Last night I was hesitating whether to call my parents, and the phone rang. I looked down and saw that it was my parents calling. The phone call was answered, and my dad said vaguely and hard: "Give it to... your mom... answer." My dad left sequelae last year and couldn't speak clearly. His ears are still on the back, and it is no longer meaningful to use a hearing aid. But his eyes (one) can still be seen, so he answered the phone first and then gave it to my mother.
My mother's eyes are out of sight. She has diabetes . The symptoms in the later stage are gradually emerging. First, her eyes are invisible, and then her legs are swollen. Now she can hardly walk. She is getting thinner and thinner, but her ears can still hear it. So she cooperated with my dad, and my dad first answered and then transferred it to my mom. This is how I have always cooperated, but this time I heard my mother ask angry and knowingly, "Why don't you answer? Tell me to my daughter!" It seemed that I was reluctant to answer.
But as soon as the phone went to my mother's hand, I just shouted "Mom", and my mother cried on the phone. She said why don’t you call me for seven or eight days? In my heart, I don’t think eight days are only four days. Just say, I'm about to call you. My mother said, don’t lie to me. Every time I call you, you say you are about to call me! I held the phone and closed my eyes, not knowing what to say.
My mother will be smart, capable, and strong all her life. My family is supported by my mother inside and outside, and she will never fall behind in every aspect of her life. And she has accumulated virtue and done good deeds. There are seven or eight families in the village who have been matchmakers and married their wives. My neighbor is an elderly widowed man. My mother has been voluntarily taking care of him for more than ten years and she took off a large piece of the only quilt he had dowry and stitched it onto the old man's torn quilt. But in his later years, he ended up like this.
I originally had four brothers and sisters, and my brother died of illness, and there are three more. My sister gave birth to her second child at the age of 40. My 6-year-old brother-in-law suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and could not take care of herself. My sister became the main force in the family. My brother and his wife work in Guangzhou. They have always been generous and generous. They have two children who are in school and are also nervous. I married a thousand miles away and married a state-owned enterprise worker. My life is OK, but now I have divorced.
I didn’t want to send my parents to a nursing home at the beginning. There was a house in the countryside, so I sorted it out. A well was dug in the yard, and the kitchen was connected to the gas tank. There was still a piece of land left in the yard, so I scattered and planted vegetables, and raised a few chickens to enjoy my life.
But soon my parents lost their ability to work, and even if you take care of yourself, you are limited. How can the three brothers and sisters take care of their parents when they discuss with each other? Originally, my sister was the first choice. She has a good personality, is patient, is good at cooking and managing the house. My brother and I exchanged the money for her. My sister was working at the time, so we gave her the same amount of money. My sister agreed vaguely at that time, and later said that the child was in school and her husband was seriously ill, and she still had to work (mainly because we gave him less, and no matter how much he gave, he really was unable to do so). She had to take care of her parents, and her husband had three patients for a long time, and her body couldn't stand it. So my sister refused.
My brother and his wife are far away in Guangzhou. It is difficult to make money in their hometown, so it is definitely not realistic to come back. I was willing to go back to take care of me. At that time, I happened to be unemployed and divorced again. My child was about to graduate from college, so I didn't care about him anymore. But for some reason, they all disagreed, saying that I can’t cook, saying that I’m too far away from home, and saying that I’m not used to going back to the countryside. I said this was easy to say, and I could overcome it. I said too much later, especially my brother is a little anxious and naughty. My mother is still smart and said to me privately: Do you know? You are the main force! They also expect you to give me money to support me. If you take care of me, your brother will definitely get money, but if your sister earns money, she will give it to you, what will she give it to you if she doesn’t have money?
How much I want to say: Mom, it’s time for my daughter to take care of you, I don’t want money! But I dare not say it after all. After divorce and unemployed, I had private money in my hands. But I have not retired yet, and I have to pay five years of pension insurance, which is nearly 18,000 yuan a year, and it is adjusted every year, and the more I pay, the more I pay. Also, I admit that I am selfish, and that I am abandoned by others also have reasons for my unemployment. I want to make me live a bit dignified and don’t want people to be underestimated in a foreign land.The mining area is very small. The person who had been married for twenty years and I looked up and saw him. I didn't want him to see me in a down-and-out manner, so I could only buy the vegetables I had bought, but he was afraid and glad that he had divorced!
Thinking of this, I carefully said to my mother: Mom, I don’t want much, they just need to pay my annual insurance money. Mom sighed and said: Don’t eat or drink! It's a small amount of 800 per month.
The result of the discussion later was that my parents were sent to the nursing home. There is a government-supported nursing home near us, and the director and my sister-in-law are still relatives. Each person is 1,500 yuan per month, and two people are more than 3,000 yuan. My brother and I are 1,000. My sister-in-law and my sister each have 500 yuan. I would like to thank my sister-in-law here. I was in the countryside and my brother was gone, so my sister-in-law had no obligation. But my sister-in-law is considering that my parents treat her well, she can still make money and is willing to contribute, although she also complains.
It was August when I sent my parents to the nursing home. My brother drove the car and asked my mother to bring enough clothes and put cotton jackets and trousers in a bag for my mother. My mother said yes, but she kept it secretly when she got in the car. My brother questioned, and my mother said silly: I am cured of my illness and will still go home.
I think all the disabilities in the world are not as cruel as blindness, especially when I have been used to the light of more than seventy years, suddenly one day the world is all black. I didn't even understand it at home, but now I have gone to a completely unfamiliar place. My mother's situation can be imagined. I always think of a painting: There is only one child on an uninhabited island. There is also the white earth that is really clean, and Baoyu walking alone... I said to my mom: Mom, I call you every day. My mom said: OK.
At the same time, I secretly thought of a way in my heart, and quickly made money. After earning money, I took my parents back from the
nursing home. I am like a person who is always preparing to rob prison, racing against time, and I am afraid that time will not be available.
I heard that Guangzhou can make a lot of money. The people who came back at the end of the year were indeed all handsome and looked like successful people. So I went to Guangzhou.
I only realized after going to Guangzhou that I can make a lot of money! They can do it, but I can't. Let’s not talk about the factory’s huge amount of labor, I have a hard time working for at least twelve hours a day and there are no rest days. I have been working in the office for eight hours in the mainland for almost 20 years, and I can't adjust my "pampered life" for a while. Also, my body has never weighed more than 60 kilograms after divorce, unemployment, and my parents' successive illness. My body was hit by 1.64 meters, but now it is less than 50 kilograms. The whole person has a pale face and is shaking. What’s even more terrifying is the high temperature in Guangzhou. I can’t adapt to it at all. I feel chest tightness and shortness of breath every day, and I feel uncomfortable like motion sickness.
Finally I chose the school dormitory management aunt job. It is 3,500 per month, 12 hours a day, and overtime pay can earn 4,200 per month. I have to take care of myself, and the accommodation is free, and the food in the school cafeteria is also cheap. I control it well, and 10 yuan a day is enough. I'm very satisfied. Later, I had to pay for accommodation, and then I reduced the monthly 3,500 to 3,000, and then the overtime pay was cancelled. It's really a force to revolt! He mobilized many people to find the supervisor. The other person was kind and said with a smile: If you think there is too little, you can ignore it, but some people are! When he begged again, he said angrily: At your age, who else wants you except our company to take it in!
At this time, my son who was alone at home has not found a suitable job. Because of the failure of the college entrance examination and the divorce of parents, the child becomes depressed and irritable and has a lot of negative energy. I was a little worried and had to leave Guangzhou and go home.
I will look for a job immediately when I go back to my hometown. After experiencing no time to hit the wall, now when I look for a job, I just settle for it and went to a restaurant to wash dishes. No one is fighting for me about this job, young people look down on it, and elderly people cannot keep up with their physical strength. There are thousands of plates and bowls every day. Even though I wear rubber gloves, my hands are still soaked and swollen, my waist hurts so much that I can't straighten my head, and my cervical vertebrae is so sore that I can't lift my head. I still enjoyed it, but after only two months of work, the epidemic swept over again and the hotel closed.
At the same time, my son who had just gone to Beijing and had not yet started work was in a quarantine dormitory and took care of his own food and accommodation! In Beijing, consumption... is really a waste of money.
I was quarantined at home and could still fall asleep for the first week, and then I couldn't sleep all night. And there was a fire bump on my face that I hadn't had in my life.I want money, I can't go out! Then write the headlines? Write as you say! In the past, I was able to earn the minimum living expenses every month, but now my level may have declined. Maybe there are many experts in headlines, maybe I have not mastered the headline traffic code. In short, I have been working hard for a long time to change the manuscript but no one cares about it. No, there is no stone sinking into the sea, it is presented on mobile phones, and the limited edition is a bit too, but no one comes to visit! To be honest, Toutiao is really inferior to print media. If the print media is not good, it will be killed, but if the Toutiao is not good, it is really embarrassing, exciting, crazy, humiliating and helpless.
calls parents. Of course I want to report good news but not bad news, but gradually I am at the end of my life and cannot justify myself. Later I didn't want to call, and later... Later...
