[Rabbit] 1 Her name is Lu Yao, and she is an abandoned child. I heard from adults that Lu Yao was less than a month old, and her biological mother abandoned her next to the cattle pen of a family in our neighboring village in order to give birth to a son. Her adoptive parents wer

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Her name is Lu Yao, and she is an abandoned child. I heard from adults that Lu Yao was less than a month old, and her biological mother abandoned her next to the cattle pen of a family in our neighboring village in order to give birth to a son. .

Her adoptive parents were honest farmers who had no children. Before her, the couple had adopted a daughter. Her adoptive father got up in the morning to herd the cows. As soon as he went out, he heard Lu Yao's cry of "Wow wow wow". He walked in and saw a little girl with round eyes shivering from the cold. He couldn't bear it, so he Calling loudly to her wife to take the child into the house.

The name Lu Yao was given by her adoptive parents. Later, when she reached the age of studying, a group of children heard some rumors about Lu Yao from the adults, so everyone would say that she was a found child. Whenever that At that time, Lu Yao did not show any weakness and insulted those who made fun of her.

As time goes by, the child who was waiting for food has grown into a beautiful girl. For a rural girl with no talent for learning, Lu Yao accepted her fate like most people. After graduating from junior high school, she went out to work until she was 20 years old. , go home and get married.

When Lu Yao was 20 years old, a middle-aged woman in her 50s came to her home and started talking to his adoptive parents about Lu Yao's marriage. The middle-aged woman said bluntly: "There is a young man from my mother's side. I think he is a good match for your daughter. He is the only son in the family. His three sisters are all married. Their home is also close to the street. If you don’t have any objections, I will go and tell you what you think. ? "

As a traditional rural person, when children reach the age of marriage, they will of course start making arrangements for their children's marriage. Lu Yao's adoptive parents are no exception. They immediately agreed to the middle-aged woman.

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About a week later, a middle-aged woman brought a spirited young man to Lu Yao's house for a blind date.

The young man's name is Ding Mingxuan. He is from Dingjiapo, only half an hour's walk from the town. The man is good-looking, he looks positive and sunny, and he is well-spoken. He is the kind of person who can please his elders. Lu Yao's parents saw The first time they saw Ding Mingxuan, they recognized this son-in-law.

That girl is not pregnant, and Lu Yao is certainly no exception. Moreover, at that age, most of the love for men is determined by appearance, and Ding Mingxuan's appearance is the one that Lu Yao likes.

Ding Mingxuan was also deeply attracted by Lu Yao's innocent image. The two fell in love at first sight, so their marriage naturally came naturally without any suspense.

Both parents had no objection to the children, and they were happy to see the result. One month later, the two families held an engagement ceremony for them. From then on, the two of them were settled and were waiting for the wedding at the end of the year. , Ding Mingxuan and Lu Yao are a real couple.

Ding Mingxuan has been working outside for many years, and the two held an engagement party. Ding Mingxuan justifiably took Lu Yao to work south. Like all people in love, they stick together all the time. They have endless love stories. Young people should They never failed in whatever they were doing, and their passions added endless fun to their lives. However, as their relationship stabilized, each other's shortcomings were also exposed.

Ding Mingxuan didn’t know when he became obsessed with gambling. Not only did he lose all his salary, he also had the idea of ​​​​Lu Yao. At that time, Lu Yao became pregnant, and they and the couple were already engaged. There is not much difference, and being pregnant at this time is not a big deal. Lu Yao thinks that they will get married sooner or later, and the arrival of the child now just brings the wedding forward.

She originally thought that after marrying a man, she would have a family and have someone to rely on in her future life, but he never thought that not only did the dependence she believed on not be curtailed by the arrival of the child, but he also intensified his gambling.

Perhaps, Ding Mingxuan thought that he was convinced of Lu Yao. Not only did they sleep together, they were now a legal couple protected by the law. What's more, they already had a child. A woman who had given birth to a child was just a fish on the chopping board. Should he knead it?

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Women always like to think of themselves as supermen, believing that they can make the men around them turn around. Lu Yao also thinks so. She has always believed that as long as she is given a little more time, Ding Mingxuan will return to the right path for her and her children. , however, she overestimated the position of herself and her children in Ding Mingxuan's heart. Her tolerance not only failed to make him look back in time, but also encouraged Ding Mingxuan's courage to gamble.

Lu Yao is a hard-working person. After she and Ding Mingxuan’s child was born, they both returned to their hometown. With the help of both parents, she set up a breakfast shop in No. 1 Middle School of the town. Because of the good roads and Lu Yao’s sincerity, , her craftsmanship is also good, and her breakfast shop quickly became famous.

Every morning, when other stalls were empty, there was already a long queue in front of her shop. According to the speed at which Lu Yao made money, it would be difficult not to make a fortune, but everyone was wrong.

Not only did she not get rich, but in the end she couldn't even afford to run the breakfast shop. So what about the money she earned? Where have they all gone? This is a question that many people have. In fact, anyone who knows her man knows it well.

Ding Mingxuan regarded Lu Yao as a cash machine. His sly eyebrows left Lu Yao's money nowhere to hide. Ding Mingxuan was always able to use various methods to get Lu Yao's money to the D table to lose the golden light. In this way, they After quarreling and getting back together, and getting together and quarreling again, Lu Yao finally lost hope in Ding Mingxuan, and she filed for divorce.

After another year of quarrel, the two finally became single again.

Women in rural areas still retain the traditional thinking. Marrying is a woman's lifelong belonging. The same is true for divorced Lu Yao. She just came out of a besieged city, and she entered another besieged city without stopping.

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Lu Yao’s second-married man is divorced like her. The difference is that the man has two children. They met through the introduction of an acquaintance. Since they are all experienced, they are not bound by common sense and naturally slept together.

With a woman, a home feels more like home, and a man’s children can eat on time when they get home from school. The two of them were rushing to live their lives at first. As for love, they must no longer yearn for it when they are no longer young!

The two dated for half a year and lived together as a couple for half a year. The two officially received their marriage certificate in the presence of a group of friends.

Not long after getting married, Lu Yao became pregnant again and they became husband and wife. It is normal to have 3-4 children in rural areas, so Lu Yao and the man also decided to have children. Besides, Lu Yao also wanted to have her own child. child.

After the two of them stabilized, Lu Yao also began to plan for the future. She needed a job to support herself. As a rural woman, she had no education or skills. Later, she chose the small business of buying vegetables. After all, the man’s family is In the county town, if you do some small business, you won't have to worry about living expenses.

Everyone, like Lu Yao, thought that after the experience of their first marriage, they would be able to open their eyes and make careful choices in their second marriage. However, no one expected that the man in Lu Yao's second marriage was not a sweetheart.

Her current man would not only take away all the money he earned from selling vegetables, but when business was not going well and she didn't make any money, he would also punch and kick her unceremoniously.

Lu Yao carries a child less than one year old on her back. She wakes up early every day and goes to buy groceries at dusk every day. However, her second husband cannot see her hard work. Not only does the man not feel sorry for her, except for punching and kicking her, the man They also make sarcastic remarks.

Lu Yao once still had the courage to divorce, but now that her second marriage failed again, he no longer had the courage to divorce. She endured the bullying of men and swallowed all the pain in her stomach.

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Marry a man, marry a man, wear clothes and eat.

In the past, people's minds were closed. Women could not show up in public and could only rely on men. Therefore, even if they suffered all kinds of humiliation, they were willing to stay with men because people believed that it was better to die than to live. To have food to eat, I would rather be a man's accessory than fight against fate.

As the cycle of the times has progressed to this day, women have the ability to support themselves. They do not need to rely on men to fill their bellies. They can use their own wisdom and hands and feet to earn a world for themselves. Marriage is no longer a necessity for women, and divorce does not require them. The table fails, it is just a new choice, there is no right or wrong.

I once saw this passage:

There are three types of families in the future. One is the traditional family, where people believe in getting married and having children; the other is the open marriage family; and the other is the unmarried family. They may There are male and female friends, but they are free people.

agrees very much with the above statement. Perhaps, the world has really changed. As people living in this era, we cannot passively be pushed around.

Only by recognizing yourself can you find the joy of life and avoid unnecessary worries.