You were not born yet when you finished writing.
On an ordinary evening, your father slowly walked over, approached, gently touched my bulging belly, muttering to himself with sadness, "The rabbit has grown up, don't meet a scumbag."
After hearing this, I laughed silently, "You old father's heart, hurry up and let go of your heart. As long as you fall in love, you may meet a scumbag."
He looked a little panicked, but his tone was domineering and firm, "My daughter must not be met."
My hand slowly put on his face. I always like to touch his face with my fingers. Your father is a handsome man with thick eyebrows and carved facial features.
His face is easy to make people sink.
He is always gentle, like that pool of clear water.
He is thoughtful and planned everything in advance, and I always enjoy the woman he is doing.
You can also feel his love.
Of course, I don’t want to tell how good your father is, but I want to express that if a person wants to succeed, he will definitely learn from those who have already succeeded.
That ignorant girl shouldn't have approached the woman who was hurt by love.
She is already in the darkness. If you want to ask, why it came, it was her cognition that took her into the darkness.
In fact, every road we have walked is both obstacles and flat. Everyone you have met is the same as good and bad, but in the end, it is you who decide who to take the hand.
01
In our era, many people will ask about careers, which seems a bit presumptuous, but it also depends on one's perspective. profession will affect personality.
For example, sales often make people become gentle and eloquent. People with impatient temperament are prone to criticizing customers, straightforward people are unwilling to flatter customers, and dull people do not know how to observe their words and expressions. If customers cannot be sold, they will inevitably be unable to stay in the sales industry for a long time.
For example, state-owned enterprises are often more patient and sleek. State-owned enterprises seem calm but are surging. They are always polite on the surface. Those dissatisfactions and complaints are done quietly behind their backs. If they are not proficient in human relationships and worldly ways, they are probably already silently broken into pieces.
For example, accounting is often more cautious and rigid. They rarely joke because one can make a big mistake if you are not careful.
For example, people who always change jobs often have a sense of uncertainty and never know what they want or what they are suitable for, just like a discarded feather, rootless and supportless.
A person will choose to stay in a certain line for a long time due to his personality.
A person will also change his personality due to a certain job.
Of course, nothing can be generalized.
I met a woman in her thirties and forties a few years ago. She dated a man from the Public Security Bureau. She had been together for two years and had a good relationship. Because the other party was a government department, she felt it was down-to-earth and reliable, and she was dating wholeheartedly. Who knew that this man advised her to invest and waited for more than 100,000 yuan to spend, but not long after, she lost everything. Gradually, the man stopped contacting her. She tried to contact, tried to keep, and even went to the man's unit to look for her, but it was precisely because the man was a policeman, and after he came to the door, no one paid attention to her. In desperation, she thought it would be fine to get the money back, but both parties were single and investing normally, without any evidence, and there was no way to do anything about it. I had to eat coptis chinensis by mute.
02
Emotional stability.
Love is impulsive. You can send him an umbrella in the rain or spend more than ten hours to his city.
Love is the light in your eyes, and your time will never grow old.
One-day love can be indulged.
One year of love can be willful.
Lifelong love, but you can only be cautious.
I hope that the person around you will not be angry for no reason, inexplicably scolded, disappear for no reason, and not love for no reason. I hope your life is less sad.
Although, laughter and tears are rubbed together, they eventually turn into years.
The easiest way to determine whether a person is emotionally stable is to quarrel. Arguing is another kind of communication. Will he communicate with you calmly enough? When the communication is ineffective, will he think of other solutions? Will he treat you as a rational and equal person and think about your words seriously. When a man thinks you are stupid and bored, he will be too lazy to defend you, choose to fight the cold war, and not ask whether it is right or wrong. Just make you happy.
But women, most of the people need only an attitude of the other party. Not true.
But daughter, I want to say, that is love, you can talk about it whatever you want, but marriage is often another matter.
03
Daughter, getting married depends on the lowest point of the other party.
And can you tolerate its biggest shortcomings?
Life, there is no two things.
You have always only one choice. On that day after day, you love his goodness and love your beauty.
He bought the fruit you like on the way, and your family cooked a delicious meal for him.
The love you and me is like that lingering kiss. The moment your lips touch, your eyes have to be closed.
only hope that you chose him just because he is him.
If you love his character, even if the other person has nothing, you are still willing to give your life. Then don’t complain that when you want to eat hot pot in the future, you can only buy a pack of seasonings and go home to mix them.
If the person you love is rich, don’t complain that he will come home drunk at 3 a.m., and still don’t care about your joys, sorrows, and happiness after waking up.
04
Soul mate.
When I was young, I always felt that I was unique and always felt that I had an interesting soul. So I have been trying to find a Soulmate that really understands myself.
searching,
goes around in circles.
You convey your emotions,
I understand it.
You understand my desire to speak but stop,
I understand what you mean.
Finally, daughter,
I really can't bear to scatter your romance all over the ground, but I have to say it.
Anyone who understands your heart is often someone whose level and experience are far higher than you.
So, it doesn’t understand you, but you are too easily understood by others.
So, he doesn’t understand you, but understands many people.
Of course, don't be sad either.
I remember that when we just met your father, we had endless things to say. I seemed to be willing to talk to him about those long-lost confusions, and he always used one or two words to make me suddenly enlightened. He agrees with my view of things, and his eyes are full of appreciation for me. When I encountered a topic of discussion, my keen and profound thoughts also deeply impressed me. I think there will never be a second person in the world who can fit me so well.
But later I found out that it seems that everyone is willing to chat with him. Even if there is a person I think is unreasonable, when you meet your father, you will agree with him and regard him as a confidant.
Of course, knowing the truth will not delay us from continuing to dream. After all, it is not too good to live with someone who understands you.
But let him love you all the time, this is your ability.
05
three views match
Although the three views are big, they are actually just small things and details in life. The easiest way is to send some hot news, don’t comment on it yourself, see how he evaluates it, observes and feels his way of thinking. You must choose the most relaxed and natural moments, so that he can easily show his true self.
Daughter, let's get here for the time being. The chair is a little hard and it hurts to sit. The marriage of needs to be completed, but that is not compromise, but trying to understand the other party. Then what you love, what you love. May you have a peaceful and smooth life.
