didn't expect that he was such a person! It's so dirty!
For a moment, such words spread throughout the people in our village.
Don’t look at him, why do you want to go to those messy places?
The person the villagers talk about is my cousin.
My cousin next door looks and height are similar to ordinary rural people. He still can’t find a wife at the age of 38. He is already a bachelor in the countryside.
In the village, as long as someone asks about the number of bachelors.
I just counted it casually, and there were about 10 people, and I could just make a table of people to have a meal.
These men are around 30 to 48 years old, and they are the age of energetic men, but they are oppressed by reality and become bachelors.
There are many reasons why they are forced to become bachelors.
Some families are too poor to afford the bride price. Some people are too introverted and dare not talk to girls. Some of them are disliked because of their physical disabilities.
My cousin was sick and fever when he was a child and was a village doctor who was not good at medical skills and was in a thorny way, which made him need to walk limply when he walked in the future.
My cousin was working in a factory in Guangdong at the age of 25 and met a girl with a little disability. She was in love with each other, but unfortunately she was ruined by his uncle.
Since that time, my cousin has been living alone.
His mother gave birth to him after remarrying his 42-year-old father with his 5.6-year-old sister.
My mother was born with a little disability and couldn't speak clearly. Her father who remarried to him was an old bachelor.
causes his family's living conditions to be even poorer than others'!
In recent years, my cousin's parents have long left him one after another, and he is the only one left at home.
Usually we don’t pay much attention to his daily life, and we also think that he has nothing special about him. We are already used to being alone.
We have gained new attention to his daily life since the villagers discovered something about his cousin.
I didn’t expect that he was such a person!
Our village is about half an hour away from the county town. Every time the villagers want to go to the county town, they need to ride a motorcycle.
My cousin's family is already poorer than others' families, and with him alone, the old house at home has long been ruined.
In recent years, with the subsidies from the township government and the help of his uncle, he renovated the old house into a small brick house.
Later, the township government issued him a minimum living allowance and issued him a disability certificate , with a certain subsidy every month. Although it doesn't cost much, it's enough to ensure that he can eat and wear and wear alone.
My cousin didn’t have enough money to buy a motorcycle to go to the county town, so he could only take someone else’s ride.
That day he said he was going to the county town to buy something, so he took someone else's car.
I don’t know what’s going on, but people from the same village actually found that my cousin had visited the massage shop in the county town many times.
The man returned to the village and told others about his cousin's privacy.
Good things don’t go out, bad things spread thousands of miles!
In less than half a day, the news that my cousin went to the county PC spread several times in the mouths of the villagers.
After my cousin came home, he learned from others that his privacy was discovered by others. He was very angry and scared, so he hid at home and didn't go out to do farm work for several days.
There is no way. People in rural areas have to go out to work every day. Later, my cousin could only go out to work secretly with his head down. His whereabouts became more and more mysterious.
In order to avoid everyone's eyes and attention, he became more and more mysterious. His actions attracted more attention.
I told my husband about this.
My husband said, the people in your village are too much, why should you comment on your cousin?
Although he is physically disabled, he is normal in his heart and he also needs a normal sex life.
He is only in his 30s, has no wife or girlfriend. Then he can only go to PC, and he has not violated the law or influenced others.
He is not the only bachelor in the countryside, and it doesn’t matter to you or me if he does that.
I think my husband is right. My cousin has always lived alone, and he is also lonely during the Chinese New Year and Festival. Now even his most private things have been peeped at by others.
As a bachelor in the countryside, his life experience is too miserable!
