In the evening, 62-year-old Pharaoh returned home and saw his 28-year-old son lying on the sofa playing games. By the way, he said a few words, and then the family war broke out.
"You said, what are you asking me to do?" The son put down his phone and stunned his father.
Father did not show weakness: "Why should I let you do? Let you go to work, let you make money, not let you play games at home every day."
"Okay, let me go to work? You find me, Do you have that ability?" The son's words were very provocative.
"You, you..." Old Wang paled with anger.
"What you are, your voice is reasonable." The son went to his room after speaking.
This situation has appeared several times, and each time the two sides did not speak for a few days as the end.
Pharaoh felt that his son was not up to date, and his son felt that his father was incapable, and Pharaoh's wife was caught in the middle and became a lubricant.
Lao Wang is a retired teacher. After he retired, he was re-employed in a training institution with a considerable income.
My son is a junior college student. After graduation, he went to work in the South for two years. He came back because of unstable work.
I stayed at home for more than two years. Apart from the problem of playing games, I almost didn't hear anything outside the window.
His father was anxious, and his mother was anxious. They both urged him to find a job, support himself, and prepare to start a family.
He was the only one who was not in a hurry. He locked himself in the room and stayed for one day. Except for a few minutes of eating, he could barely see him.
At the beginning, the father enlightened his son. The son did not refute and agreed to find a job, but he didn't see any action. Later, the father discovered that going out to find a job had become the best excuse for him and his parents to ask for money.
Later, the father broke his money and the son became angry.
The two can't understand each other. The father is more talented than other people's sons, and the son is better than other people's fathers. The father and son do not give in to each other, and neither of them means compromise.
The father is sighing, and the son is stunned.
Mother can’t bear it,I started to deal with each other, comforting the old man and comforting my son, but there was no effect at all.
Over time, under the pressure of work and family, his father fell ill and was admitted to the hospital.
The son refused to accompany him, so the mother went to the hospital by herself in tears.
Worried about the old man's condition here, but worried about his son's meal over there.
On the third day, Lao Wang’s report came out: malignant tumor.
My wife broke down and ran home crying. After telling his son, his son didn't show any expression at all, and even said cool words.
The mother was angry, rushed to slap her son twice, and went to the hospital again with tears.
In the hospital, Pharaoh comforted his wife, and don’t force others to change, including children. He also said that people have their own thinking and their own ways of doing things. It is difficult to change a person, only self-awareness In order to change oneself. . .
My wife kept nodding her head, and chipped in to comfort Lao Wang. The four old hands clasped together to encourage each other.
At home, the son is fighting in the ups and downs of virtual games. He doesn't care about his father's condition at all. He calls his mother when he is hungry, and even complains to his mother and complains about him.
Mother was in distress. Seeing her son's call, her heart was mixed, and she immediately pressed the reject button. . . .
As a digression, in real life, the relationship between father and son is very complicated. Some confrontations are not the category of gnawing the old, but the difference of concepts.
should not judge who is right and who is wrong, because it is difficult for an upright official to judge housework.
But one thing is certain is that when the father is sick and the son refuses to accompany him, it is a matter of character and morality.
Everything needs to be communicated, communicated, and understood, especially when family members have disagreements, it is necessary to listen to each other’s needs in time, so that major issues are reduced to small issues. When contradictions such as
develop to the point of irreversibility, it is the beginning of harm. Therefore, home is a place where love is emphasized, not a place where reason is emphasized.
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