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I am Xiaohui, 28 years old. My husband and I are authentic rural kids. We met while working in a restaurant in Xi'an. He is the chef and I am the waiter. We are of the same age and are a fellow villager, so we are naturally more friendly than others. Gradually, we got together.
After marriage, we opened a breakfast shop in our hometown county town, and the business was good. We got up early and went to bed late, so we wanted to save money to buy a house in the city.
We finally saved 480,000 yuan this year. We originally planned to do a good job this year and be able to buy a three-bedroom apartment in full at the end of the year, but the plan could not keep up with the changes.
3, my father-in-law suddenly found out that he had pancreatic cancer . My mother-in-law has always been weak, and when she heard this news, she was so scared that she could only cry. My uncle is not in good health, so it is difficult to support his own family. The expense of treating my father-in-law fell on my husband and I, and our plan to buy a house had to be put on hold.
In the past, parents-in-law's expenses were compensated by odd jobs. Now that my father-in-law is sick, he can’t make money. In addition to buying medicine for his father-in-law every month, his husband also has to give him 600 yuan to his in-laws pocket money.
html In May, my husband couldn't leave if he had something to do, so he asked me to go back and give money to my in-laws. As soon as I handed the money to my mother-in-law, my sister-in-law who lives in the same yard, she winked at her 7-year-old daughter.
The little niece crawled into my mother-in-law's arms and begged sweetly: "Grandma, my skirt is so small that I can't wear it anymore. Can you buy me a new one?"
The mother-in-law looked at me with a hug and looked embarrassed.
A fire of namelessness rose in my heart. It seems that my sister-in-law has searched a lot of pocket money we gave to my mother-in-law, otherwise she would not have done so skillfully and would not be so obsessed with people!
I knew my elder brother was in poor health, so I swallowed the words to his mouth again and turned back to the city.
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On the night, my husband told me that what parents-in-law need in the future, we will buy them directly into items to avoid being deceived by my sister-in-law.
The husband sighed: "The money is given to parents, and they can use it as much as they want. Otherwise, the sister-in-law will make trouble again, and it is the one who is angry."
From my husband's mouth, I realized that my in-laws were being controlled by my sister-in-law because my sister-in-law said that her in-laws cheated on her marriage.
The eldest brother has mild depression, and the eldest sister-in-law only discovered it after marriage. She wiped her tears and went back to her parents' home, saying she wanted to divorce her elder brother.
In-laws were so scared that they were lost, fearing that their sister-in-law's divorce would aggravate their eldest brother's condition. They comforted my sister-in-law and begged thousands of times. My sister-in-law thought about it and came back for the child in her belly. But this incident became Shang Fang's sword for my sister-in-law to control her in-laws.
The eldest brother said that he was sick and could not bear the pressure. He fished for three days and had two days of drying the net, and earned less. My sister-in-law always asks her parents-in-law to ask for pocket money to supplement the family income.
The in-laws hesitated a little, and the sister-in-law cried and said that she had a miserable life and married a sick husband. She used this trick to force her in-laws to submit, and it was very successful.
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In fact, my parents-in-law also felt very distressed. He owed 180,000 yuan in debt to marry his sister-in-law, and his parents-in-law saved money to pay it back. With the plunder of my sister-in-law every now and then, my parents-in-law can't save money. By this year, when my father-in-law fell ill, there were still 110,000 yuan left.
In order for the eldest sister-in-law to live with her brother well, the eldest sister-in-law still doesn't know about the debt they owe when they got married, and her parents-in-law kept it apart.
The sister-in-law is already familiar with her parents and has many tricks. This year, the pocket money we gave to our in-laws is often snatched away by our sister-in-law using various names.
I was so angry that I heard the truth. My father-in-law was sick and the eldest brother and his wife didn’t pay, so I just thought that my husband was an only child. But even the pocket money we gave to our in-laws was too much.
My husband still said the same thing, for the sake of family harmony, we should still endure it if we can.
I snorted coldly, I worked hard to make money not for her to spend it! In the future, my parents-in-law will buy everything they need, without giving them money, so that she can pick it up!
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9, my husband and I were busy in the store, and my mother-in-law suddenly called and said that my father-in-law was almost out of reach, so she asked us to go back quickly.
When my father-in-law was dying, he took his husband's hand and told him that he would help pay back the 110,000 yuan account.
My husband nodded in tears. I was so angry that my eyes turned black, but I knew that this was not the time to argue, so I didn't say anything.
After finishing my father-in-law’s funeral, I want to call my elder brother and sister-in-law to talk about the debt. My husband hurriedly pushed me into the car and pulled me back to the city.
Back in the city, I was so angry that I caught my husband and had a good fight.
He let me beat him and said for a long time: "I just agreed to my dad and I regret it now. According to my sister-in-law's temperament, I'm afraid it's a shame. My brother's daily life is very tight, so he asked him to pay the debt, but he may not pay it back. My dad borrowed the money, so I can't let others die and lose their debts, and be stabbed by someone."
I saw the firmness in his eyes, and my heart was cold, and I couldn't help asking him: "Even if I divorce you, do you want to pay this debt?"
My husband was shocked, opened his mouth, closed it again, and said nothing. He refused to answer.
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I was so angry that I shivered by his stubbornness that I wiped my tears, packed up my belongings, and took my son back to my parents' home.
My parents advised me to compromise: "You are both husband and wife. When he encounters difficulties, you divorce him. Isn't it laughed at? When your father-in-law was able to do it before, he went to the city to deliver vegetables and noodles to you every day, and he was very sincere to you. Although this debt was owed by your sister-in-law, it was borrowed in the name of your father-in-law. It's okay for him to pay it back for your father-in-law. There is a lot of debt, and there will be a day to pay it back."
I was so wronged that I burst into tears. In order to treat my father-in-law this year, we can't buy a house. If we help him pay it back, we can't buy it next year. The child is about to go to elementary school. Without a house, it is difficult to go to school.
My parents said, "You are divorced, aren't your children pitiful? At worst, you can pay in installments to buy a house."
I couldn't help but have a moment of confusion. I had to pay in installments and pay interest, and I had to pay out the interest from my wallet. After all, I paid more than 110,000 yuan.
It’s a pity to divorce, but I’m not willing to pay back the debt owed by marrying my sister-in-law. I really don’t know what to do. I want to hear everyone’s thoughts. If it were you, what would you do?
