Text: The fragrance is as good as ever
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As the saying goes. The sky has unforeseen circumstances, and people have misfortunes and blessings.
In the summer of 2008, my adoptive mother was admitted to the hospital with terminal lung cancer. The doctor advised her to stay home and raise her. I don't agree. The doctor said that if you continue to treat it, the cost of treatment will be hundreds of thousands or even more, and it will only prolong your life.
Hundreds of thousands may be a small amount to some people, but in our family it is an astronomical figure.
My adoptive father and mother are both disabled. My adoptive mother is mute. She is very beautiful but cannot speak, so she found an adoptive father who is also disabled.
My adoptive father is lame and walks with a limp, but it does not affect his work, so he has been working for others for many years.
I was an abandoned baby. Once, my adoptive father went to the hospital to visit relatives and found me at the entrance of the hospital. The kind-hearted adoptive father couldn't bear to look at me. He was crying alone there, so he took me home with everyone watching. .
They had no children, so they went to the police station to register me as a registered permanent resident and adopted me.
He and my adoptive mother regarded me as a treasure. Especially my adoptive mother, it was so true that I was afraid of being scared when I held it in my hand, and it was afraid of melting when I held it in my mouth. She gave me all her love.
My adoptive mother is mute and cannot speak, but she is very considerate, and her inability to speak has not affected her communication with my adoptive father, and our family has always lived happily.
二
After I graduated from high school, I did not go to college, so my adoptive father asked me to continue my studies.
I think the adoptive parents are old and need someone to take care of them. Instead of reviewing, I found a job in the small town where we lived, taking care of my adoptive parents while working.
A while ago, my adoptive mother always felt that she had no energy to work. She felt sluggish in everything she did and could not lift her spirits. I took my adoptive mother to the hospital for a check-up, and it was found that she had lung cancer.
The initial treatment cost tens of thousands. This is all our family’s savings from frugality over the years, as well as money borrowed from relatives and friends.
The doctor said that later treatment would cost more money. My adoptive father and I were at a loss as to where we could get so much money.
My adoptive father wanted to take my adoptive mother home and not treat her. He said that she should go home and raise her. She was already old anyway and she had such a filial daughter like me, so it was not a loss.
I don’t agree. I must treat the adoptive mother. Even if the final result is that it cannot be cured, I will not give up, as long as it can prolong the life of my adoptive mother.
But where can I get so much money? We have already borrowed from relatives and friends who could borrow. I racked my brains to think of ways to make money.
I started fundraising online and forwarded it everywhere, but the money I raised was a drop in the bucket.
I said that as long as someone is willing to pay to save my adoptive mother, I will marry him.
三
People often say that one can survive from desperate situations, and it is really not bad at all.
A "domestic violence man" came to me and said he was willing to pay for my adoptive mother's medical treatment, as long as I was really willing to marry him.
This domestic violence man is a well-known figure in our county. Both of his wives were beaten away by him.
The domestic violence man's family is very rich. He used to be a butcher, and later he opened a pig factory and a slaughterhouse, and his business was very prosperous.
The domestic violence man has a bad temper and likes to drink. If he drinks too much, he will beat others. His first wife was beaten away by him after he drank too much.
He spent money to marry a second wife. More than a year later, his second wife couldn't stand his abuse and ran away with their daughter who was under one year old.
The domestic violence man has become a loner again, and everyone knows his bad temper. He asked someone to find him a wife again, but no matchmaker dared to tell him, mainly because no woman dared to marry him.
I looked at the domestic violence man. He was not the rough-and-tumble butcher I imagined, with a vicious look and a bad temper. Instead, he was somewhat gentle and gentle. No wonder his business was so big!
I promised him to think about it for three days.
I have not been idle in the past three days. I carefully inquired about his personality. The domestic violence man is very kind outside and is good to the neighbors. He drinks too much and likes to beat his wife at home.
After careful consideration, I decided to marry a domestic violence man. First, I thought this man had money and could help me save my mother. Second, he was not particularly bad in nature. Third, I could make him change his habit of beating his wife.
四
My adoptive father knew about my decision, and he firmly disagreed with me marrying a domestic violence man.
He said that I couldn't destroy myself, and my adoptive mother would not agree if she knew it. They worked so hard to raise me to make me happy, not to make me suffer, especially for them.
I should find a good man to marry, not a man who has been married for the third time and has domestic violence tendencies. Am I not jumping into a pit of fire?
I told my adoptive father that I went there for happiness, not for being abused. I had a way.
Because my adoptive parents are disabled, I have been looked down upon by children of the same age since I was a child. I have been ridiculed and bullied by many children, and I have long developed a character that is made of iron.
Some children laugh at me or scold me, and I scold me back.
When a boy hits me, I hit him back and never admit defeat.
A domestic violence man gave me 300,000 yuan to treat my adoptive mother first. After I marry him, I will continue to give money.
五
During the Spring Festival of 2008, my adoptive mother’s condition was stable and I married a domestic violence man.
On the wedding night, I waited in the room anxiously. It was winter, the room was neither too cold nor too hot, but my palms were full of sweat.
I know that the second wife of a domestic violence man was so beaten that she couldn't get out of bed on their wedding night. I don't know what he will do to me, and I don't know if the defense I made in advance will work.
However, I have made up my mind that I will fight to the death. I won't let him abuse me.
My eyes widened and I looked at the domestic violence man in horror. He leered at me with his eyes.
Why are you scared? Are you afraid that I will beat you? No one dares to marry me. How dare you sell yourself to me? Well done. You are so brave.
After saying this, he laughed. Smiling and laughing, I started to cry. I looked at him inexplicably.
He continued, I am not born to like beating women, it is you women who should be beaten. Do you know why I beat them away?
I didn’t say anything and listened nervously.
My first wife stole someone behind my back. His eyes suddenly became fierce, and he stared at me in a daze, betraying me again and again. She couldn't forget her first love, and she couldn't bear to divorce me. Do you think I should beat him away?
My second wife, on her wedding night, she had already slept with another man and had a child. Do you think I should let her get out with her child?
You asked me why I was so unlucky, marrying two women, but in the end it ended up like this.
It turns out that this domestic violence man has such a bad reputation outside. But my heart is so bitter.
I asked him carefully, you can divorce them, why do you abuse them?
When I got divorced, they wanted to share my money. I was unwilling to do so and wanted to beat them away.
I quickly confess my love. Although I married you for money, you are my first man. As long as you are good to me and my adoptive father and mother, I will live with you wholeheartedly.
The domestic violence man said, you are willing to pay because you think you have not forgotten your roots. How much does it cost to treat your adoptive mother? I'm all out.
After saying that, he fell on the bed and fell asleep.
On our wedding night, we were in peace.
Six
In the following days, the domestic violence man went to work every day.
sometimes takes time to accompany me to the hospital to take care of my adoptive mother, which is neither good nor bad for me.
In my heart, I no longer call him a domestic violence man. His name is Wang Bin, and he is also a gentle and gentle Bin.
Every time I went to my adoptive father, he would ask me nervously, did Wang Bin hit you?
I smiled and answered my adoptive father, "It's okay, you're fine!" Your daughter is not that easy to bully.
The adoptive father sighed, it's all us who have dragged you down.
That day, he accompanied me to visit my adoptive mother again. I happened to meet a male classmate from high school who I had also been my roommate with before, so we chatted a little more.
I glanced inadvertently and saw Wang Bin's fierce gaze.
I was shocked. His first two wives had stains. Such a man is very suspicious. Could he be too worried? I touched my secret weapon.
However, he did not have an attack on the spot.
returned home. He ignored me, sat down and drank.
I knew something bad might happen, and sure enough, after a glass of wine, he shouted to me, "Come here."
I walked up to him and before I spoke, he gave me a big slap in the face.
Fortunately, I was well prepared and I was able to dodge. He took out the prepared anti-wolf spray and sprayed it into his eyes.
The domestic violence man covered his eyes and screamed in pain.
I ignored his yelling and yelled at him, "I did something wrong, please hit me."
He covered his eyes and cursed, why the hell are you talking endlessly to a man? Is he your old friend?
I said, he was just an ordinary classmate of mine in high school. I chatted with my old classmate for a few words, and everything was fine.
I tell you. I'm not the kind of person who changes his mind when he sees something different. Since I'm married to you, I will live a good life with you. It's an insult to my character that you doubt me like this.
How can I live a good life with you when suspicion arises? We don’t live in a vacuum. We always have to come into contact with people when we go in and out! I will also come into contact with men, you have to believe me. Only then can we live well.
Don’t treat me like you used to beat your wives. I’m not them either. I behave upright and I won’t let you beat, scold or bully me casually.
I also tell you that I have been involved in fights since I was a child. When others scold me, I will scold them back. If someone hits me, I will hit them back.
The domestic violence man yelled, you are so capable, my eyes are going to go blind, you should heal my eyes first.
七
I knew that Wang Bin’s eyes would be fine, and he would only feel uncomfortable for a few days. After taking good care of him for a few days, his eyes recovered.
It was just a call from my adoptive father. The hospital was pressing for medical bills again, and my adoptive mother's illness was costing her money more and more.
I asked Wang Bin for money but he refused to give it to me this time. He said I was too cruel and used money to figure out my own solution.
I looked at him angrily. I married you just for your money. I used the money to save my adoptive mother. My adoptive mother was very kind to me. She was a disabled person and took good care of me. Without her, I wouldn’t know. Can I live to this day?
I took out a dagger and pointed it at my neck. You promised me that if I marry you, you will pay for it. If you don't pay, I'll die in front of you.
Wang Bin waved his hands repeatedly, "No, no, absolutely no, can't I give you money?" I really admire you, why do you have so many tricks.
Maybe he is afraid of the hard ones, and the hard ones are afraid of losing his life. Maybe Wang Bin was moved by my filial piety.
Wang Bin obediently took out the money and accompanied me to the hospital to take care of my adoptive mother. He was even more diligent than me in looking ahead and taking precautions.
Even the adoptive father felt strange. Is this the legendary domestic violence man? A truly filial son-in-law.
Under our careful care, the doctor said that the adoptive mother could live up to one year, but the result was that the adoptive mother lived for more than two years.
My adoptive mother finally passed away in 2021. I cried bitterly. My adoptive mother is not my biological mother, but she is better than my biological mother. Although she cannot speak, she gave me the most maternal love in the world.
At that time, Wang Bin and I were living a serious life. I no longer guarded against him, and he no longer doubted me.
I took my adoptive father home to raise him. He couldn't sit idle, so Wang Bin found a job for him in the factory, but he did it happily.
I also joined the factory to manage accounts. We had a daughter, and Wang Bin became her daughter's little follower.
Wang Bin quietly told me that he secretly went to see a psychiatrist and he overcame his psychological shadow according to the psychiatrist's method.
He thinks I am a good girl who values love and justice and deserves to be cherished and spend a lifetime together.
We looked at each other and smiled.
The path of life depends on how you go. If you go wrong and meet the right person, you will become the wrong person. If you go right, the wrong person will become the right person.
