I am a live-in nanny. I am 42 years old and my employer is a 68-year-old man. I have been serving him since last year. There was an accident in my family last month, and the father generously lent me 60,000. Since then, he has had serious thoughts about me.
Lang Youqing concubine intentionally, I just marry him, so that the happiness of the rest of my life will be lost. When the father was happy, he promised to give me another 100,000, but he was blocked by his children and wanted to I drove out of the house.
01 I went to a big city to work as a babysitter after divorce
I am 42 years old and have been serving my employer for 1 year. I have had an unfortunate marriage and I am currently divorced. After the ex-husband went out to work, there was no news. He thought he had been killed. It was only half a year later that he learned that he had settled outside, and the child's grandparents just kept it secret.
Later, I inquired about the place of my ex-husband and went through the divorce procedures.
After the divorce, my relatives and friends also introduced me to many divorced men, but I had no illusions about love for a long time, and I was also full of fears about marriage, so it was good to be alone. Last year, my son went to college. He also traveled far away to work as a live-in nanny in a big city.
The employer is very kind to me, and I have tried my best to serve him. His children are very satisfied with my job. My salary has been adjusted from the original 6000 to the current 8000. To be honest, I am content.
My son needs money to go to university, and the money I earn is just enough to subsidize him.
02 The old man wants to marry me
I really do my best to serve the old man. The old man gets up at five o'clock, and I go out with him for a stroll; go to the morning market at seven or eight o'clock; the morning market When I came back, the old man had a rest, and I started to prepare meals.
In the afternoon, I beat the old man's arms and rubbed his legs again, helped the old man massage his head at 8 o'clock, and waited for the old man to sleep. This day was very busy and full of arrangements. It's really not easy to earn money for a live-in nanny.
Last month there was an accident in my house, and the father generously used 60,000 yuan. Since then, he has had serious thoughts about me. To be honest, I have been with him for more than a year and I feel a lot of warmth in him.
For a few moments, I think he is my companion. Although he is 68, he is healthy, and the charm of a mature man is revealed in the conversation. He is very charming when he grows old. I like him better. .
03 Employer’s children blocked
Lang has sentimental concubine intention, we hit it off, marrying him, my happiness in the second half of my life has come. When the old man was happy, he planned to give me 100,000 as a gift.
His children turned black and white, and mistakenly thought that I was just for money and wanted to drive me out of the house. Fortunately, the old man protected me and did not hesitate to fight against his children. To be honest, I don't want to see this situation.
I only earn my own money. I don't care about his property. If you give it to me, I will take it. If you don't give it, I won't ask for it. Is this also greedy? (Netizens confided)
04 Octave has something to say
You are 42 years old this year, and your father is 68 years old. You can be your father's age. If you are together, it is a typical "old husband and young wife" problem. Actually Shang is now open-minded, and such couples are not uncommon.
But what I want to say is that you first got along with your uncle employer as a nanny, and your children have scruples. This is reasonable. Let me give you some comments.
1. Continue to serve the old man as a nanny: The salary of the nanny is relatively high, and you are doing well in this house. Listen to your description, the employer’s sons and daughters treated you very well at first , I also gave you a salary increase. This is a recognition of your work. You can state your position, not get married, and continue to serve the old man as a nanny, and only do our nanny's work!
2. Marry the old man: Since the concerns of the children are that you are afraid of you for money, they can do the notarization of the property before marriage. As children, they must also want to find someone who can be sincere to the old man. You have done well, and his children will not treat you badly in the future.
3. Clear your heart: Father 68 this year,Not 48, are you sure you will reap happiness by marrying him? White-haired people give black-haired people pain, and black-haired people give white-haired people. Are you sure you are in love with the old man? It's still a simple gratitude, clear what you want in your heart, see what you are right now, and plan for the future.
Here, I would like to ask all my friends, can a 48-year-old nanny and a 68-year-old man get happiness by getting married?
Are you optimistic about this "old couple and young wife" marriage?
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