There are no customers in the store on rainy days, so Ye Li is sleeping on the recliner chair to browse her phone.
buzzed twice. In the family WeChat group, the group owner’s father sent a @ message: The Fuyuan Hotel dinner will be held at 7 o'clock in the evening, everyone must attend.
Ye Li smiled and said to her husband Changdong, "There are only five people in the group. My father sent a message and asked everyone. The old man is playing with his mobile phone more smoothly than me."
Changdong was repairing his tires, and his hands were not stopped and his eyes were raised, "What instructions do your dad have?"
" It was said that it was a dinner tonight. It was strange. What meal should I have to ask." Ye Li said to herself.
"Hey, my brother is back, stop working, hurry up and take a shower and change clothes, go to my mom's house for a walk," Ye Li said happily while patting her thighs.
Changdong frowned: "I won't go, there's a lot of work waiting for you. Your dad said we won't be the one who treats you to dinner. If you have milk and fruits at home, you can take them away. I'll transfer you another 200 yuan."
Ye Li curled her lips: "I'm doing this day, and I have to wait for you to send change to you when you visit relatives and friends. I'll be a small worker every day. It's said that it's a joke to death."
Changdong was so straight He stood up and raised his hand: "If the financial power is left to you, I don't care who the money is left. As long as I can buy a school district house, my daughter can go to school,"
Ye Li smiled and said, "It's better to leave it to your place, it's safer than the safe."
Ye Li knew very well that her husband was unwilling to go back to her parents' home with her. It was because of her father's inauthentic work and she did not give her financial power, which was also because of her mother's family.
This is what happened...
Ye Li and Changdong were high school classmates. At that time, they had a little secret relationship, but Changdong knew it himself and generally did not want to delay Ye Li, who was better than him, so he did not break the window paper.
After graduation, Changdong went to his relatives far away to learn the skills of car repairs, and a few years later he opened a car beauty shop himself.
When I met Ye Li again, I realized that she had not been to college back then, and now she is working in her hometown.
The two are in a good match, Changdong didn't care about it, and the two of them got together after a few words.
Ye Li is good everywhere, and people can’t find fault with it. The only drawback is that she is too spoiled for her younger brother.
I received a salary of 2,000 yuan in January and took out 700 yuan to my younger brother every month. I was reluctant to eat and drink the rest of the money, so I gave most of it to my parents.
Changdong then realized why Ye Li didn’t go to college.
Ye Li's parents prefer boys over girls. She grew up in this environment and felt that it was normal for her sister to let her younger brother go. After she graduated from high school, her younger brother should go to high school. The parents made it clear that the family could not afford to support her two children to go to school. Although Ye Li was unwilling to do so, she still gave up studying and earned her younger brother tuition and living expenses at work.
When he was in love with Changdong, Ye Li was paying living expenses to her younger brother who was in college.
After getting married to Changdong, Ye Li was subsidizing her younger brother’s rent. Although her younger brother graduated from college, his salary was low and rent became a problem.
The number of times has increased, and Changdong has an opinion: "I have no objection to how you subsidize your younger brother when you were not married before, but now we are married, we should put the small family first. Your younger brother works hard to make money, so think about me? How did you earn this money? Who will help me?"
Ye Li was a little guilty: "My parents don't have a job, so who will help me if I don't help my younger brother?"
"Your brother is an adult, a man, it's time to take on the burden by himself. You can help me if you are young now. Then can you continue to help with marriage and having children in the future? Help him buy a house and a car? We haven't saved enough down payment yet." Changdong said
with some self-deprecatingYe Li: "I understand the truth. I am afraid that I will not be angry with my parents, and my younger brother will be wronged."
Changdong smiled: "Angry? Aggrieved? That can't help evil. Habits are a terrible thing. Now your whole family thinks that it is natural for you to subsidize your younger brother, because you have been accustomed to it since childhood. In the future, when people's appetite is getting bigger and bigger, and when you don't have the ability to take care of both sides, which side do you choose to abandon? It's still time to withdraw now, and the deeper and deeper in the future"
" And the most important thing now is to buy a school district house in the city, let your daughter go to a good school, and then continue, our daughter is the next one, and you sacrifice yourself for others," Changdong continued.
Ye Li thought carefully. The two of them managed this store, except for rent, water and electricity bills, it was only slightly better than going to work. Her younger brother was not married and had children. There were indeed many places to spend money in the future. She wanted her daughter to have a good education and planned to buy a house in the city early. She wanted to take care of both ends, which was not realistic.
After thinking about it, I still couldn't let my daughter down. Ye Li was instigated by Changdong and even handed over the financial power.
Mother scolded her: "I'm stupid and give the money to a man? If a man has money, he will become bad. He kicked you up and couldn't find a place to cry."
Dad cares about it: "Your brother won't care about it in the future? Did you break off your relationship with us after marriage? How good are you siblings when you were young? Do you have to bear to see that he is not doing well than others?"
Ye Li said with little confidence: "I will pay for what should I pay, but I won't help with living expenses, rents, etc., and you also know that we have been planning to buy a house in recent years."
Mother and mother can't hear their daughter's needs, and they are just worried that their son will not eat well and sleep if he has no subsidies outside?
The parents even blamed their resentment on their son-in-law and said something to look down on Changdong openly and secretly.
"Who is the son-in-law of our relatives? He is a young leader and arranges work for his family. The whole family will benefit from it."
"The old neighbor called me to go to his house for dinner. The son-in-law bought good cigarettes and wine. How could I have such a good life?"
Ye Li does not subsidize her younger brother. When she returned to her parents' home, her father asked for money in his own name, either to buy cigarettes or to drink. Even if Ye Li bought cigarettes and alcohol, there is still a reason to ask for money.
is going to ask for money. Ye Li only brings two or three hundred yuan every time she goes back. Looking at her father-in-law who looks ugly, Changdong is even more reluctant to go there. Can't afford to offend him or hide?
Last year, when my brother-in-law brought his girlfriend home, the father-in-law issued a notice in the WeChat group that everyone must arrive and leave a good impression of his future daughter-in-law. Changdong did not avoid it and was cheated.
Ye Li and Changdong took their things to help their mother wash and wash them in advance, and the whole family went to the restaurant for lunch.
At the dinner table, my father-in-law was very generous and ordered a large table of dishes, and they were all hard and expensive. Changdong sighed secretly that his daughter-in-law was still in high standards. He remembered that when he first went to his father-in-law's house, he cooked four home-cooked dishes.
When the payment was made after the meal, the father-in-law shrank and hid behind and quietly said to Ye Li, "You go and settle the bill."
Ye Li had no money. She looked at Changdong in panic. Changdong didn't move at all. The father-in-law was arrogant for a long time, but in the end he wanted to be the sucker. He took all the good things and must not spoil him.
Seeing that the son-in-law was still moving, the father-in-law was a little anxious: "Today's meal was a treat for your brother-in-law, which was specially for you to welcome you."
sired his name. Changdong was ruthless and clenched the bullet and settled the account.
This mute loses money and makes Changdong feel more memory. If he doesn't go, he won't join in the fun. So this time my brother-in-law comes back, and Changdong says he won't go anything.
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind stops. Changdong hides, and his father-in-law comes to the door the next day: "Why didn't you go to have a meal yesterday?"
Changdong smirked and said, "I had a hurry in my hand yesterday, so I didn't go over. I didn't hear Ye Li say something important? What's wrong?"
Father-in-law said, "It's nothing big. My daughter doesn't take charge of the family and has to tell you, your brother is back, he says he's going to get married and wants to buy a house at work."
Chang Dong's heart tightened, and he was here to ask for money. He said calmly: "I am not young anymore, and it's time to get married and have children. When I was as old as him, I opened this store by myself."
father-in-law: "The key is to buy a house outside. I can't use it to build a house for him in my hometown. It's a pity to sell it."
My brother-in-law's new house has been living in the past few years, and it's very convenient to be close to the market. What's the key to this?
Changdong couldn't guess thoroughly, so he simply refused to speak.
father-in-law continued, "I can't bear to sell it to others. Otherwise, you want to buy a house. I'm selling this house to you, and the money is for my son to buy it in another place. I don't ask you how much you want it. I spent 300,000 yuan on the construction and decoration, but it has doubled in recent years. Just give me 500,000 yuan, all of them are your own family."
Changdong sneered and said, "If you want to sell it, I don't want to buy it. We also have the old house in our family."
"Your house is not as good as mine, upstairs The two floors downstairs can also do business and live in. The best of both worlds. "The father-in-law
Changdong was angry: "Your plan is so loud, I don't take advantage of you. You should sell it to others at a high price. Let's go to the city to buy it."
The father-in-law was anxious and shouted to Ye Li, "What are you going to the city to buy? How good is the family? Your younger brother is not at home in the future, so I will count on you to support me in my old age."
Ye Li smiled bitterly. His father used all his life's calculations on her, and he supplemented his younger brother in the first half of his life and gave them to their old age in the second half of his life.
She was glad that she heard Changdong's words. Otherwise, if my younger brother would not know how much he would throw it in. What about her parents, who were just thinking about exploiting her daughter to satisfy her son's wishes, had never considered her.
Ye Li said cruelly: "Even if you have money, I won't buy it. I can't be stupid all the time. I have a family and a child. If you have a place for your child, I have to have a good starting point for my child."
The father cursed: "I shouldn't have agreed to you two get married at the beginning, but they were both taken away..."
Since this time, Ye Li was unwilling to go back to her parents' home. When she went back, she bought some essentials, gave her two or three hundred yuan, and went back in a hurry.
is filial to your parents. No matter how good your relationship with your brothers and sisters is, you must consider your family. After marriage, your partner will be your real support.
Of course, it is understandable to help the original family properly when you have the ability. If you slap the swollen face and pretend to be fat, it will be more than worth the loss. Do you think it makes sense, friends? Welcome to comment and leave comments.
