Introduction
Everyone says that family affection is the most sincere feeling in the world. It can withstand wind and rain, and withstand the frost, rain and dew. However, people's hearts are selfish after all. When you give others a bucket of water to drink, others want you to have a full well. It feels like such people are not worthy of talking about family affection, and they are even more worthy of your full help. Such people are what everyone calls them with a black conscience.
Opening a supermarket
Bao Hai was born in the countryside. Their family has three children in total. He is the elder brother and he has a younger brother and sister. The three of them grew up with their grandparents since childhood. In his impression, his parents rarely go home.
is actually not that his parents don’t want to come back, but they work outside all year round and have no time to come back. Moreover, the travel fee for a trip is expensive and it takes time to waste time, so they simply don’t come back. They will only come back during the Chinese New Year, but after three days, they hurriedly packed their luggage and went out.
At that time, he felt that his parents didn’t love them at all, they didn’t care about them at all, and they only knew how to make money, so when his parents called their neighbor’s house and asked him to answer the call, he refused to answer the call. He felt that if their parents really loved them, they should come back to see them. What is this just to contact by phone?
So he had hatred for his parents, but after a while, he wanted to hear his neighbors say that his parents called, because every time his parents called, he would ask him to answer. He wanted to listen to his parents' voices and their old greetings. Even if it was just a simple reminder, he felt very warm inside, and he felt that his parents were like being with them.
But this contradictory mentality made him feel if he was sick, so after his grandmother took him to the vaccine, he immediately said that he was still sick, which scared his grandmother, so the doctor asked him where he felt uncomfortable. At that time, he was so scared that he didn't dare to say anything.
After seeing him not talking for a long time, his grandmother was so anxious. However, his grandmother looked left and right and felt that he didn't look sick. Because he knew he was afraid of the doctor and was afraid of injections, his grandmother avoided the doctor and pulled him aside alone. Now he finally spoke. He said that he missed his parents, but sometimes he hated them very much. He didn't know what was wrong with him, so he asked his grandmother if he was sick.
After hearing him say this, his grandmother knew that he was not sick, but his heart was sick, so on the way back, his grandmother kept comforting him: "Xiaohai, you are not sick. I know you have always resented your parents, and hated them for why they couldn't grow up with you, but they didn't want to do this. This is all forced by life. If they don't go out to make money, then what life do you have to use and what study do you have?"
"You want to Learn to understand them. They actually love you very much and don’t want to be separated from you. This way, grandma will give you a trick. If you miss them or hate them, you can write to them. In the letter, you can write anything you want to say to them. As long as you want to send them to them, grandma will send it for you, okay? "
" Also, if you have any worries in your heart later, you can tell grandma or grandpa at any time that we are all your relatives, and our love for you is not inferior to your parents at all." After hearing what grandma said, Liu Hai suddenly felt like he was enlightened. Although he could not understand what grandma said immediately, he also found an outlet for emotional catharsis, which was to write a letter.
So later he often wrote letters to his parents, but he did not send these letters, nor did he show them to his parents and grandparents, but he treasured them all by himself. He felt that these letters were all emotional trash cans. Every time he finished writing a letter, he felt as if he poured out all the garbage in his heart. Therefore, during the days when his parents were not at home, he was always with these letters.
was written later, and he gradually understood what his grandmother said and understood the difficulty of his parents. So later he cherished the days he had spent with his parents, and never answered a call from his parents because of gambling. Just when he thought his parents would never stay at home in this life, suddenly one year his parents made a decision that they wanted to go back to the village to open a supermarket.
At that time, he thought he was dreaming, but his parents didn't go out after returning from the Chinese New Year that year. At the beginning of the year, his parents rented a store in their village to open a supermarket. At that time, his classmates knew that his parents had opened a supermarket and came to buy things one after another. As long as they said it was his classmates, his parents would give them discounts, because the things in their supermarkets are good and cheap, and there are many types, so the business is particularly good.
After a few years, his parents earned their capital back, and later renovated the house. Seeing that the family's business was getting better and better, and he could see his parents every day, he felt so happy and satisfied. He felt that his parents had made up for the fatherly and motherly love they had lacked in the past years at home. At this moment, he was still happy in his heart. Later, his parents managed this supermarket carefully and helped the three brothers and sisters get married. At that time, his sister married another place, and his younger brother settled down in their town, and later bought a house in the town. He thought that living in the village was good, and he was familiar with the neighbors, and he also liked the beautiful environment of mountains and rivers, so he later found a virtuous woman in their village to get married.
After marriage, he did not find a suitable job, so he ran a supermarket with his parents. However, his parents opened the supermarket and he didn't want to take advantage of it. He asked his parents to only share one-third of the profit of and every year, but his parents insisted on sharing half of the profit with him, but he disagreed with whatever he said later. He felt that his parents had worked a lot for them for most of their lives, and he could not take advantage of it anymore, and his parents stopped insisting on it later.
Since working in the supermarket, he has been scrambling with his father to do physical work such as moving goods and delivering goods every day. He was afraid that his father would be tired. After all, his father is older than him. If he does tiring work for a day, he will have to rest for several days before he can recover. He is still young and will be very energetic after resting for a night. Seeing that he is so sensible, his father did not compete with him. After
their business became better and better, and his parents doubled their store. Since expanding the store, they have become busier every day, but they also enjoy it. They feel relieved when they watch many people shuttle back and forth on the shelves of their supermarkets to choose shopping.
After a few years, he and his younger brother discussed that they wanted to take their grandparents and parents out for travel. They had never had the whole family traveled together since they were young. Before, it was because their family was poor and had no money to go out for fun. Now everyone's living conditions have improved and they have time, so they wanted to take their parents and grandparents to the outside world to see and have a walk. After discussing with his family, he chose a day and drove a van to take his grandparents, parents, and his wife to the town to meet with his younger brother. At that time, his parents and grandparents were talking and laughing in the car, and they were particularly looking forward to this trip. He had dreamed several times in his dream, and this time he was finally able to realize his dream. Because he was too excited, he was a little distracted when driving.
At a sharp turn, his car collided with a large truck pulling goods opposite. The accident scene was particularly tragic. His grandparents and mother died on the spot. His father and him were also seriously injured. His wife suffered a minor injury. The co-pilot of the truck opposite died on the spot. The driver was also seriously injured.
Because they were not easy to walk on the mountain road, the 120 ambulance rushed over more than half an hour later. However, when he arrived, his father was dead. At that time, his father suffered a severe heart and bleeding profusely. His father knew that he was in trouble, so he explained his funeral. His father said that he would hand over the supermarket and old house to him and his brother, and he told Liu Hai to live strongly because Liu Hai was also seriously injured.
Finally he survived, but he felt very regretful. He felt that if it weren't for this trip, his parents and grandparents wouldn't have happened. He felt that he had killed his grandparents and parents. On several occasions, he wanted to die, but he remembered what his father told him during his lifetime and his young children. He felt that he must survive and must live well for his parents and grandparents. After several years of recovery, he slowly recovered. After he recovered, he told his younger brother and sister about the inheritance distribution. At that time, they had a supermarket in their family, and there was a little field in an old house. Because his younger brother and sister did not live in the village, they stopped asking for the field and supermarket, but sold the old house, and then his younger brother and sister shared the money sold by the old house equally.
At that time, he wanted to give some more money and share some of his younger brother and sister. After all, if the supermarket is opened, it can continue to make profits. Because his injuries are just complete, his younger brother and sister have no desire to ask for it, so he let him take it himself. Since the younger brother and sister said that, he, the eldest brother, had to take it with shamelessness, because the supermarket has not been operated for a long time and it really needs some activity funds to operate it.
My younger brother was ill
After the supermarket was opened for a while, the old customers of their family came to find them to buy things, because everyone in the village knew about their family's affairs and sympathized with their family. They all wanted to come and take care of his business. After seeing everyone taking care of him like this, he was extremely grateful, but he could only do more discounts for the things he bought.
A year later, he and his wife had a second child. He was very happy at that time. Because there were more children, his family would be more lively. There had been no weddings in their family for a long time and it was not so lively. So when his second son was one year old, he planned to invite relatives, friends, his brother and sister to come over to have the child's full moon wine. Because it was inconvenient for his sister to come here outside, his sister accompanied the gift and called to greet him, but he didn't come over, but he also expressed his understanding.
But his brother said he had something to do that day and he had no time to come. He also wanted to say hello on the phone, but Liu Hai said that he would let his brother come to the scene in person. After all, his brother lives in the town, and it is very convenient to drive a car over, but his brother said that he really couldn't get through. At that time, he thought that his sincerity was not enough, so he took the bus to his brother's house to invite him over.
But as soon as he arrived at his brother's house and opened his door, there was a heavy smell of smoke in his room. Because his bangs never smoked, he was choked out by the smell of cigarettes. He really didn't dare to go in again, so he called his brother out. After calling for a long time, his brother finally came out, but his brother looked particularly haggard, as if he had just become a teenager all of a sudden.
Seeing his younger brother so decadent, he asked his younger brother what happened. After taking a few puffs of cigarettes, he told Liu Hai that he was unemployed and had not gone out to work for half a year. He was particularly shocked at the time. He was obviously working well before, but why did he say that he was unemployed if he was unemployed? His younger brother said that he was laid off by the company because he had not found a suitable job later, so his younger brother has been decadent at home and relied on a lot of smoking every day to relieve his sorrows.
Introduction
Everyone says that family affection is the most sincere feeling in the world. It can withstand wind and rain, and withstand the frost, rain and dew. However, people's hearts are selfish after all. When you give others a bucket of water to drink, others want you to have a full well. It feels like such people are not worthy of talking about family affection, and they are even more worthy of your full help. Such people are what everyone calls them with a black conscience.
Opening a supermarket
Bao Hai was born in the countryside. Their family has three children in total. He is the elder brother and he has a younger brother and sister. The three of them grew up with their grandparents since childhood. In his impression, his parents rarely go home.
is actually not that his parents don’t want to come back, but they work outside all year round and have no time to come back. Moreover, the travel fee for a trip is expensive and it takes time to waste time, so they simply don’t come back. They will only come back during the Chinese New Year, but after three days, they hurriedly packed their luggage and went out.
At that time, he felt that his parents didn’t love them at all, they didn’t care about them at all, and they only knew how to make money, so when his parents called their neighbor’s house and asked him to answer the call, he refused to answer the call. He felt that if their parents really loved them, they should come back to see them. What is this just to contact by phone?
So he had hatred for his parents, but after a while, he wanted to hear his neighbors say that his parents called, because every time his parents called, he would ask him to answer. He wanted to listen to his parents' voices and their old greetings. Even if it was just a simple reminder, he felt very warm inside, and he felt that his parents were like being with them.
But this contradictory mentality made him feel if he was sick, so after his grandmother took him to the vaccine, he immediately said that he was still sick, which scared his grandmother, so the doctor asked him where he felt uncomfortable. At that time, he was so scared that he didn't dare to say anything.
After seeing him not talking for a long time, his grandmother was so anxious. However, his grandmother looked left and right and felt that he didn't look sick. Because he knew he was afraid of the doctor and was afraid of injections, his grandmother avoided the doctor and pulled him aside alone. Now he finally spoke. He said that he missed his parents, but sometimes he hated them very much. He didn't know what was wrong with him, so he asked his grandmother if he was sick.
After hearing him say this, his grandmother knew that he was not sick, but his heart was sick, so on the way back, his grandmother kept comforting him: "Xiaohai, you are not sick. I know you have always resented your parents, and hated them for why they couldn't grow up with you, but they didn't want to do this. This is all forced by life. If they don't go out to make money, then what life do you have to use and what study do you have?"
"You want to Learn to understand them. They actually love you very much and don’t want to be separated from you. This way, grandma will give you a trick. If you miss them or hate them, you can write to them. In the letter, you can write anything you want to say to them. As long as you want to send them to them, grandma will send it for you, okay? "
" Also, if you have any worries in your heart later, you can tell grandma or grandpa at any time that we are all your relatives, and our love for you is not inferior to your parents at all." After hearing what grandma said, Liu Hai suddenly felt like he was enlightened. Although he could not understand what grandma said immediately, he also found an outlet for emotional catharsis, which was to write a letter.
So later he often wrote letters to his parents, but he did not send these letters, nor did he show them to his parents and grandparents, but he treasured them all by himself. He felt that these letters were all emotional trash cans. Every time he finished writing a letter, he felt as if he poured out all the garbage in his heart. Therefore, during the days when his parents were not at home, he was always with these letters.
was written later, and he gradually understood what his grandmother said and understood the difficulty of his parents. So later he cherished the days he had spent with his parents, and never answered a call from his parents because of gambling. Just when he thought his parents would never stay at home in this life, suddenly one year his parents made a decision that they wanted to go back to the village to open a supermarket.
At that time, he thought he was dreaming, but his parents didn't go out after returning from the Chinese New Year that year. At the beginning of the year, his parents rented a store in their village to open a supermarket. At that time, his classmates knew that his parents had opened a supermarket and came to buy things one after another. As long as they said it was his classmates, his parents would give them discounts, because the things in their supermarkets are good and cheap, and there are many types, so the business is particularly good.
After a few years, his parents earned their capital back, and later renovated the house. Seeing that the family's business was getting better and better, and he could see his parents every day, he felt so happy and satisfied. He felt that his parents had made up for the fatherly and motherly love they had lacked in the past years at home. At this moment, he was still happy in his heart. Later, his parents managed this supermarket carefully and helped the three brothers and sisters get married. At that time, his sister married another place, and his younger brother settled down in their town, and later bought a house in the town. He thought that living in the village was good, and he was familiar with the neighbors, and he also liked the beautiful environment of mountains and rivers, so he later found a virtuous woman in their village to get married.
After marriage, he did not find a suitable job, so he ran a supermarket with his parents. However, his parents opened the supermarket and he didn't want to take advantage of it. He asked his parents to only share one-third of the profit of and every year, but his parents insisted on sharing half of the profit with him, but he disagreed with whatever he said later. He felt that his parents had worked a lot for them for most of their lives, and he could not take advantage of it anymore, and his parents stopped insisting on it later.
Since working in the supermarket, he has been scrambling with his father to do physical work such as moving goods and delivering goods every day. He was afraid that his father would be tired. After all, his father is older than him. If he does tiring work for a day, he will have to rest for several days before he can recover. He is still young and will be very energetic after resting for a night. Seeing that he is so sensible, his father did not compete with him. After
their business became better and better, and his parents doubled their store. Since expanding the store, they have become busier every day, but they also enjoy it. They feel relieved when they watch many people shuttle back and forth on the shelves of their supermarkets to choose shopping.
After a few years, he and his younger brother discussed that they wanted to take their grandparents and parents out for travel. They had never had the whole family traveled together since they were young. Before, it was because their family was poor and had no money to go out for fun. Now everyone's living conditions have improved and they have time, so they wanted to take their parents and grandparents to the outside world to see and have a walk. After discussing with his family, he chose a day and drove a van to take his grandparents, parents, and his wife to the town to meet with his younger brother. At that time, his parents and grandparents were talking and laughing in the car, and they were particularly looking forward to this trip. He had dreamed several times in his dream, and this time he was finally able to realize his dream. Because he was too excited, he was a little distracted when driving.
At a sharp turn, his car collided with a large truck pulling goods opposite. The accident scene was particularly tragic. His grandparents and mother died on the spot. His father and him were also seriously injured. His wife suffered a minor injury. The co-pilot of the truck opposite died on the spot. The driver was also seriously injured.
Because they were not easy to walk on the mountain road, the 120 ambulance rushed over more than half an hour later. However, when he arrived, his father was dead. At that time, his father suffered a severe heart and bleeding profusely. His father knew that he was in trouble, so he explained his funeral. His father said that he would hand over the supermarket and old house to him and his brother, and he told Liu Hai to live strongly because Liu Hai was also seriously injured.
Finally he survived, but he felt very regretful. He felt that if it weren't for this trip, his parents and grandparents wouldn't have happened. He felt that he had killed his grandparents and parents. On several occasions, he wanted to die, but he remembered what his father told him during his lifetime and his young children. He felt that he must survive and must live well for his parents and grandparents. After several years of recovery, he slowly recovered. After he recovered, he told his younger brother and sister about the inheritance distribution. At that time, they had a supermarket in their family, and there was a little field in an old house. Because his younger brother and sister did not live in the village, they stopped asking for the field and supermarket, but sold the old house, and then his younger brother and sister shared the money sold by the old house equally.
At that time, he wanted to give some more money and share some of his younger brother and sister. After all, if the supermarket is opened, it can continue to make profits. Because his injuries are just complete, his younger brother and sister have no desire to ask for it, so he let him take it himself. Since the younger brother and sister said that, he, the eldest brother, had to take it with shamelessness, because the supermarket has not been operated for a long time and it really needs some activity funds to operate it.
My younger brother was ill
After the supermarket was opened for a while, the old customers of their family came to find them to buy things, because everyone in the village knew about their family's affairs and sympathized with their family. They all wanted to come and take care of his business. After seeing everyone taking care of him like this, he was extremely grateful, but he could only do more discounts for the things he bought.
A year later, he and his wife had a second child. He was very happy at that time. Because there were more children, his family would be more lively. There had been no weddings in their family for a long time and it was not so lively. So when his second son was one year old, he planned to invite relatives, friends, his brother and sister to come over to have the child's full moon wine. Because it was inconvenient for his sister to come here outside, his sister accompanied the gift and called to greet him, but he didn't come over, but he also expressed his understanding.
But his brother said he had something to do that day and he had no time to come. He also wanted to say hello on the phone, but Liu Hai said that he would let his brother come to the scene in person. After all, his brother lives in the town, and it is very convenient to drive a car over, but his brother said that he really couldn't get through. At that time, he thought that his sincerity was not enough, so he took the bus to his brother's house to invite him over.
But as soon as he arrived at his brother's house and opened his door, there was a heavy smell of smoke in his room. Because his bangs never smoked, he was choked out by the smell of cigarettes. He really didn't dare to go in again, so he called his brother out. After calling for a long time, his brother finally came out, but his brother looked particularly haggard, as if he had just become a teenager all of a sudden.
Seeing his younger brother so decadent, he asked his younger brother what happened. After taking a few puffs of cigarettes, he told Liu Hai that he was unemployed and had not gone out to work for half a year. He was particularly shocked at the time. He was obviously working well before, but why did he say that he was unemployed if he was unemployed? His younger brother said that he was laid off by the company because he had not found a suitable job later, so his younger brother has been decadent at home and relied on a lot of smoking every day to relieve his sorrows.After
, his sister-in-law couldn't stand it anymore, so she took the child back to her parents' home. Moreover, she had lived there for more than half a year and had not come back once. Seeing that her brother's life was like this, Liu Hai felt uncomfortable, so he didn't accept gifts from his son's full moon wine. However, he advised his brother not to hide at home and smoke all day, to go out for more walks and relax. If there were any difficulties in life, just look for him. After that, he left 1,000 yuan and went back.
After his son's full moon banquet, he often took time to see him at his younger brother's house. He was afraid that his younger brother would not be able to live alone. After all, his sister-in-law and nephew were not at home. He was used to being lazy alone because his younger brother did not go out to work and did not have much money. So he smoked very cheaply later because he didn't have that much money to buy cigarettes to smoke.
Seeing his younger brother smoking such a cheap cigarette, he threw it away and changed it to a good cigarette for his younger brother. Because too much cheap cigarette smoking is harmful to his body and lungs, he also advised his younger brother to quit the cigarette and not to smoke so hard. He was afraid that something would go wrong with his younger brother's body later, but his younger brother didn't listen to what he said every time, and the amount was getting bigger and bigger.
After a few years, his younger brother suddenly felt uncomfortable and had a stomachache. His younger sister-in-law thought his younger brother was pretending, so he ignored him. But later he felt more and more pain. When his sister-in-law saw something was wrong, she quickly sent his younger brother to the hospital. After several examinations, the doctor said that his younger brother had lung cancer and was in the middle and late stages. After seeing the results, his younger brother was very calm. He knew that he would have problems with his body sooner or later, but he couldn't control himself, and he felt bored. Later, his younger brother had an operation to intervene, but after the operation, he started smoking again, and no one listened. His sister-in-law had asked him to take care of his younger brother's smoking, but he also took care of it. His younger brother didn't listen at all because his younger brother couldn't quit smoking, and his daily routine was particularly bad. In the end, the cancer cells spread and his younger brother died of cancer. Before his death, his younger brother told him that he must help him take good care of his family.
Bao Hai agreed at once, so shortly after his brother passed away, Bao Hai took his sister-in-law and nephew to their house to live. Because his brother spent a lot of money to treat his illness, he later sold the house. After selling the house, his sister-in-law and his nephew lived in his sister-in-law's family. However, after a long time, his sister-in-law's family no longer liked them.
So Liu Hai took his sister-in-law and nephew to their house to live, because his sister-in-law was from the town. After picking him up, he asked his wife to free up the best room in the house for his sister-in-law and nephew to live, because his wife also knew that his brother was gone and felt that his sister-in-law and nephew were very pitiful, so she agreed.
Because his sister-in-law had no job, he arranged his sister-in-law to help them do odd jobs in his supermarket. They usually pay for food, clothing and supplies for their sister-in-law and nephew. This means that Liu Hai and his family raised his sister-in-law and nephew. They had been raising him for decades afterwards. He helped his nephew get married and started a business, and he also helped his nephew with the children he gave birth to. After his nephew's child went to school, his niece-in-law clamored to ask his nephew to buy a house in the town, so that it would be more convenient for their children to go to the town to go to school in the future. However, his nephew's salary is only enough for their family of three to live. However, his niece-in-law still refused to give in and insisted that his nephew buy a house in the town. If he didn't buy a house, he would divorce him.
When he saw his niece-in-law threatening his divorce, his nephew immediately panicked, so his nephew asked Liu Hai to help him think of a way to buy a house in the town, but Liu Hai also wanted to help his nephew, but he didn't have that much money. Even if Liu Hai ran a supermarket, he was all supported by the family. He didn't have that much money to buy a house in the town, so he refused his nephew.
When he saw him rejection, his nephew was angry and embarrassed. Then on a dark night, his nephew beat him up while no one was paying attention and drove them out all night. At that time, Liu Hai was so angry that he really wanted to use a stone to smash the door open, but when he thought that he had spent a lot of money to buy the door, he couldn't bear to smash it, so he arranged his wife and children to live in his mother-in-law's house overnight.
Mediation
A few days later, Liu Hai contacted the mediator, who wanted the mediator to persuade his nephew. At the end of the mediation of
, his nephew and niece-in-law both realized the mistake and apologized to Liu Hai. However, Liu Hai did not drive his nephew and niece-in-law out to live with his family. He felt that his nephew and niece-in-law might have done this on impulse, so he forgave them.
is written at the end
I think Liu Hai's nephew is so greedy and very selfish. Liu Hai has raised the mother and the two of them for so many years, and has also helped his nephew get married and take care of the children. As an elder brother, he is really kind to do this. His nephew should stop when he sees it.
So sometimes people's hearts are really hard to guess. Sometimes what they do can really surprise you and make you feel that you have raised an ungrateful wolf.
I wonder what you think? Welcome to express your opinions!
When he saw him rejection, his nephew was angry and embarrassed. Then on a dark night, his nephew beat him up while no one was paying attention and drove them out all night. At that time, Liu Hai was so angry that he really wanted to use a stone to smash the door open, but when he thought that he had spent a lot of money to buy the door, he couldn't bear to smash it, so he arranged his wife and children to live in his mother-in-law's house overnight.
Mediation
A few days later, Liu Hai contacted the mediator, who wanted the mediator to persuade his nephew. At the end of the mediation of
, his nephew and niece-in-law both realized the mistake and apologized to Liu Hai. However, Liu Hai did not drive his nephew and niece-in-law out to live with his family. He felt that his nephew and niece-in-law might have done this on impulse, so he forgave them.
is written at the end
I think Liu Hai's nephew is so greedy and very selfish. Liu Hai has raised the mother and the two of them for so many years, and has also helped his nephew get married and take care of the children. As an elder brother, he is really kind to do this. His nephew should stop when he sees it.
So sometimes people's hearts are really hard to guess. Sometimes what they do can really surprise you and make you feel that you have raised an ungrateful wolf.
I wonder what you think? Welcome to express your opinions!
