I am a community mediator in a third-tier small town. In more than ten years of work, I have seen all kinds of people and troubled things, and have compiled some tortuous stories to share with you. I hope everyone can be inspired by it!
Liu Chunfang never expected that she had a big fat boy. Not only did her mother-in-law not only refused to help take care of her confinement, but she only stayed for two days and left in a hurry like a burning butt.
Although my biological mother is close to me, after the child is born, she lives in her own home and takes good care of herself and the baby. But this soft little meat-like child is the root of her old Ding family after all. Doesn’t the widowed mother-in-law like her grandson?
said that he was thinking about the chickens, ducks, pigs and dogs raised in the yard; the melons, fruits, and vegetables in the field...
The white and tender son he gave birth to with difficulty could not match the money-worthy business that his mother-in-law said.
The mother-in-law's eagerness and scrupulous appearance made Liu Chunfang not doubt her image in her mother-in-law's mind: she is bold, unreasonable and vicious.
, but..., the two of them have not dated too much, how could there be such a deep barrier and misunderstanding?
Holding her soft and tender son in her arms, Liu Chunfang could only let her mother-in-law go back helplessly.
Three days ago, Liu Chunfang was particularly happy with her mother-in-law's arrival and felt relieved.
childbirth is imminent, and the husband is not around. The arrival of her mother-in-law makes her feel that she is giving birth to a happy baby who is expected, valued, and accepted by her family.
However, the mother-in-law's insistence on leaving made her feel that all the peace of mind before were illusions.
It seems that I am a child who is not favored by my in-laws and is born to a shameless child who is not accepted by the other family. What is the reason for
? I am the wife of his Ming matchmaker and gave birth to a full-term child, so why aren't I welcomed by my mother-in-law?
Liu Chunfang thinks that she is a delicate little girl, and she is more than enough to marry such an older, kind-hearted man who has not been to home for many years!
A year ago, Liu Chunfang just turned 19 years old.
Someone introduced her to a man who was a little older but bought a house in the county town for the full amount.
Men not only have some money, but also look good, especially their single phoenix eyes, which seem to be filled with a bay of water, and when they look at you, they are full of affection.
This made Liu Chunfang, who had never had a close relationship with a man, soon was captured by the affectionate eyes, and felt like the heart of spring was piping.
The man's name is Ding Rong, and his hometown is outside the county town at the foot of a mountain between two mountains.
It is said that there is only one old lady in the family, she is very poor. But I have a profitable life. I have a big truck and make money by raising goods.
Liu Chunfang and her mother followed the introduction person and walked through the man's home in the mountain nest.
There is indeed only a thin and weak old lady in the family. She doesn’t talk much and looks even more restrained than Liu Chunfang. The introducer said: This old lady is a good encounter at first glance.
It can be seen that the mother and son are very satisfied with Liu Chunfang. So, with the reason in the introduction, the wedding was scheduled for National Day one month later.
Mother Liu looked at the other party’s broken grass and ruined house and asked for a bride price of 80,000 yuan. The thin old lady looked at the circle of people present, looking for help. I wanted to speak, but finally lowered my head silently.
The atmosphere was a little awkward in an instant.
Liu's mother broke the embarrassment quickly: "The man gives the woman a bride gift, which is a rule left by the ancestors and a custom. It is not easy for anyone to raise a daughter." After
, she deliberately continued in a slow tone: "My daughter is still young, so she is not in a hurry to get married.She learned a craft and stayed at home for a few more years, which could help her family make more money! "
introducer echoed: "Yes, Chunfang has been learning to make curtains and sofa covers and for a few years, and now he is a master, and he makes a lot of money every year! The 80,000 yuan bride price is also low and not high for us! "
Ding Rong stood up, renewed the tea for the person sitting, sat beside his mother and asked, "When will you give it to the 80,000 bride price? We need to prepare for it. "
" just give it before the wedding! "My mother Liu saw that the other party did not bargain on the amount of the betrothal gift, blurted out. Although the etiquette of the three betrothal six ceremonies was not perfect, after marriage certificate , Ding Rong took Liu Chunfang to buy three gold in the mall and bought several fashionable clothes. The man tried his best to give what the new wife should have.
Although he was born in a remote mountain nest, men knew the general and were etiquette in dealing with people, so that Liu Chunfang's face and inner self were ironed properly.
Liu Chunfang's whole body and mind was wrapped warmly by the man's considerate love.
Seeing Liu Chunfang marrying so well and grandly, her neighbor Aunt He whispered: "A young man, can he be a second marriage, right? "
Mother Liu said: "Some people in the mountains get married early and some get married late. The son-in-law I am looking for is a sincere and ambitious person. When the conditions are not good, if you don’t look for a wife, you are afraid of making a grievance for the other girl! "
On the National Day, Liu Chunfang married happily and happily!
Men are good, knowing the cold and hot, and knowing how to care for others.
also has a sweet mouth. He listens to the radio and the songs in the narrow cab of the truck every day; those who travel around the world often encounter some strange experiences. When they come back, they will tell Liu Chunfang. When the couple is together, they always have Liu Chunfang's crisp laughter in the air.
Before marriage, her husband treated Liu Chunfang with honesty, and her attitude after marriage was as good as ever. In addition to leaving some small money and pocket money for her mother in the valley, most of her income was handed over to Liu Chunfang.
also opened a curtain and window screen store on another street. From then on, Liu Chunfang ended her work days and became a small shop owner. Although the store was small, she was diligent and sweet, and her business was pretty good.
Liu Chunfang Fang is not a vicious woman, but a little girl who comes out of a tight family, and has no ability to control money.
took back all the money in her hand and handed it to her mother's mother, Mother Liu.
The newlywed couple has a deep relationship. Liu Chunfang has a big belly a year later and becomes a mother to give birth.
Liu Chunfang is not spoiled, and can take care of herself while pregnant. When she was young, she also made some mini-version clothes for her children.
Because she left her mother's house Recently, Liu's mother often takes care of her. The day before the child gave birth, the man had not come back, but the mother-in-law who had lived in the valley for a long time rushed over before dark with two sacks of local specialties and more than a dozen pheasants .
Originally, there was about a week before the due date.
The strong Liu Chunfang was angry because of the gossip of Liu's mother, which affected her fetal aura and gave birth to a child in advance.
When having supper, Liu's mother said to Liu Chunfang's mother-in-law: "In-law! You finally came. Ding Rong was not at home all day. When Chunfang was hospitalized for a child tomorrow, I wonder if he could come back. It’s good that you come, and we feel much more at ease. Someone finally gave the cost of hospitalization tomorrow. "
Liu Chunfang is honest by nature, but not stupid.
immediately realized that her mother refused to take out her family's money when she was about to have a child. She wanted to speak, but she held back.
looked at her mother-in-law who was a little uncomfortable, and was also secretly anxious about her mother's behavior.
The expression on her mother-in-law's face changed, and she did not refute. She put down her chopsticks, stood up, turned her clothes up, took out a small cloth bag from her close-fitting clothes, untied the three layers of inferior plastic bags inside and three layers of outer, revealing a thick stack of money.Although the money of
is thick, it is not much. Except for the few red bills on the outside, it is filled with small amounts of twenty, ten or five yuan.
Mother-in-law said voluntarily: "I have two thousand yuan here. I don't know if it's enough for Chunfang to give birth. It's really not enough... Please lend us some, add some, and wait for Rong'er to come back to make it back!"
Mother Liu smiled and replied: "Okay!" When the mother-in-law stuffed the money in her hand into Liu Chunfang's hand, Liu Chunfang was still thinking about the tens of thousands of yuan she had put on her hand in the past year!
Liu Chunfang took advantage of the inactivity of her mother-in-law going to wash dishes and pulled her mother-Liu's arm into the bedroom.
: "Mom, where is the money I put in your hand? When I give birth tomorrow, I don't know what the situation is. Please help me prepare the money!"
: "Daughter, you are stupid! You gave birth to their children, and someone from their family paid for it. What else do you need me to prepare?"
: "But what I asked you to keep the money for me?"
: "Your money? Is your money still the money of our own family? Your brother Chunlei also wants to get married, but also buy a house. How do you introduce girls in the dilapidated tiled house?"
: "You mean, my money is given to the family? I'm dead or alive now, you don't care?" Liu Chunfang cried a little aggrieved.
: "Didn't someone care about you?" Mother Liu gave her a blank look.
The sincere Liu Chunfang was furious by her mother's words, and her stomach began to hurt, and she started to move that night.
Liu Chunfang was sent to the hospital and went straight to the delivery room. Fortunately, the child is also considered full-term , full-term , Liu Chunfang is young, and adults and children are safe.
The son was successfully born. After all, Liu's mother was her biological mother. She lived in Liu Chunfang's two bedrooms and one living room, caring for her daughter during confinement.
But after all, my mother is still more intimate with money. If my mother hadn’t been too fond of money, she wouldn’t have started in advance and gave birth to a child.
For the mother, your little home is far less important than your mother's home; your safety and your baby are far less important than your younger brother's future happiness.
After thinking about it, Liu Chunfang felt that her mother-in-law was still more reliable, and she always puts her children first; in the long run, letting her mother-in-law live with her, she helped take care of the children, went to the store to work, and the whole family was very beautiful.
Liu Chunfang's wishful thinking was slapped in the face by reality.
Liu Chunfang's mother-in-law, who is more heartwarming than her biological mother, proposed to go back.
According to the mother-in-law, the little baby just ate and slept, and there was nothing to do; the mother accompanied the child to eat and sleep, and there was a person taking care of him, and it was enough to help buy vegetables, cook, wash and wash. Both of them were here, wasted.
is a good one - a waste!
is not worth it!
Although Liu Chunfang knows: a forced melon is not sweet.
, but I was still a little unhappy, but I was helpless.
After the mother-in-law expressed her intention to leave, she packed up her small package, looked in front of her son after she fell asleep for a while, and then left on her own with a small bag.
The man has returned and the child has been born for a week.
Mother Liu asked the man for care during confinement in front of Liu Chunfang.
00 total fees, Liu's mother calculated very clearly: "The total cost of production, hospitalization and examination is 3,800, the eggs, vegetables, and milk I bought are 1,600..., and the 2,000 I got from my mother-in-law, she was 3,400." Liu Chunfang stared at her mother in shock, unable to speak.
The man was quite responsible and immediately gave Liu's mother 4,000 yuan, and said something thankful.
Looking at her mother happily holding the stack of red bills, Liu Chunfang was ashamed of being ashamed.
In private, the man asked Liu Chunfang about his savings at home? The 80,000 yuan gift I gave was borrowed from someone else. I would like to pay it back if I could pay it back. Thinking about it, I would be debunk free soon, and the man was so happy that he hummed a little song.
When the man pieced together a cruel truth from Liu Chunfang's hesitant words, he asked unwillingly: "Have you given the money to your mother? Are you going to come back?"
Liu Chunfang nodded vigorously with tears in her eyes and started crying again.
The man's face sank. For three consecutive days, the man didn't leave the car and didn't speak. He just hid in another room and smoked desperately.
On the fourth day, the man looked at the uneasy Liu Chunfang and said hoarsely: "This time I can only suffer a "silent loss". There must be a boundary for life in the future. Those who should be filial to them, and we should save up what we should be ourselves! There are still more places to use money in the future!"
The man's considerate and generous make Liu Chunfang sobb and put her heart back in her stomach with peace of mind.
As for Liu Chunfang's thought that her mother-in-law was slow to treat the mother and the mother, Liu Chunfang didn't dare to mention it too much.
When the man got out of the car again, he casually said: "You can take care of your baby at home, I'll make money. My mother has her difficulties and she didn't stay to take care of you, don't mind!"
Liu Chunfang was in a position of injustice, but she lowered her head and said "um" lightly, which was considered an answer.
When my son was seven or eight months old, my hometown said: Mother-in-law is not good anymore.
It turned out that in order to make the family more prosperous, my mother-in-law went to the back mountain to pick some herbs and carried them to the market to buy them. That night, it rained a little lightly, and the ground was a little slippery, and my mother-in-law accidentally rolled down from the hillside.
and others carried her back, warmed her for two days, boiled some medicine and fed her slowly for two days, before she got a little breath.
When Liu Chunfang followed the man back, the old man looked very bad.
It was that time that Liu Chunfang realized that the chickens, ducks, pigs, dogs that her mother-in-law was worried about, the melons, fruits, and vegetables that she was thinking about... were all floating clouds.
What she really missed was a girl in her teens and the herbs that could sell money in the mountains.
Liu Chunfang followed the man's footsteps and stepped into the dark old mud house. Her mother-in-law was lying on the bed, trying to turn her neck with difficulty, but she just turned her eyes.
Sitting a thin child by the bed, his loose floral shirt swaying outside his body, holding a thick porcelain bowl in his left hand, with a dark liquid steaming inside, and a small spoon in his right hand, his face full of tears.
It seems that the child is feeding medicine to his mother-in-law.
Seeing the person entering the house, the child stood up anxiously and wanted to walk towards another room.
But the corner of her clothes was pulled tightly by the old man on the bed, forcing her to stand up in a hurry.
The old man's hand was holding the child's clothes, but his eyes were looking at Ding Rong and Liu Chunfang with expectation. There was a sharp light in his expectant eyes, as if there was a criminal law of sternness to Ding Rong.
The man walked over, knelt on the head of the bed, holding his mother-in-law's hand like a dead branch with one hand, and hugged the girl's shoulder with the other hand, and whimpered, "Mom, don't worry, Yun'er, I will take her to the county town to study. Chunfang will treat her well, too!"
The mother-in-law's anxious and expectant gaze gradually lost its sharpness, became charitable, gentle and soft, looking at the son in Liu Chunfang's arms.
Mother-in-law made some low whispering sounds, and finally the sound was like the end of the autumn wind, and she was silent, her eyes lost their focus. Then she closed her eyes and crossed peacefully.
As the hostess, Liu Chunfang didn't care about being sad for herself and could only accompany her husband to handle the funeral.
Fortunately, the naughty son showed great enthusiasm for the girl he met for the first time. As long as he stayed by the girl, he would not cry or make a fuss.
Liu Chunfang only realized at this time that she turned out to be a "stepmother".
Before the mother-in-law was buried, Liu's mother also came here, which was considered a walk between relatives.
After the mother-in-law was buried, Liu Chunfang secretly looked at the thin little girl.
's face full of grief and confusion about the future made those eyes, which were originally like a clear spring, covered with a thin layer of fog.
The vortex on the cheeks also appeared and disappeared due to the sadness of pursing lips.
The girl's expression now looks very similar to her son's little appearance after being wronged.
is really a deep love!
After her husband kowtowed and bowed for forgiveness, Liu Chunfang followed the boat and agreed to take the child back.
promised to take the child back, and Liu Chunfang also considered it.
During the funeral, the girl was so sad that she couldn't help but she couldn't stop her tears.
But when she saw her son crawling around and was about to reach into the brazier, the girl hurriedly picked up her son. After
, she hid in the corner and hugged her son tightly. The son struggled and was naughty in her arms, and used his little hands to pull her hair and ears to wipe away the constant tears from her face. She was patient, not in a hurry, not angry, or venting her anger.
Even though adults are at fault, children are innocent. What's more, this is a child with pure and kind heart. He is also a child with the same blood as his son.
After learning about the child’s ups and downs, her heart has become half weak.
It turns out that although the man in the mountain nest was poor, he married a girl from the neighboring village at the age of eighteen because of his beautiful and handsome appearance.
After marriage, the husband and wife are harmonious and the family is happy, and the wife becomes pregnant soon.
But not long after, my wife suffered from difficult labor and improper operation of stable mother-in-law , and she bleeded heavily, saving the child and losing adults.
A man has not tasted the sweetness and happiness of love, so he was poured into a cold water. I also seem to have the feeling of "hate of killing my wife" towards that baby in my heart.
From then on, he came out to make a living and was not home for many years. The poor baby was raised by grandma.
Now, this child who lost his mother and hurt his father since childhood has lost his last reliance - grandma.
Follow the man's words: "Give her a way out! She is only ten years old! I'm her father at last!"
Liu Chunfang is not a cruel person, but this stepmother is hard to be.
On the way back, Liu's mother called and asked Liu Chunfang to give the girl away. He also said that it was too embarrassing to spread this matter. His daughter married a "second marriage" and would give her more humiliating face.
When she was in the village, someone asked her quietly that she was willing to pay 30,000 yuan to keep the child and be a "child bride" for two years, so that she could be someone else's wife.
Liu Chunfang heard his mother's words and bit her lip and didn't say anything, but just hung up the phone silently.
The next morning, when leaving the village, the villagers scattered in the village greeted the men in three or three.
Chunfang found that many people's eyes swept over the girl silently not far behind them, intentionally or unintentionally.
When he was about to leave the village, a young wife with a bright face ran up and chased her up.
shouted in a stack of voices: "Rong's daughter-in-law, Rong's daughter-in-law..."
When Liu Chunfang realized that she was the "Rong's daughter-in-law", the young wife had already pulled her arm.
The young wife gestured to Liu Chunfang to speak with a step.
: "Are you planning to bring Yun'er back?"
Liu Chunfang smiled awkwardly and nodded.
: "Oh, what can this child do when he arrives in the county? Before, everyone advised the old lady not to let her study and to waste money. How many years older can you make money or get married, and read a few more years. What's the use? The old lady doesn't listen. Look, let's exhaust herself! Her grandmother is no longer here, who is willing to put money on her?"
: "But she is a ten-year-old child. What else can she do if she doesn't study?"
: "Daughter-in-law Rong, you are a kind person! Someone wants to ask you for Yun'er and raise her as a young wife. If you grow older in two years, you will get married again. Look, what's going on? When Liu's mother came over the day before yesterday, we told her that she agreed!"
Liu Chunfang digested the other person's words blankly, and looked at the girl unconsciously.
The girl seemed to know what the woman was holding her muttering. Her face turned red and her head was slightly lowered. In the refreshing morning, her forehead was covered with sweat.
Seeing Liu Chunfang stop talking, the man was anxious: "Why did you change your mind? Your mother agreed, and I gave her a deposit of 5,000 yuan. If you don't believe it, call her to ask her! We should be trustworthy when doing things, right?"
, Liu Chunfang, who had tasted taste, changed her son in her arms, hugged her upwards and said: "The child's grandma is gone, the child's father is still there! The child's biological mother is gone, the child's biological mother is gone, the child's biological mother is gone, the child's biological mother is gone, the child's biological mother is gone, , I am her mother now! Who do you give the money to, whom you want to go, how can my mother be the head of my family? I am the water splashed by my married daughter, and I am two families with my mother. Don’t you understand this? "
Maybe it’s because Liu Chunfang is tired of holding the child, maybe the man knows something, pinched the cigarette that had just taken two puffs of it, wrapped the package on his back tightly, walked over, and reached out to pick up his son.
Liu Chunfang smiled politely at the young wife, handed the child to the man, turned around and walked to the girl, picked up the luggage at the girl's feet, hugged the girl's shoulders, and walked towards the sun.
In marriage, it is wrong for a man to lie to her, but the child is not wrong!
What's more, in marriage, Liu Chunfang also made mistakes. The man was generous and did not care about him.
This time, she should be considerate of him once and not bothering him.
As for the child, she can afford it with her skills and the man's down-to-earth.
Now that the child is old, not only does he not have to take care of her by himself, she can also help him take care of his younger brother.
Although the girl was not born by herself, she is still a relative of the man and her son.
She can read more books and have a good future and destination in the future, and she will also worry less about her own men and her son.
In the future, I and my man will still hope that she and her son can watch over their lives after a hundred years!
No wonder my mother-in-law is so obsessed with making money. Perhaps it was because of her tight life that the girl’s mother could not go to a better hospital for delivery, which led to her miserable death? She has repentance in her heart!
Perhaps it is because of the shortcomings of a man who has a ten-year-old daughter and has the experience of losing his beloved person, which makes him so kind to himself before and after marriage! Only then will he learn to cherish himself!
It seems that this man is not a natural warm man, but has grown up so high-quality after being baptized by the girl's mother's blood! In this way, should she thank her?
As for Liu's mother, she should bear the consequences of what she did this time. All the kidnapping of children can be done, allowing Liu Chunfang to fully see the true face of her mother's lustful and lustful appearance.
The people in the mountains were stunned and it was difficult to bully. They found Liu's mother's house and asked for the 5,000 yuan. Liu's mother refused to give it to her and tried to let Liu Chunfang be the scapegoat again. As a result, Ding Rong and Liu Chunfang and his son went to see the sea. It is said that it was the long-cherished wish of his mother-in-law and his ex-wife who lived in the mountains all their lives.
Liu's mother was pressed to the ground by a few rough women, tore it over, and honestly spit out the little money she greedy.
Liu Chunfang also warned her daughter that my mother is not a biological grandmother, so she should stay away from her in the future!
The child nodded vigorously!
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