought that my life would last like this, but I didn’t expect that my husband, who was in his forties, fell in love with her and divorced her.

This was not a glorious thing in the countryside in the 1980s. Sun Lianying could leave the village regardless of it, but she, Jin Xiang, was a strong woman.

People in the village called Sun Lianying a bad guy and advised Jin Xiang to persuade her husband well, it would be better not to divorce. After all, even if you can get married again at this age, it will be a hard time for the child to divorce.

Jinxiang did not follow the advice of the villagers. He knew his husband's temper. As long as it was something he believed, Jiutou could not bring it back.

She Jinxiang has been strong since she was a child. When she was twelve, she followed her father to the production team to earn labor points. A woman earns more labor than a male.

Although I am still poor today, I have never starved to death.

On the day of divorce, she left the Sun family and took nothing away. Even her only son was taken away by her husband Sun Lianying.

Everyone in the village stood on the street, watching Jinxiang walking alone from her husband's house at the west end of the village to her mother's house at the east end of the village. Everyone sympathized with this cheerful, carefree but such a miserable woman.

After Sun Lianying and Jin Xiang divorced, the family suddenly became empty, leaving only Jin Xiang's mother-in-law.

My wife died early, Jinxiang's mother-in-law pulled three children alone and grew up.

Two years ago, the old lady had cerebral infarction . Although she did not have hemiplegia , she suffered from a disorder of mobility.

It is said that when the old man is sick, his son and daughter must come to take care of him.

But every time my two daughters come to their parents' home, they just look and ask, and no one ever said they stayed to serve for a few days.

For more than two years, Jin Xiang has served the old lady alone in eating, drinking, defecating and urinating.

The old lady knelt down to her son several times for the divorce, begging him not to be so ruthless.

But his son Sun Lianying accepted the truth and said nothing. When he left home, he pushed his mother away.

just pushed me so completely paralyzed.

The old lady is also stubborn. In the early morning, she couldn't think of it and drank DDT .

Neighbor Old Lady Tian used to ask Sun Lianying's mother to relieve her boredom. After dinner in the morning, I came to see the old lady as usual.

When you enter the door, you see the door of the main hall open, but there is a "ding-ding-dang-dang" sound inside.

When he entered the house, he found that Sun Lianying's mother was in pain in the bed, plucking things everywhere.

When old lady Tian saw that something was wrong, she quickly called her son, and her son called the old branch secretary of the village again.

As the saying goes: Good things don’t go out, bad things pass through thousands of miles.

The old lady of the Sun family drank pesticides early in the morning.

When the doctor in the production team came, he looked at it and told everyone that Old Lady Sun was not good at all.

has been drinking pesticides for too long, and even if you are sent to the hospital, , gastric lavage and , you can't be treated.

The yard was already surrounded by people. When everyone heard that Old Lady Sun could no longer save her, they started to say in a chattering manner.

"Hey, this old aunt has never enjoyed a blessing in her life. When she is old, her son and his wife are divorced. She drank pesticides by herself."

"Who said that's not? This old mother was a widow when she was young. You have never seen her. In the difficult time, she was hungry for several days in order to save food for her three children. She only drank water but did not eat, and almost starved to death."

"I know that at that time, she was a man alone and earned the work points of the two people to support her family. Alas, this is a poor person."

At this time, the old branch secretary walked out of the house. Listening to everyone talking about old Mrs. Sun's old story, he shouted: "I said, "Young and young, don't talk about it here. Those who should help stay and help. Those who don't help will go home to see the children." "

When everyone heard the old branch secretary's words, they kept silent. Some people stepped forward to help, while others left the yard.

Old Lady Sun is not good, so she needs her children to come and take care of her to see if the old man has any last words of death.

The old branch secretary asked the people around, and no one knew where Sun Lianying went, and there was no way to contact him.

Since the son could not contact him, please contact your daughter and son-in-law first. So he arranged for someone to go to his two daughters' house to call someone.

I learned about the matter from the morning At the beginning, I arranged for someone to call Mrs. Sun's two daughters, but no one came to me until noon.

Seeing that Mrs. Sun was no longer able to do it, and no family came to deal with the matter, the old man might be about to die regretfully.

Just when everyone was worried, I saw Jinxiang walking in with a bowl of noodles.

Three days after the divorce, Jinxiang came to her mother-in-law's house again.

Looking at the people in the yard busy, Jinxiang realized that something might have happened to her mother-in-law.

"Auntie, old branch secretary, why are you all here? "Jin Xiang asked loudly.

"Oh, Jin Xiang is here, your mother-in-law, oh no, this old sister-in-law can't think of it for a moment and drink pesticides. "The old branch secretary said to your mother-in-law, but when they thought the two got divorced, they changed their words and said.

"What? Why did this old mother take medicine? "Jin Xiang asked anxiously, her hands shook and a bowl of noodles sprinkled all over the floor.

"Hey, everyone doesn't know. They guessed that it should be because of you and Lian Ying's affairs, so they couldn't figure it out. "The old branch secretary took a puff of his cigarette and said.

Jin Xiang hurriedly ran into the house before the old branch secretary finished speaking.

has not met for only three days, and the house has become dissatisfied.

When she left, her husband Sun Lianying was still at home. Jin Xiang originally thought that no matter how cruel he was, he could not take care of me.

But she didn't expect that this man was so cruel and actually gave up the old man who was inconvenient to move. My mother went to have a happy and carefree life alone.

Jinxiang looked at the mother-in-law lying on the bed, her mouth opened and closed, and she seemed to have less air intake and more air exhausted.

The old branch secretary followed behind, watching Jinxiang walk to the bedside, and he called everyone back to the yard to wait.

There was no way at this time, so she could only rely on this woman to deal with the funeral.

But before everyone could gain a firm foothold, they heard Jinxiang in the room shout loudly: "Old mother, what are you doing! "

" You are really capable and you also drink pesticides! If you want to die, you will die openly and brightly. Who will you show me this way? "

Everyone listened to the roars inside the house, and some people thought of going in to persuade her. After all, people are going to die, so we can't yell at her like this anymore.

But the old secretary stopped everyone. She knew Jin Xiang's personality, she would not do anything that was messy.

"Old secretary, the old mother is not good anymore, why didn't anyone inform those two good daughters? "Suddenly Jin Xiang walked out of the room and shouted.

"Notified, hey, who knows what's going on? No one has come yet. "The old branch secretary said helplessly.

"There is a hot next door, when the old mother can't move, they are like this. Now the old mother is like this, they still can't hide at home. Could it be that these two people popped out of the cracks in the stones! "

" Everyone is like this, old branch secretary, there is no such shroud or coffin. This is how you do things? "Jin Xiang said angrily.

Everyone was a little unhappy when they heard this. They were all here to help, not to be scolded.

"Jin Xiang, look at what else is there in this family? Aren't shrouds, coffins, and paper money all done by their children? Now these three people are not around, so no matter how capable you are, you can't make this master. "The old branch secretary said.

"I'll go over and ask your sister-in-law if you have any explanations. When you are good, the old sister-in-law is also a sensible person. When she is old, she should be prepared."The old branch secretary said again

Jin Xiang walked into the house with the old branch secretary again.

"Old sister-in-law, do you have any explanation? Jinxiang is next to you, tell me and listen. "The old branch secretary asked.

Old Mrs. Sun was already a little coma at this time, her eyes were closed, and she opened her mouth but couldn't make a sound.

Old branch secretary put her ear close to Old Mrs. Sun's mouth, and nodded as she listened: "Well, okay, I know my sister-in-law. "

As I listened, the old branch secretary burst into tears.

Jin Xiang saw this and asked the old branch secretary what the old lady said, but the old branch secretary shook his head.

"The old sister-in-law said that she was not dead and could not say what she had told her. "The old branch secretary said and she burst into tears.

" However, she said that she hid 180 yuan in the rice jar. After she died, she refused to let the corpse go, so she bought a straw mat and buried it directly. "The old branch secretary started crying as he spoke.

"What? Is this the daughter and son who don’t want to trouble, just wrap it on a mat and buried it? "

" The old mother is just partial, she is partial to death. She suffers when she is alive, and she dies even when she dies! Since ancient times, no one family has died. My son kneels on the shed and his daughter cries. What is this? "

" Old branch secretary, I don't care about this anymore. I'm nothing now. If my mother didn't explain it to me, what would I do if I worry about this! "When Jin Xiang said that, he left the house without looking back.

The old branch secretary opened his mouth and wanted to call Jin Xiang, but still didn't say anything.

In the evening, Old Lady Sun died.

The people in the yard were full of tears.

The elderly who helped all sighed that no one would cry if they died at this time, but they were so deserted.

The elderly often said that when they got older, they would be more afraid of death.

What they feared was not death, but that no one would care about after death.

I guess the same was true when Mrs. Sun died. It’s so sad.

The next morning, the men and women who came to Mrs. Sun’s house to help came to the house.

According to the rules, the villagers worked hard to prepare several tables of meals and entertained those who came to help.

Jinxiang also came. No matter whether it was the former daughter-in-law or the junior in the village, she should come to help according to etiquette.

Looking at the deserted house, Jinxiang thought about going up to help with the funeral several times, but was persuaded by the old branch secretary to come back.

He said, "Daughter, listen to uncle. According to etiquette, you are no longer a member of this family and can’t do these things anymore. Not only does it not comply with the rules, it is also a big deal. If you do something bad, the two women in the Sun family will still cause trouble for you. "

" You follow the people from the village to help, sit down and have some food. "

When everyone had eaten the meal, the old branch secretary saw that everyone was here, but he just didn't see Mrs. Sun's two daughters and son-in-law.

The old branch secretary quickly sent someone to deliver letters to the two daughters and said, "Tell them that their mother is dead, and if she doesn't come, she won't have to be a human being. "

After three hours, everyone saw their two daughters slowly coming to Old Lady Sun's house.

What shocked everyone's chin was that after the two daughters came, they just knelt down and cried a few times, burned some paper money.

Then, without waiting for anyone to help them, they stood up and stood up.

Everyone thought that the two daughters had to cry for a while when they saw their mother die, but they didn't expect that after crying for a few times, there was no sound.

Seeing the two daughters stop crying, they searched around the house.

The old branch secretary asked what they were looking for when they saw this, but the boss said, "My mother had a golden lump in her hand before, saying that it was passed by my grandmother to her. Do you know where the golden lump was placed, uncle? "

The old branch secretary was stunned for a moment, and suddenly wanted to curse: "Mala next door, your mother is dead, you won't cry, you are still asking me here for something! "

" Your mother didn't explain, you can look for it, but I can swear that no outsiders here have touched your home. "The old branch secretary said.

Seeing that they couldn't find anything, they had to move a stool and sit on one side.

According to Old Lady Sun's last wish, she was going to be buried with a straw mat.

But the old branch secretary and the sensible people in the village were unwilling to do so. They said that they were pitiful when they saw Mrs. Sun, so everyone gathered money to buy a bite of life material for Mrs. Sun.

Reasonablely, the daughter is here, and the son-in-law should pay the money.

But he had asked Mrs. Sun's two daughters before, saying that your mother's last words were buried in a straw mat. Uncle thought this was inappropriate, so he had to let his sister-in-law have a coffin board.

But the two daughters said that since it was her mother's last words, just follow the last words.

The second child followed and said that she had built a house at home recently, and she had almost used the money and was not spacious enough, so she just did it like this.

When the coffin was pulled back, the two daughters said that the old branch secretary meddled with other people's business, and the good people asked them to do it, but they lost face.

Looking at these two unfilial daughters, the old branch secretary was so angry that he wanted to come forward to beat someone. Fortunately, everyone grabbed the old branch secretary in time.

Just as everyone was about to lift the coffin, the old branch secretary suddenly remembered that he had not yet decided on the person who had thrown the basin .

He quickly called the two daughters of the Sun family and asked, "According to the principle, women cannot throw the basin, but they can't find your brother's person. Please discuss who will throw the basin?"

The two daughters also suddenly remembered that there was also the case of throwing the basin, and immediately said that they would throw it.

Here is a story: In rural areas, the son who has a son falls the basin when he dies, and the grandson falls the basin when his son is gone; if he doesn't have a son, he can let his nephew fall, but whoever falls can inherit the old man's inheritance.

The son of the Sun family was not here, and the grandson was taken away, and he had no nephew, so he could only let his two daughters fall to the basin.

The old branch secretary looked at the two people who were willing to pay for the coffin just now, and now they were about to fight to throw the basin and inherit the inheritance.

In the end, there was no way for two people to pull the wooden sticks to decide who would throw the basin.

The eldest daughter drew a long wooden stick, and the eldest daughter threw the basin.

was originally a crying thing, but looking at the funny looks of the two, it made everyone laugh at them.

, whether it is good or bad, the light is gone, and after being buried in peace, this matter is completed.

After the old lady Sun was buried, everyone returned to the village one after another.

The two daughters of the Sun family are willing to go back to their homes, so they go back to their homes directly from the ground.

This incident made the old and young men in the village laughed at it again.

When crying in the grave, the two daughters didn't cry much, and could barely hear it like the sound of mosquitoes.

Instead, Jin Xiang, who was helping, couldn't kneel down. She couldn't cry for her mother, but could only cry for her aunt.

She couldn't cry loudly, she couldn't steal the limelight from her two former elder sisters.

At night, it is already late at night and it is already quiet.

Everyone was tired after working hard all day, and most of them went to bed after dinner early.

But in the middle of the night, everyone heard the heart-wrenching voice of someone crying.

The ancestral tomb of the old lady Sun’s house is not far from the village. There is a wall opposite the ancestral tomb. When she kneels in front of the cherry, her voice amplifies several times.

The person who woke up in the middle of the night was also puzzled. Today, the old lady Sun was buried, and the two daughters who cried in the grave were reluctant to deal with it.

Who is crying at this time? And the sound of crying so heartbreaking that it makes people feel sad and sigh at night.

At this time, in front of Mrs. Sun's grave, the one who was kneeling was Jin Xiang, the daughter-in-law abandoned by her son.

The old branch secretary stood behind Jinxiang. At this time, he looked at Jinxiang crying bitterly, and couldn't help but burst into tears as he heard the words. The bag of cigarettes lit in his hand was almost burning by itself.

It turned out that in the evening, Jin Xiang came to the old branch secretary's home.

She took out a stack of money and said that it is not easy for everyone to exchange money for the coffin bought by Old Lady Sun today, and it is not easy for everyone to make efforts and pay another portion of the money.

She borrowed several hundred yuan from her parents' father and asked the old branch secretary to return the money to everyone.

The old branch secretary was unwilling to do so. He knew that Jin Xiang's parents were not doing well. The few hundred dollars were probably the coffin book prepared by Jin Xiang's father for him.

But Jin Xiang knelt down to the old branch secretary and said, "Uncle, you know my personality. I have no education. But I understand what it means to be a human being."

"Today, you are afraid that the two elder sisters will look ugly. If you make a big fuss, I will make me wronged again. I thank you. If you don't let me handle the funeral, or let me cry, I will all rely on you."

"But uncle, even if Sun Lianying doesn't want me, I have nothing to do with this family, but this can't change the fact that I have called my mother-in-law for more than 20 years."

"Uncle, you keep this money. After the matter is done, I will pay the money. My elder sister no longer knows about this matter and will not cause trouble."

The old branch secretary looked at Jin Xiang kneeling on the ground and pulled her up.

"You kid, why are you so stubborn! Your mother-in-law is your mother, but your father is not your father! This is your father's coffin!" The old branch secretary said softly involuntarily.

"Uncle, my father can give him openly in a hundred years. After using this money, I will go to work in the county town. Even if I am exhausted, I can't let my father compensate for this coffin!"

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