I am Aunt Ting, 63 years old this year, and have a son and a daughter with my wife. My daughter is an older sister, with a wild personality, and my son is a younger brother, with a gentle personality. Many times I often think how good it would be if their personalities were exchanged.
My wife has been working in the village committee. I sell vegetables in the market. I am not very rich in life, but I am still quite adept.
My daughter went out to work after graduating from high school. After a few years, she married and rarely went home.
After my son graduated from university, he designed a Hong Kong-funded enterprise in the city, and his salary was pretty good.
My daughter is married, and what I worry most about is my son’s lifelong affairs.
But my son was not in a hurry.
He is very handsome, with thick eyebrows, deep eyes, tall nose, fair skin. Many people in the village said they wanted to introduce him to a partner, but their son declined.
At noon, my wife and I were having a meal when we suddenly received several photos from our son.
The son said, "Mom, this is my girlfriend, Xiaofang."
I quickly clicked on the photo and saw that the girl was shorter than her son's head, barely reaching his shoulders. She also had dark skin and didn't look very good. She looked particularly unmatched when standing with her son.
The son said that the girl was the same year as him, but judging from the photos, the girl seemed to be over three years older than him and looked very old.
I asked my son, what kind of work does a girl do?
The son said that she is a quality inspector. She graduated from junior high school and is not very beautiful, but in my eyes, she is shining all over. She is kind, diligent, thrifty and motivated, and is a person who can live a life.
Quality inspector? Graduated from junior high school? Average appearance? Is there a big difference between him and his son?
But my son praised her so highly. I really want to see what courage this girl has?
The son said confidently, "Mom, if you see her, you will definitely like her."
On National Day, his son has seven days off, and he really brought his girlfriend Xiaofang back.
When I saw her, I really didn’t have a good impression of her, but with the contacts behind me, I gradually fell in love with this girl.
Although she is not beautiful, she has a kind heart and loves others and herself. Although she has a low education, she has an empty cup mentality and a strong desire for knowledge. Although she does not have a brand-name dress, she dresses well and is neither humble nor arrogant. Girls like
are really suitable for living.
Under our urging, they got married after half a year.
After marriage, they continued to work, but the matter of my urging them to have children has not been settled.
was forced to anger by me, and my son said that he had a problem, so don’t urge him.
I listened to my wife comforting him: "There will be, there will be, let's not worry."
For three years, they have been seeking medical treatment and asking for medicine but have not achieved success, but my wife has always followed my son.
Later, their company went bankrupt due to poor management. The son proposed to return to his hometown to develop, and his daughter-in-law also came back.
They sell breakfast in the market. I sell vegetables, and my daughter-in-law goes to learn from her. The powder she makes is very delicious, and has won many repeat customers. The business is doing well.
Unexpectedly, my son died suddenly in a car accident. I was so sad that I cried to death by sending the black-haired man, but my daughter went home on the third day after my son was buried.
My daughter-in-law has always been by my side, afraid that I can't think it through.
My daughter-in-law's family advised her daughter-in-law: "You are still young, please remarry as soon as possible."
The daughter-in-law said, "Marrying husband and following him, this is my home, I don't go anywhere. My mother-in-law has lost a son and has no grandson, so I can't let them be old and helpless. "
Just like that, my daughter-in-law endured the grief of losing her husband and started running her breakfast business again.
I lost my son, because of my excessive sadness and good health, and my daughter-in-law asked me not to sell vegetables, she could support me.
If I really can't stay idle, I can go to her breakfast shop occasionally to help.
Just like that, I transferred the vegetable stall and rested at home. When my daughter-in-law was busy with business, she helped her.
Later I found that there was a young man who came to breakfast every day to patronize his daughter-in-law's business, and his eyes always followed his daughter-in-law.
The bystander was clear, and I could tell at a glance that this young man was interested in his daughter-in-law.
The son was gone, and we couldn't tie him up for the rest of our lives. If there was a suitable candidate, I would still support her.
But the daughter-in-law always ignored him.
When I wanted to match them, my wife fell ill at this time. I had to let go of this and take care of my wife intently.
When I wanted to match them with them, my wife fell ill at this time. I had to let go of this and take care of my wife intently.
When I wanted to match them up, my wife fell ill at this time. I had to let go of this and take care of my wife intently.
While my wife was hospitalized, my daughter came back to visit her twice, stayed for an hour or two and left.
However, my daughter-in-law changed shifts with me every day to take care of her wife.
She said I was old and asked me to watch the shift during the day, and she came to take care of her at night.
She had to get up early in business, and set up a recliner in the hospital corridor to take a nap. During that time, she lost a lot of weight and looked smaller, but her small body had great energy.
She still went to the market to sell breakfast during the day because she said she could not I cut off my source of income, otherwise I would have no money to see my wife.
My wife left after three months of hard work. I lost my son and husband and lost my husband. I lost half of my life and cried every day.
My daughter-in-law accompanied me without leaving any steps.
At this moment, the young man came directly to his home. He said that he had not set up a stall for several days to see if there was anything needed to help.
I said to my daughter-in-law, "I really like you, you can try to get along with me, which is also my wish. "
" Mom, do you really think so? "The daughter-in-law asked me in a tentative tone.
I nodded vigorously.
It turned out that during the days when my wife was hospitalized, this young man helped a lot in the breakfast shop. My daughter-in-law had long had a good impression of him, but because she was worried about me, she refused to agree to date.
Just like that, the two lovers finally got together.
And my daughter-in-law has long been She was getting married, and I took out all my savings of 200,000 yuan for her as a dowry, and asked her to transfer a store to make the business bigger because she has the strength.
At first, she refused to accept anything, but later I used my trump card and said that she would not want to see me again after not accepting it, so she accepted it.
and promised me that she would not leave me alone.
After hearing this, my daughter strongly opposed it and said, "Mom, she is an outsider, why are you so nice to her? "
I called her: "Because she is worth it, when I need help the most, it was her, an outsider who has been with me and supporting me, and what about your daughter? It's like an outsider hanging up, you have no right to care about me. "
After saying that, I hung up the phone with a "beep".
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