I am married. My name is Zhong Feng. I was originally a rural boy and now work in a state-owned enterprise. My wife Yaru also works in a company. She is beautiful, virtuous, emotional, and likes romance. She always says that I am dull and have no passionate feelings for her. In o

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This story comes from the oral narration of the protagonist Zhong Feng, compiled by Green Valley Beauty.

I am married. My name is Zhong Feng. I was originally a rural boy and now work in a state-owned enterprise.

My hometown is in a remote rural area in the north. In order to support me in school, my parents lived frugally and worked hard, so that I could go to college and join the workforce.

After I joined a state-owned enterprise, they helped me buy a house in the city and marry a daughter-in-law. Just when I wanted to honor my parents, bad luck befell me. They passed away one after another due to illness. In addition to the grief, I felt that I had no chance to repay my parents, which has left me with deep regrets to this day.

My wife Yaru also works in a company. She is beautiful, virtuous, emotional, and likes romance. She always says that I am dull and have no passionate feelings for her. In other words, I am relatively indifferent to her and have no lingering feelings for her. .

One night she snuggled in my arms and asked me an eternal question: "If I fell into the river, would you save me first, or would you save your mother first?"

This is a dilemma, as early as Mr. Cao Yu has proposed it in his "The Wilderness", but there is no answer so far.

When I first faced this problem, I said I was bored and wanted to avoid her, but she kept pestering me and insisted on expressing my position, "What do you say! What do you say! Don't sleep until you say it."

I was really forced by her. There was no other way. I pondered for a while, and suddenly an idea came to me, and I said angrily: "Of course I will save you first!"

" "You lied, you are so filial to your parents, this is not what you are saying, "

" Hi! My mother passed away. If I don’t save you, who will I save? "

" Ah! That's what you think. No, what you said just now doesn't count. Now say it again, "

" My mother has passed away. She is no longer here. What do you want me to say? "

" doesn't work! You assume mom is still alive and tell the truth," my wife said forcefully.

I whispered into her ear, "I'll save you first! "

At this time Yaru smiled with satisfaction and kissed me on the face, "Good boy! It's so kind of you! "

At this time, I pretended to be dissatisfied and said: "You mentioned that Mom is here. That year when we went back to our hometown, she was not very good to you. She gave you money to buy the clothes you like, and she gave you a cold. Brown sugar ginger soup , you slept in in the morning, and when you woke up, I quickly cooked you a delicious meal. When we left, the old lady kept us at the entrance of the village. The safflower locust trees on both sides of the road were full of clusters of white flowers. Your eyes were dizzy at that time. Wet.

"You! What's wrong with you? It's obviously because our mother is good to us, but you say it's not good. It's clear that the Sophora japonica has red flowers, but you say it has white flowers? What do you mean?"

"Ah! You are so stupid It's all irony." At this time, Yaru suddenly realized.

At this time she was silent, she cried, she cried so sadly, she choked and said: "If your mother and I fall into the river together, you must save your mother! Leave me alone, otherwise we will regret it for the rest of our lives. ”

I remember that year, my mother was ill and hospitalized. There were three patients in the city hospital ward. In addition to my mother, there were two other patients, one was an old lady who was recovering from cerebral hemorrhage . The other is an old man who became a vegetative state after a head injury.

The sons of these two patients were waiting at the hospital bed. The old lady was recovering. After she recovered in the hospital for more than 20 days, the son thought it was too much money and stopped treating the mother, so he forcibly sent her to a nursing home. Later, his mother had no one to provide her with rehabilitation training, so she became bedridden, and finally passed away not long after.

And the son who was waiting for his father who was in a vegetative state has been holding on in the hospital. The doctor said that it would be difficult for his father to wake up, and the chance of waking up was only one in 100,000.But with this one in 100,000 chance, he, as a son, is still in the hospital and perseveres.

I think the question of who should be saved first when a wife or mother falls into a river depends on each person, and it varies from person to person.

If a person in love encounters this problem, he must learn to be smart and make a breakthrough in his thinking. What breakthrough? Break through the conversation that others have set for you in advance, and you can see other options outside of the conversation. For example, if my mother can swim, if she can’t swim, I can teach her how to swim, etc. Then my wife will have nothing to say.

In contemporary society, handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the foundation of family harmony. First: try not to live together and have a sense of distance. Second: Learn to think from others’ perspective. Third: Respect each other. Fourth: The economy must be independent. Fifth: Learn to praise. Sixth: Both sides should treat each other equally and not be dominant. Seventh: Take care of each other.

Friends! What do you think?