Generally speaking, men are afraid of women's fame and popularity is higher than themselves. However, Ho Chi-gang's recent praise of Guo Jingjing's made the two people think that Huo Qigang really recognizes his wife, so he is not afraid that Guo Jingjing will always be more concerned than himself. The reason why Ho Qigang’s evaluation of Guo Jingjing is a sloppy is because others did not ask Ho Qigang to praise his wife.
instead asked Huo Zhongxi 's attitude towards his mother Guo Jingjing, such as whether he would write Guo Jingjing as an example when writing an essay. Huo Qigang's reply at that time had three meanings. On the surface, it was said that Huo Zhongxi is still growing up, but in fact he praised Guo Jingjing: he did not show off his achievements, did not encourage his growth, and spoke appropriately. Let’s take a look with you below.
first, Guo Jingjing does not show off her results, so her son doesn’t know how powerful her mother is
Guo Jingjing is the national diving Olympic champion and has won many medals. In the minds of Chinese people, Guo Jingjing was able to endure hardships since she was a child and dared to endure hardships. She retired in her 30s and has already made a lot of contributions to the national sports cause. So even if Guo Jingjing is married and has a child now, everyone still has a high opinion of Guo Jingjing.
However, in Huo Qigang's reply, he learned that 9-year-old Huo Zhongxi was actually not very clear about how powerful his mother Guo Jingjing is. The reason for this situation is mostly because Guo Jingjing doesn't like to show off her achievements. On the field, Guo Jingjing is an athlete, but after getting married and having children, Guo Jingjing is her wife and mother. The achievements on the field will not help her make her mother and wife role better.
So in the eyes of his son Huo Zhongxi, Guo Jingjing is just his mother. In the eyes of outsiders, Guo Jingjing is a hero and a strong woman.
Second, Guo Jingjing does not help grow, so her son can slowly improve
Huo Qigang said that Huo Zhongxi is only 9 years old now and is still crossing the river by feeling the stones. If he is willing to write an essay, it is already very good and will not interfere with what the child actually writes. This reply may make people know Guo Jingjing's attitude towards her son, that is, respect her son's growth stage, rather than to encourage her growth.
In fact, many women, or strong women, especially those mothers who are in wealthy families whose children's educational achievements are considered their own contributions. It will most likely make children very good since childhood, and they can learn a lot of foreign languages, skills, or writing essays before the age of 7. But Huo Zhongxi, whom Huo Qigang mentioned, is a 9-year-old child.
Children may not be willing to write essays, and as parents, they will not force them, but allow their children to have their own ideas and their own little laziness. The treatment Huo Zhongxi enjoyed must be a little different, or it may be too relaxed for Guo Jingjing, who has been practicing by the pool since she was a child. But Guo Jingjing did not let her son accept the childhood that was as hard as she was because her childhood was too hard.
Even if Huo Zhongxi is not outstanding at the age of 9, Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang's family are so good, he can still allow him to rely on his parents for the rest of his life.
Third, Guo Jingjing speaks appropriately, so Huo Qigang just responds to the problem of his son's education with his wife's point of view
Huo Qigang may also be afraid that he does not understand Huo Zhongxi's achievements very much now, and he is not good at writing about his mother's behavior in the composition, so that outsiders feel that he looks down on his wife. Finally, I added that what Huo Qigang is talking about now is what his wife Guo Jingjing means. The implication is that Guo Jingjing has a very high emotional intelligence and speaks very appropriately. She also quotes Guo Jingjing's rhetoric.
I didn’t forget to say that Huo Zhongxi would be proud at any time with a mother like Guo Jingjing. I have to say that Guo Jingjing is very good at speaking in daily life. She just needs to copy the way she educates her children. She doesn’t need to think about it anymore. It may be seen from this that the couple is really in the same mind.
Guo Jingjing is so happy that she can still be recognized by Huo Qigang like this.
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